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Surname and Support Issues

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1 Surname and Support Issues on Fri Apr 06, 2012 1:18 pm

AngeL_EcstasY


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After 12 years hindi ko nakita ang daughter ko then before siya grumadweyt ng Grade 6 nagpaalam siya sa mother niya na kung pwede daw niyang iinvite ang tatay (ako) niya.

Dumating naman ako sa graduation rites niya at nakita ko ang mga nasayang na panahon na sana nagkasama kami. May mga tanong lang sana ako:

1. Pwede ko ba gawing "Kaapelyido" ko iyong anak ko? Kailangan ko pa ba ng consent ng bata? May karapatan ba ang anak ko na "tumanggi" kung ayaw niya?

Sa ngayon naiilang pa kami sa isa't isa. Gumagawa ako ng paraan para magkalapit ang loob namin sa isa't isa.

2. Humihingi ng financial support ang mother niya kasi highschool na siya. Sa ngayon medyo tight ang budget ko. Biglaan naman kasi ang paghingi niya ng suporta. Meron bang magandang paraan kung paano namin paguusapan ito? Paano kung humingi siya ng 50% ng income ko? May karapatan ba akong tumanngi?

3. Pwede ko bang gawin ito: Paglapitin niya muna kaming mag-ama then sa kana muna namin pagusapan ang kinabukasan ng anak namin? Para sa akin parang wala akong ganang suportahan ang anak ko kasi nga malayo naman ang loob niya.

Any advise? Thanks in advance.

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2 Re: Surname and Support Issues on Sat Apr 07, 2012 2:00 am

attyLLL


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did you sign the child's birth certificate?


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3 Re: Surname and Support Issues on Sat Apr 07, 2012 10:36 am

AngeL_EcstasY


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Yes I did.

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4 Re: Surname and Support Issues on Tue Apr 10, 2012 5:24 pm

attyLLL


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then whoever spent for the child's support has the right to seek reimbursement from you from day 1, and you are required to provide support immediately.


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5 Re: Surname and Support Issues on Wed Apr 11, 2012 4:40 pm

AngeL_EcstasY


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Pinagdamot niya sa akin iyong bata for 12 years. Ngayong nahanap ako ng bata sa facebook at nakita naman niya na sabik na sabik ako sa anak ko. Hinihingan na ako ng support. I'm willing naman but the problem is pinasabik niya lang ako then hinamon niya ako na mag court room na lang daw kami. I'm trying my best to communicate with the mother but nothing to avail.

Pera lang ang habol niya sa akin pero iyong affection ko sa bata ipinagdadamot niya.

May karapatan ba akong tumanggi sa petition niyan Child support kung ipinagdadamot naman niya sa akin ang anak ko?

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6 Re: Surname and Support Issues on Fri Apr 13, 2012 9:39 pm

attyLLL


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i will give support only if you let me see my child = violation of ra 9262


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7 Re: Surname and Support Issues on Thu Apr 19, 2012 1:47 pm

AngeL_EcstasY


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Support = visitation rights?

Pwede po ba ang ganyan?

What if support lang ang habol niya? Asan naman ang karapatan naming mga Ama?

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8 Re: Surname and Support Issues on Thu Apr 19, 2012 3:15 pm

You cannot withhold support becuase you are deprived of visitation rights. The law requires you to support the child from day 1, perhaps during the time of hisher conception...of course having a child entails financial support. That's what the law obliges every parent to provide. moreover as AttyLLL mentioned earlier, failure to provide support is an omission penalized by law.
I urge you to comply...in order for you to avoid being prosecuted for violation of RA 9262

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9 Re: Surname and Support Issues on Thu Apr 19, 2012 9:54 pm

attyLLL


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angel, you should deal with that separately by trying to enforce your visitation rights.


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10 Re: Surname and Support Issues on Fri Apr 20, 2012 2:23 pm

AngeL_EcstasY


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Thank you so much sa mga advice.

I'm willing to support my child naman but the problem is I don't know kung anong pumasok sa utak ng mother ng anak ko Evil or Very Mad at bigla niya akong tatakutin na maglawyer to lawyer kami.

Maraming speculations akong naririnig but the bottomline is obligasyon ko ang anak ko. Naaawa lang ako sa anak ko bakit kailangan pang humantong sa ganitong sitwasyon eh bukal naman sa kalooban ko ang magbigay ng suporta.

Muli ako'y nagpapasalamat sa mga opinion ninyo at payo. Very Happy

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