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16 Re: Child support...Father's Side on Wed May 30, 2012 5:26 pm

concepab


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cathy12 wrote:Gud am po.may asawa po ako at hiniwalayan ako ng asawa dahil nga may iba akong lalaki.Nabuntis po ako ng aking lalaki.Ito po mga katanungan ko:
1.may karapatan ba akong humingi ng sustento sa kabit ko para sa aming anak??
2.kung halimbawa di niya masustentuhan ang anak namin,dapat ba akong magdemanda??
Sana po matulungan nyo ako sa mga katanungan kong ito..Thanks for giving time in reading my complaints.


Legally, ang anak mo from the other guy is considered as your child from your legal husband. and your husband is legally obligated to provide all supports for your child. Unless he will file a petition to deny the child only then you can say that he is not the father. After that you can file a petition for the other guy to acknowledge the child.

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17 Re: Child support...Father's Side on Wed May 30, 2012 6:23 pm

concepab


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joi925 wrote:hello. help me po asap.
married po ako and got separated with 3 kids.

afterwards ngkarun po ako ng live in partner for almost 11years and we had a child 2boys po and 1 girl. ngkahiwalay din po kme because he got another girl pregnant, but even when he was living in with that girl tuloy po ang financial support nya sa 3 kong anak.

ngkarun din po ulet ako ng boyfriend year 2006 but i never had a child with him so nag live in din po kme ng boyfriend ko together with my 1st 3 kids on my 1st marriage and the last 3 kids with my ex live in partner.

my ex live in partner got married to another woman. now they have 2 kids already. sinuportahan nya po anak ko but not fully in the first year of their marriage hanggang sa lumiit na ng lumiit ang naging support nya sa mga anak ko.

wala po akong trabaho and my present live in partner po ang sumasagot sa house rental ko food and all the other expenses that occurs even some for my 6 kids kse po may business sya.

now yung ex live in ko po and his wife demands that i should share equally to all the financial support sa mga anak ko and their referring to school enrollment tuition fees and school materials eh wala po talaga kme ngaun cash bankrupt po kse business ng boyfriend ko.

my ex bf works for a bpo call center and he is the country representative and i heard his earning 6digits monthly plus all the benefits. he bought a new house sends his kids to a posh school while yung mga anak ko po gusto lang nla ipasok sa public school just because i can not give a share. tama po ba yun? i am not asking for a big time support pro sana po yung fair lang.

i am now in search for a lawyer who can defend my kids for child support. gusto ko po sana fair pra sa mga kids ko.

please i need your advise.


for me, what they are asking is fair enough. child support cannot be shouldered by one party only. both parents should give their share. now if you will bring this to court, baka hindi mo din magustuhan ang decision. the common advise is make a honest computation of your children’s need (school, shelter, food, etc..) divided into two. Yung kalahati sa from the father and the other half on you.

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18 Re: Child support...Father's Side on Fri Jun 01, 2012 11:52 am

joi925


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can you call that fair po if what they wanted is for me to share sa tuition pro sila po hinde mag share sa expenses sa bahay? i thought fair treatment is based on what is the fathers capability and be shared to his kids legitimate kids and to my kids...
hinde nman po pra saken hinihinge ko pra sa mga bata. as per his legal wife if i will not share sa tuition sa public nla ipapasok mga anak ko. pro the legal kids will be enrolled to a private school. hinde po ba prang may discrimination?

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19 Child Support on Fri Jun 01, 2012 2:08 pm

arsenia77


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Ako po ay may asawa at may isang anak na lalaki. Nagtrabaho po ako sa Hongkong at may naging karelasyon po ako. Nabuntis po ako ng aking kabit kaya umuwi po ako ng Pinas. Nalaman ko din po na may kinakasama na pala ang aking asawa. Naghiwalay na po kami ng aking asawa at ang panganay ko na anak ay nasa kanyang pagaalaga. Patuloy po akong sinustentuhan ng bf ko na nasa hongkong pa rin. After ilang months po nalaman ko may iba na siyang nobya pero sabi nman po nya tuloy pa rin ang sustento nya. Sinuportahan po nya ako sa aking panganganak. Nang manganak ako pangalan ko ang dinala ng bata dahil kasal pa po ako sa aking unang asawa. Ngayon po ay may balak na magpakasal ang dati kong nobyo na ama ng bagong silang kong anak. Sa ngayon po wala pa akong trabaho kaya gus2 ko po humingi ng tulong sa ama ng bata. Ito po ang aking katanungan:

1. May karapatan po ba ako na humingi ng sustento kahit kasal pa ako sa aking unang asawa.
2. Pwede ko po ba sya ipatanggal sa trabaho sa HongKong kng di cya magsustento sa amin ng anak ko?
3. Kapag kasal na po cya tuloy pa rin po ba ang sustento nya kahit magkaroon na sya ng pamilya?


Salamat po.

Lubos na gumagalang,
Regina

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20 Re: Child support...Father's Side on Sat Jun 02, 2012 9:44 am

attyLLL


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joi, if he is not giving support at all, then file a criminal complaint for economic abuse under ra 9262 so you will have leverage. i do not agree that equal sharing is necessarily fair. it should be based on on financial capacity.

aresenia, you can ask for support, but if you go to court, you will not be entertained because the law will look at your child as that of your husband's.


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21 Re: Child support...Father's Side on Sat Jun 09, 2012 12:40 pm

lite


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san po kami kukuha ng demand letter n ibibigay sa asawa ng frend ko na hindi po nagbibigay ng sustento at kung sakaling balewalain nya po ung demand letter san din po kami magfile ng economic abuse case?

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22 Re: Child support...Father's Side on Mon Jun 11, 2012 6:22 pm

attyLLL


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look up samples on the net or retain a lawyer to draft you one.


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23 Re: Child support...Father's Side on Wed Jul 04, 2012 9:11 pm

mitch13


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hello good day po...my tanung po ko isa po ako mgka anak po ko s dati boyfrend,parehas po kmi single po isa po syang seaman,nung po nanganak po ko nh feb 2006 ngsusustento po xa ng 10thousand a month gang po sa 2008,s kanya po nakapangalan nag bata apelyedo nya po dala ng bata...nung ausust 2008 ng aswa n po xa bgala naging 5thousand n lng ung binibigay nya gang po s april 2010 natigil n po un....s ngayon po nagaaral n ung bata gusto ko sustentuhan nya bata wala nmn po sya anak at ska sya ay 2nd enginer n po...ngpunta n po ko s agency nya sbi po wal daw po xa magagawa ng unta n rin po ko s owwa kya nlamn ko s osm ang agenya nya anu po b ang dapat mo gawin maraming salamat po sana makatungon po kau godbless u po

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24 Re: Child support...Father's Side on Thu Jul 05, 2012 10:07 am

ibonidarna


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Pao nai-apelyido sa kanya ang bata? Did he acknowledge the child?

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25 Re: Child support...Father's Side on Thu Jul 05, 2012 2:34 pm

mitch13


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opo naka apelyedo skanya ang bata dun s bith certifaction ng bata my isang papel po n affidavit of acknowledgment?admisision of paternity my pirma po nya meron copy n galing ng NSO

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