Since December of 2011, M has seen another guy. The kids are hurt and traumatized. J wants to take the kids away. Should J (in the presence of a public official, police and another witness) just have her kids tell their M that they don't want to be with her anymore, and want to go with J? Can they leave without any legal repercussions against J?
I'm scared for my friend since M could easily hurt herself or be hurt by someone, and tell everybody that she was physically attacked by J. The problem is, M could conveniently say that J has a motive to hurt her because of what she is doing.
The in-laws are getting involved, as well. Can J do something for the in-laws to stop intruding their affairs.