medyo mahaba talaga ang message ko kasi one time lang ako pedeng magsend. dami details but i hope they will give more clear info on what transpires.....
my husband has an affair with our common friend but denies it to me. have several direct and indirect evidences pointing to the girl like i heard them talking when my husband unknowingly accepted my call after rejecting them 3x but i wasn't able to record it. i got a lot of txt msgs from the mistress' husband telling many things that coincide with my husband's sched, saw her name and account number written on a piece of paper in my husband's notebook when he got home secretly but was able to get his things, my husband and his mistress' email add and password, webcam pic as snapshot, all i saw from his laptop. i told him but he only answered me that all was a hearsay, di totoo, di naman siya nagpapadala ng pera kasi bawal sa barko nila....
seaman siya and di ko alam almost 4yrs na ang affair, pinag-aaral ang college student na anak ng mistress niya and sunod sa luho lahat silang mag-iina. the mistress left her husband for not having the capacity to support them. messenger lang daw kasi ang asawa niya! di ko mapaamin ang husband ko, kahit hinuli na namin sa naia na di niya alam na alam ko na ang sched niya. itinago nya ang pag-uwi nya sa akin, di siya nagcellfone, once lang tumawag in 3mos na nsa barko siya. the thing is ako pa ang pinablotter ng father ng mistress kasi i had an encounter with her sa bus and pinahiya ko siya by telling na siya ang kabit ng husband ko. millions na ang kinita ng asawa ko pero di niya pinapakita sa akin, i don't even see his wallet for almost 2yrs now kapag andito siya.
last year her husband text me and told me what he found out sa inbox and sent items niya sa cp. i even met with him in manila and talked how was things are going on between his wife and my husband. dati di ko siya pinaniniwalaan pero when i checked the infos like di siya umuwi magkasama sila, the number of my husband was identified though i denied it, to protect my husband, pero iniwanan siya kasi di daw siya nagsusupport ng tama. hiniwalayan siya!
can i sue the mistress and my husband with adultery and concubinage? can i use R.A. 9262 for psychological violence and even economic? kasi ayaw nya akong bigyan ng buong capital na kailangan ko sa business. ang mistress niya me perfume business, lending business and iba pang sideline na bigay niya lahat ng capital. am planning to sue him with abandonment case kasi di niya sinasabi ang agency niya, when is he leaving, where is he working, no phone calls, no texting....though i have my allotment na wala pang 20% sa gross income niya pero stated niya sa akin sa basic is 80% but his net is $6thou. accumulate income for 2011 is PhP 2.7Millions but he only sent me almost $10k plus for 9mos. mga 64thou USD against mine 10K USD, every 3mos ang contract niya. 1 1/2 mos na siya sa mistress niya bago pala siya umuuwi and later ko na lang nalaman kasi sbi niya 3weeks lang ang vacation niya! dami na niya kasinungalingan ginawa.
am having a lot of anxieties and stress from this plight i have since last july 31 2011. hirap na ang kalooban ko sa sama ng loob. sept. 25 nastroke ako ng di ko alam sa sobrang sama ng loob sa kanya sa text niya na me nagsusumbong sa kanya.kaya ako ang inaway niya at pinaniwalaan niya ang nagsumbong pala na sad to say pati parents nung babae niya!
sensya na atty, gusto ko lang malaman if magpaprosper ang adultery case against the mistress? can i not sue my husband or should i? confused na ako talaga...gusto ko kami pa din pero di siya gawa ng way to show that he still value the relationship.
thank you for bearing with me.....almost a year in pain, hurting, insulting etc. i feel so miserable and have a low-esteem.....