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1 legal rights of an illegitimate child on Sun Jul 15, 2012 1:34 am

kitikat


Arresto Menor
i entered a relationship where the man was married. 12 years of relationship, and we had 2 year old daughter, under his surname kasi pumayag siya. 4 ang anak niya sa wife niya(3 of the kids knew about me and my daughter)
The father of my daughter works at city hall manila as a government employee. He never gave a single cent when i gave birth, etc. He started giving allowance of 3.000 pesos few months after. But there are times, he cant give money daw.
Nagbibigay naman po siya ng 3,000. kaso minsan nagkukulang daw talaga. Minsan sasabihin niya abonohan ko muna pero hindi na niya nababaydan. The child lives with me so most ng maiisip mong gastos sakin lahat pati vaccines checkups lahat. I am supported by my sister kaya nakakasurvive.
I am not aware kung magkano yung sahod niya, ang alm ko lang magnacarta daw un inaabot niya sakin, yung sweldo daw niya s wife niya napupunta.
I confronted him kasi nagkukulang na din talaga ako ngayon and napapadalas yung sakit nung bata.
Sabi ko, if ever na he wont be able to provide monthly, ill take it legally. Ang sagot po nung lalaki, gawin ko daw yun at 1000 lang o wala pa akong makuha. parang pasalamat ka pa (i felt bad po kasi he doesnt help sa pagaalaga talaga at all esp kapag need xa ng bata. Nagpapakta naman xa at nakikipaglaro sa bata, akala ko tunay na inaako ung bata.
This month, pinuntahan ko po siya kasi walang wala ako, naubos na yung budget ko sa anak ko that i need help na talaga.
Kaso po ang humarap sakin yung wife niya, as expected, lahat sinabi nung wife masasakit. hindi ako sumagot kasi i know where i stand. Sabi ko po sa wife niya, just let me talk to him kahit anjan ka pa, gusto ko lang ng sustento for the kid. Instead na makausap ko po yung lalaki, yung asawa na po ang humarap sakin. Theres no way daw po na makakausap ko yung lalaki kasi wala akong karapatan at ginagamit ko lang daw yung bata. At sinabi niya po sakin na hindi naman daw po anak nung lalaki yung anak ko para sustentuhan. nagawagawa ko lang daw po iyon. Yung lalaki daw po mismo yung nagsasabi na anak daw po ng ibang guy yung anak ko sa kanya, at ako lang daw ang lumapit talaga(which is not true. though may mali ako kasi nung nalamn na may wife sya e tinuloy ko pa din, pero now wala na talaga kami).
wala na po akong interes sa lalaki, gusto ko lang po na magact siya as tatay kapag kailangan po siya nung bata. Hindi na po nangangamusta yung lalaki sa bata. obviously, he doesnt care na po. i just wanna know if i can file charges against the guy. And yung wife sa pangungutya niya po ng sobra even tapos na po yung samin nung lalaki.
And kung may maikakaso din po ba sa akin yung wife niya in any way.thnk you po.
para s reader lang: Please dont make any bad comments.

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2 Re: legal rights of an illegitimate child on Sun Jul 15, 2012 1:49 pm

chekchek


Arresto Menor
hi,

I am reading a lot of posts here and I learned that you can file civil case and criminal case under ra9262 to the father. tama poh ba Atty? Smile

pwede ka din kasuhan ng wife nia for interfering her family, since alam mo na married na sya but I know monetary damages lng makukuha nia.

we're in the same situation ang kaibahan lng buntis nko nung ngpakasal sya sa iba.

Let's fight for our kid Smile hehe

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3 Re: legal rights of an illegitimate child on Sun Jul 15, 2012 7:52 pm

concepab


Reclusion Perpetua
kitikat wrote:i entered a relationship where the man was married. 12 years of relationship, and we had 2 year old daughter, under his surname kasi pumayag siya. 4 ang anak niya sa wife niya(3 of the kids knew about me and my daughter)
The father of my daughter works at city hall manila as a government employee. He never gave a single cent when i gave birth, etc. He started giving allowance of 3.000 pesos few months after. But there are times, he cant give money daw.
Nagbibigay naman po siya ng 3,000. kaso minsan nagkukulang daw talaga. Minsan sasabihin niya abonohan ko muna pero hindi na niya nababaydan. The child lives with me so most ng maiisip mong gastos sakin lahat pati vaccines checkups lahat. I am supported by my sister kaya nakakasurvive.
I am not aware kung magkano yung sahod niya, ang alm ko lang magnacarta daw un inaabot niya sakin, yung sweldo daw niya s wife niya napupunta.
I confronted him kasi nagkukulang na din talaga ako ngayon and napapadalas yung sakit nung bata.
Sabi ko, if ever na he wont be able to provide monthly, ill take it legally. Ang sagot po nung lalaki, gawin ko daw yun at 1000 lang o wala pa akong makuha. parang pasalamat ka pa (i felt bad po kasi he doesnt help sa pagaalaga talaga at all esp kapag need xa ng bata. Nagpapakta naman xa at nakikipaglaro sa bata, akala ko tunay na inaako ung bata.
This month, pinuntahan ko po siya kasi walang wala ako, naubos na yung budget ko sa anak ko that i need help na talaga.
Kaso po ang humarap sakin yung wife niya, as expected, lahat sinabi nung wife masasakit. hindi ako sumagot kasi i know where i stand. Sabi ko po sa wife niya, just let me talk to him kahit anjan ka pa, gusto ko lang ng sustento for the kid. Instead na makausap ko po yung lalaki, yung asawa na po ang humarap sakin. Theres no way daw po na makakausap ko yung lalaki kasi wala akong karapatan at ginagamit ko lang daw yung bata. At sinabi niya po sakin na hindi naman daw po anak nung lalaki yung anak ko para sustentuhan. nagawagawa ko lang daw po iyon. Yung lalaki daw po mismo yung nagsasabi na anak daw po ng ibang guy yung anak ko sa kanya, at ako lang daw ang lumapit talaga(which is not true. though may mali ako kasi nung nalamn na may wife sya e tinuloy ko pa din, pero now wala na talaga kami).
wala na po akong interes sa lalaki, gusto ko lang po na magact siya as tatay kapag kailangan po siya nung bata. Hindi na po nangangamusta yung lalaki sa bata. obviously, he doesnt care na po. i just wanna know if i can file charges against the guy. And yung wife sa pangungutya niya po ng sobra even tapos na po yung samin nung lalaki.
And kung may maikakaso din po ba sa akin yung wife niya in any way.thnk you po.
para s reader lang: Please dont make any bad comments.

Did he signed the BC? Send him a letter demanding a regular (monthly) financial support. Indicate in your letter all the needs of your child, at para parehas ang responsibilities hatiin nyo, 50/50 kayo sa gastos. If nothing happened you can go for economic abuse under RA9262.

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4 Re: legal rights of an illegitimate child on Mon Jul 16, 2012 12:05 am

kitikat


Arresto Menor
yes, he did. hindi ko na nakakausap yung lalaki. yung wife niya lang yung last na nakausap ko, she told me na wala daw akong makukuha sa sahod ng asawa niya dahil nga daw ginusto ko yun. at hindi naman daw siguradong anak un nung lalaki at tinatanggi nga daw. wala daw ako mahihita kasi mababa lang daw ang sahod ni lalaki at kulang pa para sa anak niya at siya daw ang humahawak ng sahod kaya kahit anu daw pong gawin ko wala daw akong mahihita.
yung interfering her family na case ba? will it affect me pagnagabroad ako? namention u din na monetary un. panu if wala talaga akong sariling pera for that?
so ang first move ko is to send him a demand letter. panu po kapag inayawan niya? where should i take it then para legal? baranggay or court kagad?
thank you...

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5 Re: legal rights of an illegitimate child on Tue Jul 17, 2012 6:35 pm

attyLLL


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after you send a demand letter, you have to file a complaint affidavit at the prosecutor's office in the place where you reside


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6 Re: legal rights of an illegitimate child on Thu Jul 19, 2012 8:30 am

gjian7


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atty,i have a slightly similar situation with her and the father of my child dont want to give the right amount of support. He abandon us for 3years and when i was able to start asking for support he would just give me 500pesos every payday which is obviously not enough and he has so many complains that he has a lot of "utang" but still can afford to buy his collection of FHM magazine and toys. What can i accuse him of? I know econimic abuse but what if he still just give whenever he wants? Nagugutom po talaga ang bata at pinapaasa pa nya.please help.

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7 Re: legal rights of an illegitimate child on Sat Jul 21, 2012 11:20 am

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an econ abuse case, imo, is your best remedy. send a demand letter first


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