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1 Child support? on Thu Jul 26, 2012 12:49 pm

GuestGuy1


Arresto Menor
Hi ask ko lng po, my problema ako, i have a gf before tapos she got pregnant and i have doubts that i am not the father since almost 3years kami, nirespeto ko yung family nya na hindi kami mgka.anak muna since we're not yet married, when this time comes, ngdadalawang isip ako bakit nPreggy siya since regular mens. siya tapos those time we had its end of the month na na dapat mens. na nya, alam kung hindi siya fertile, and since i have doubts, pinaUltrasound ko kung ilang months/days na, tapos yun nga the result is mid month yung fertilization eh after ng last menstration nya wla naman kaming gnagawa. and then she said that i am the father of her child since ako ang bf nya nun, but before that i have hear rumors na meron lalaki na kasama sa gabi kasi kabarkada nya, even my brother told me nga nkita nya na my kasamang lalaki na kaholding hands. but since ayaw namin ng gulo, pumunta parin kami sa bahay nila, inayos namin na kung pwede supportahan nlng financially, but they insisted, na wag na, di nila kelangan, but ngayn yung babae, nghihingi ng financial support. even threatening my whole family through text. My Question is, can she file me a case? tatawag kasi sa opisina, pati mga manager ko. what can you advice me to do with this? what case can i file also to her regarding sa palaging tatawag sa opisina since di nman kami legally married? ayaw ko naman pgtawanan ng mga tao na inako ang bata na di sakin.

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2 Re: Child support? on Thu Jul 26, 2012 11:23 pm

attyLLL


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has she given birth yet? did you sign the birth certificate?


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3 Re: Child support? on Fri Jul 27, 2012 12:04 am

poisonous maldita


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my brother also had the same problem. but the girl already give birth this month and as of this moment my brother didn't sign any birth cert. But before that they had this MOA that my brother will give support if he sign the birth cert and file affidavit of desistance regarding the case that they file which is RA 9262. what other action can my brother do? Because the girl threat my brother that she will re-open the same case and send subpoena and warrant to his office? what charges can we file against the girl?

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4 Re: Child support? on Sat Jul 28, 2012 9:54 am

attyLLL


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why, he won't fulfill his obligations under the MOA?


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5 Re: Child support? on Mon Jul 30, 2012 12:02 pm

GuestGuy1


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Hi Atty, i havent sign the birth cert. since she will be due this august. my doubts come to the point that i am not the father since she always go home late with a guy she said just a friend but my brother saw them holding hands late at night, it hurts me but i dont want her anymore, living with doubts will keep me in sane. but before this happens we tried to settle with them through financial support but they insisted that they dont want support from me or anything from my family, but now the girl ask a support, her brother also threatened me through text and she also including my whole family. what actions should i do with this?



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6 Re: Child support? on Mon Jul 30, 2012 12:27 pm

GuestGuy1


Arresto Menor
Another question, if she will file a case? what case could i file also?

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7 Re: Child support? on Mon Jul 30, 2012 4:23 pm

concepab


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GuestGuy1 wrote:Another question, if she will file a case? what case could i file also?

RA9262 VAWC. since you are the boyfriend, her family will assume that you're the father of the child. the best remedy is DNA test.

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8 Re: Child support? on Mon Jul 30, 2012 9:25 pm

poisonous maldita


Arresto Menor
hi attyLLL,

my brother already fulfill his obligation in MOA. We gave financial support and even agreed amount of expenses to her deliveration of the child. But we have a doubts that it was not his son. and the girl always threat my brother. The girl gave birth last July 23 and as of now my brother did not sign any birth cert for him to acknowledge that it was his son. I think that they should be the one to look for us since they know where we live and it was not ours for us to go there in Bulacan just to sign the birth cert. They not even ask us to sign actually. Need help on this atty.

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9 Re: Child support? on Wed Aug 01, 2012 1:58 pm

jho2


Arresto Menor
Hi! My brother in law died 2 months ago.He has previous marriage but not annulled.then meron po sya live in for 15 yrs. which resulted to have illegitimate children.Her legal wife wala po sya anak.Ngayon po yung mga bata forcing my mother in law to give them support in their education,house rental,bills and daily allowance kahit po senior citizen n at wala ng earnings.Sa law po b dito sa Pilipinas Obligado po b siya magbigay.

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10 Re: Child support? on Fri Aug 03, 2012 11:21 am

GuestGuy1


Arresto Menor
up ko lang po. atty. need advice please.

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11 Re: Child support? on Thu Aug 09, 2012 2:18 pm

GuestGuy1


Arresto Menor
Atty. need your advice please...

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12 Re: Child support? on Fri Aug 10, 2012 5:05 am

imamom


Arresto Menor
hi atty.. i've been separated for 7 years to my husband..nagkahiwalay kami dahil nagkaroon siya ng ibang babae..hindi siya nakapag support sa bata dahil ang kinakatwiran niya ay crisis siya dahil nagkaanak na din siya sa babae..and now nakapag abroad na siya nakipag communicate na siya para gawin ang obligasyon niya sa anak namin..pero ang sabi niya next year na daw po niya magagawa yung regular na support dahil tatapusin niya na muna yung mga utang niya..makakapagdemand po ba ako ng monthly support sa kanya o hindi po kasi sabi niya tuition lang muna ang mabibigay niya Apr 2013 then pagpasok ng May saka ang regular na padala.yung iba like books ako na daw muna kasi nag aaral na din yung anak niya sa iba.Magagawa ko po bang obligahin siya na gawin lahat ng expenses ng anak ko sa school kasi ang kinakatwiran niya ay may trabaho namna ako.

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13 Re: Child support? on Sat Aug 11, 2012 12:10 pm

attyLLL


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guest guy/ maldita, you don't have any legal obligation to acknowledge the child. i recommend you write a letter regarding your position. even better if you have a lawyer do it for you. explain that your previous support was just to buy peace and not to acknowledge the child. that's assuming that their previous written statements didn't say they acknowledge the child.

imamom, send a demand letter to his last known address then you can file a complaint for economic abuse against him


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14 Re: Child support? on Mon Aug 13, 2012 2:13 pm

GuestGuy1


Arresto Menor
Thanks for the advice AttyLLL.

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15 Re: Child support? on Tue Aug 21, 2012 1:36 pm

imamom


Arresto Menor
salamat atty...

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16 Re: Child support? on Thu Aug 30, 2012 3:59 pm

GuestGuy1


Arresto Menor
atty, advice po, ito yung problem ko, yung girl nanganak na, hndi ako ngsign ng birthday certificate. tapos nalaman ko na mgfile daw sya ng kaso against me, before sa previous post ko dito, we offer thru financially tapos ayaw nila para wla na sanang gulo, sabi ko na kahit may duda ako na hndi sakin, sabi ko kahit financially nlng. sila na umayaw. what can i do in case mgFile sila ang child support? is FB message and post can be a proof na inayawan nila yun? pngtwanan pa kami na etchapwera daw sa bahay nila, tsaka yung message na di na ako kelangan. can a pictures of her with other guy can be my proof?

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17 Re: Child support? on Thu Aug 30, 2012 6:50 pm

lene_06


Arresto Menor
Hi atty
gusto ko lang pong mag tanung about sa karapatan ng aking anak he is 8yrs old at naka apelido sa kanyang father at naka acknowledge ung father sa birth certificate nia...may karapatan pu ba akong mang hingi ng sustento sa kanya?hindi po kami kasal at meron na rin po siyang kinakasamang iba may tatlong anak na po sila at isa siyang police...anu po ang dapat kong gawin para maka panghingi po ako ng sustento sa father ng anak ko.thnx po ng marami sana po matulungan nio po ako....

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18 Re: Child support? on Fri Aug 31, 2012 1:39 pm

GuestGuy1


Arresto Menor
atty need advice po.

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19 Re: Child support? on Mon Sep 03, 2012 7:35 pm

GuestGuy1


Arresto Menor
atty, need advice po.

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20 Re: Child support? on Mon Sep 03, 2012 8:15 pm

concepab


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GuestGuy1 wrote:atty, advice po, ito yung problem ko, yung girl nanganak na, hndi ako ngsign ng birthday certificate. tapos nalaman ko na mgfile daw sya ng kaso against me, before sa previous post ko dito, we offer thru financially tapos ayaw nila para wla na sanang gulo, sabi ko na kahit may duda ako na hndi sakin, sabi ko kahit financially nlng. sila na umayaw. what can i do in case mgFile sila ang child support? is FB message and post can be a proof na inayawan nila yun? pngtwanan pa kami na etchapwera daw sa bahay nila, tsaka yung message na di na ako kelangan. can a pictures of her with other guy can be my proof?

just deny the child. let them face the trouble of proving that you are the actual father... once they prove it, only then they can ask for financial support for the kid.

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21 Re: Child support? on Mon Sep 03, 2012 8:16 pm

concepab


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lene_06 wrote:Hi atty
gusto ko lang pong mag tanung about sa karapatan ng aking anak he is 8yrs old at naka apelido sa kanyang father at naka acknowledge ung father sa birth certificate nia...may karapatan pu ba akong mang hingi ng sustento sa kanya?hindi po kami kasal at meron na rin po siyang kinakasamang iba may tatlong anak na po sila at isa siyang police...anu po ang dapat kong gawin para maka panghingi po ako ng sustento sa father ng anak ko.thnx po ng marami sana po matulungan nio po ako....

File economic abuse case against him.

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22 Re: Child support? on Thu Sep 13, 2012 12:50 am

lswitchl


Arresto Menor
attyLLL pano po kaya yung sa case ko. wala nman po syang ipinadalang formal demand letter. pero bkt sya nakapag file ng complaint for ra9262. kasi po kaka received ko lang ng subpoena today. last may2012 nagkausap po kami and i commited to give them 3k/month. kaso i failed po dahil may sarili na din akong family ngayon. at sunod sunod po ang naging problema. like may father in law was hospitalized 2 weeks and died last july. im communicating with my x. pero hindi talga sya makaintindi at pilit nangungulit. at eto na nga po. nareceived ko today sobpoena na. without even sending a demand letter prior.please help atty LLL.

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23 Re: Child support? on Thu Sep 13, 2012 10:57 pm

attyLLL


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a demand letter is not necessary, but i always recommend it as a form of evidence. is this your wife?


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24 Re: Child support? on Fri Sep 14, 2012 3:44 pm

north1978pole


Arresto Menor
good day,

Manghihingi rin po ako ng advice regarding child support. Ng maghiwalay kami ng asawa ko the first year nagbibigay sya ng support but the next he stop totally the support and they manage to informed me(through a friend) na hindi na daw magbibigay ng support ang husband ko at sinabi din na kapag nagfile daw ako ng case meron sila ipapakita na may hinuhulugan na banko ang husband ko para daw sa anak ko in other word siya na mag iipon para sa anak namin at hndi na magbibigay pa, yon daw and advise ng lawyer nya.

Meron pa ba ganitong case? incase na magfile ako ng case meron ba ako laban? my husband is working abroad..

salamat po in advance sa maipapayo nyo.

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25 Re: Child support? on Sat Sep 15, 2012 2:48 pm

lswitchl


Arresto Menor
opo ATTYLLL sya po yung dating ka leave_in partner ko pero hnd po kami kasal.ano po bang dapat kong gawin? ako na nga po ang iniwan. tapos ngayong naka move on na ako. saka po sya nag butt in ng ganito

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