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1 Sexual harassment on Tue Sep 11, 2012 3:17 pm

AndreaGriffin


Arresto Menor
Need advise :

What happened here is I had a relationship with a guy who has been seeing out other girls w/o me knowing it - pero nung nalaman ko - unang beses pinatawad ko (worst decision ever), gave him another chance. However for the number of years that we've been together, umabot hanggang sa 4th time na pinatawad ko sya, this has caused me so much stress and trauma dahil nalaman ko na andami na pala nyang naiuuwing babae na nakikilala lang nya sa networking sites. Nakakatakot dahil baka pati ako e nahawa na nya dahil malay ko ba kung san nya pinagppulot yung mga babae na yun.

However recently, I found out that even yung friend ko e muntik na nyang magalaw. she made the right decision not to let him do so - he was even telling her things na kahit blowjob lang daw (sry for the term) and that he even undressed infront of her to seduce her. But since ayaw nga nya, coz she's too young (20) and him (28), takot sya syempre mabuntis at baka ano pa masabi ng pamilya nya. Also, sabi nya na this guy, e umamin sa kanya na may dalawa na syang anak - first was with a g.r.o - the girl left him for a better(rich?) man, the other girl - si guy naman ang nang-iwan. Kaya my friend really declined on doing it kase pinakita lang netong guy kung gano sya ka-iresponsable.

Now this guy, is threatening me and my friend na kami pa naninira sa kanya - we have proof ng mga chat accts nya ng kung sino2ng babae at pati na rin ng bogus accts nya sa networking sites (na nilagay p nya talaga picture nya).

can we file something back against him - as I can see it, this guy is a womanizer and a habitual liar. Iba lagi kwento nya kung baket sya nakkipagbreak with his previous gf's - kwento na laging pabor sa side nya at sya yung mukang dehado. Nalaman laman ko na nga lang dun sa isang babae na ginamit nya rin na nagconfide saken na ang kwento naman sakanya e ang reason daw ng breakup namen e di alam netong lalake at nagulat na lang daw na pagbalik nyang Manila galing province e nakipagbreak nako. Samantalang andito sya nun at wag nyang sabihing hindi nya alam ang rason dahil sya may gawa ng rason kng baket kami naghiwalay dahil di na sya natigil tigil sa pangbabae nya.

tanong lang po, ano pwede namen ikaso sa kanya? may ilan nakong kilala na kinausap ako at nag-confide saken na ginamit lang sila nung lalakeng yun. also i think the impt points here are :

-he already went out with a g.r.o., we'll never know how high the chances are that he has not been infected by any STD's or worst by HIV.
-he has been going out having sex with multiple women - i got proof for this.
-he has 2 kids, pareho di nya sinuportahan
-he can pose a threat to more women in the future if unstopped specially if he's infected.
-and can this be filed under sexual harassment or something similar?

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2 Re: Sexual harassment on Wed Sep 12, 2012 5:46 pm

concepab


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AndreaGriffin wrote:Need advise :

What happened here is I had a relationship with a guy who has been seeing out other girls w/o me knowing it - pero nung nalaman ko - unang beses pinatawad ko (worst decision ever), gave him another chance. However for the number of years that we've been together, umabot hanggang sa 4th time na pinatawad ko sya, this has caused me so much stress and trauma dahil nalaman ko na andami na pala nyang naiuuwing babae na nakikilala lang nya sa networking sites. Nakakatakot dahil baka pati ako e nahawa na nya dahil malay ko ba kung san nya pinagppulot yung mga babae na yun.

However recently, I found out that even yung friend ko e muntik na nyang magalaw. she made the right decision not to let him do so - he was even telling her things na kahit blowjob lang daw (sry for the term) and that he even undressed infront of her to seduce her. But since ayaw nga nya, coz she's too young (20) and him (28), takot sya syempre mabuntis at baka ano pa masabi ng pamilya nya. Also, sabi nya na this guy, e umamin sa kanya na may dalawa na syang anak - first was with a g.r.o - the girl left him for a better(rich?) man, the other girl - si guy naman ang nang-iwan. Kaya my friend really declined on doing it kase pinakita lang netong guy kung gano sya ka-iresponsable.

Now this guy, is threatening me and my friend na kami pa naninira sa kanya - we have proof ng mga chat accts nya ng kung sino2ng babae at pati na rin ng bogus accts nya sa networking sites (na nilagay p nya talaga picture nya).

can we file something back against him - as I can see it, this guy is a womanizer and a habitual liar. Iba lagi kwento nya kung baket sya nakkipagbreak with his previous gf's - kwento na laging pabor sa side nya at sya yung mukang dehado. Nalaman laman ko na nga lang dun sa isang babae na ginamit nya rin na nagconfide saken na ang kwento naman sakanya e ang reason daw ng breakup namen e di alam netong lalake at nagulat na lang daw na pagbalik nyang Manila galing province e nakipagbreak nako. Samantalang andito sya nun at wag nyang sabihing hindi nya alam ang rason dahil sya may gawa ng rason kng baket kami naghiwalay dahil di na sya natigil tigil sa pangbabae nya.

tanong lang po, ano pwede namen ikaso sa kanya? may ilan nakong kilala na kinausap ako at nag-confide saken na ginamit lang sila nung lalakeng yun. also i think the impt points here are :

-he already went out with a g.r.o., we'll never know how high the chances are that he has not been infected by any STD's or worst by HIV.
-he has been going out having sex with multiple women - i got proof for this.
-he has 2 kids, pareho di nya sinuportahan
-he can pose a threat to more women in the future if unstopped specially if he's infected.
-and can this be filed under sexual harassment or something similar?

Ano nga ba ang gusto mong ikaso sa kanya? You are not married, right? So hindi mo pwedeng kasuhan ang infidelity nya. Sexual harassment? You can try, but you have to have a strong proof for that.

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3 Re: Sexual harassment on Thu Sep 13, 2012 6:56 am

AndreaGriffin


Arresto Menor
concepab wrote:

Ano nga ba ang gusto mong ikaso sa kanya? You are not married, right? So hindi mo pwedeng kasuhan ang infidelity nya. Sexual harassment? You can try, but you have to have a strong proof for that.

yes, we are not married.

and exactly, I want to know kung ano pwede kong ikaso sa kanya kaya po ako nag-post dito. Neutral

A colleague of mine already gave me an idea, since her husband is a lawyer, I just posted this here, since I want to check if there's anyone else out there (lawyers or lawyers in the making) who can suggest ano pa pwedeng isampang kaso sa taong to.

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4 Re: Sexual harassment on Thu Sep 13, 2012 10:54 pm

attyLLL


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unfortunately, being an a-hole by itself, is not a crime.

what are you accused of doing? and can he prove it?


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5 Re: Sexual harassment on Sat Sep 15, 2012 4:09 pm

concepab


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AndreaGriffin wrote:
concepab wrote:

Ano nga ba ang gusto mong ikaso sa kanya? You are not married, right? So hindi mo pwedeng kasuhan ang infidelity nya. Sexual harassment? You can try, but you have to have a strong proof for that.

yes, we are not married.

and exactly, I want to know kung ano pwede kong ikaso sa kanya kaya po ako nag-post dito. Neutral

A colleague of mine already gave me an idea, since her husband is a lawyer, I just posted this here, since I want to check if there's anyone else out there (lawyers or lawyers in the making) who can suggest ano pa pwedeng isampang kaso sa taong to.

It is not important which case you can use. the thing is, can you prove it?

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