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1 custody of children on Sat Sep 22, 2012 12:55 am

survivorme13


Arresto Menor
Hi! I'am married with my husband for almost 2 years when he decided to work abroad..he had a mistress and nabalitaan ko na magkasama na rin sila sa iisang bahay.. 1 year and a half na rin na ayaw n nyang mkipag-usap sa akin & 3 months na syang di nagbibigay ng suporta para sa 2 kids namin. Ngayon nabalitaan nya na meron akong naging BF and ang gusto nya sa poder ng mga parents nya mapunta ang mga anak nmin, magfafile daw sya for the custody of our children, dhl ako daw ang nangaliwa. in short binabaligtad nya ako dhil never nya inamin sa akin ung relasyon nya sa mistress nya kahit mrami ng nagsasabi skin na ka-officemate nya na nagsasama na sila.. Ang gusto ko malaman malaki pa rin ba ang chance na sa akin pa rin mapunta ang custody ng anak ko kahit na nagkaron din ako ng iba? since almost 1 year n rin naman nung sinabi nyang hiwalay na kami at hnd na nmin maayos ung relasyon nmin bago ako nagkaron ng iba..

Na kung tutuusin sya naman ang nangiwan sa amin..and 3 months na syang hindi nagbibigay ng support pra sa anak nya dhil iniisip nya na pamilya ko ang nakikinabang sa padala nya kaya ayaw n nyang magbigay.

please help. i want my children to be in my custody and nothing more..

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2 Re: custody of children on Sat Sep 22, 2012 3:56 am

arden2603


Arresto Mayor
The custody of children below 7 years old shall be given to the mother unless the court finds compelling reason. Infidelity is not a compelling reason for your husband to take custody of your children.

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3 Re: custody of children on Sat Sep 22, 2012 2:52 pm

concepab


Reclusion Perpetua
arden2603 wrote:The custody of children below 7 years old shall be given to the mother unless the court finds compelling reason. Infidelity is not a compelling reason for your husband to take custody of your children.

the infidelity itself may not be a compelling reason, but the immorality of having an illicit affairs can be used.

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4 Re: custody of children on Fri Oct 05, 2012 12:34 am

survivorme13


Arresto Menor
If Infidelity is not a compelling reason and as "concepab" says "Immorality" of having an illicit affair can be used.. then my question is does it matter who among the parents, first to have an illicit affair? What if The father is the first to have it then afterwards the mother also have an illicit affair..where now the custody of the children be given if they can't manage an arrangements about the custody.

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5 Re: custody of children on Fri Oct 05, 2012 4:30 pm

victim ra9262


Arresto Menor
survivorme13 wrote:Hi! I'am married with my husband for almost 2 years when he decided to work abroad..he had a mistress and nabalitaan ko na magkasama na rin sila sa iisang bahay.. 1 year and a half na rin na ayaw n nyang mkipag-usap sa akin & 3 months na syang di nagbibigay ng suporta para sa 2 kids namin. Ngayon nabalitaan nya na meron akong naging BF and ang gusto nya sa poder ng mga parents nya mapunta ang mga anak nmin, magfafile daw sya for the custody of our children, dhl ako daw ang nangaliwa. in short binabaligtad nya ako dhil never nya inamin sa akin ung relasyon nya sa mistress nya kahit mrami ng nagsasabi skin na ka-officemate nya na nagsasama na sila.. Ang gusto ko malaman malaki pa rin ba ang chance na sa akin pa rin mapunta ang custody ng anak ko kahit na nagkaron din ako ng iba? since almost 1 year n rin naman nung sinabi nyang hiwalay na kami at hnd na nmin maayos ung relasyon nmin bago ako nagkaron ng iba..

Na kung tutuusin sya naman ang nangiwan sa amin..and 3 months na syang hindi nagbibigay ng support pra sa anak nya dhil iniisip nya na pamilya ko ang nakikinabang sa padala nya kaya ayaw n nyang magbigay.

please help. i want my children to be in my custody and nothing more..


kun ako asawa mo iiwanan talga kita 2 yrs palang nasa iba bansa at 3 months lng hindi nkapg padala ng support sa anak mo eh nkipg relasyon kna sa iba... tanong mo nga minsan sa sarili mo kun deserving kba talga maging mother sa isang pamilya..

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6 to victim ra9262 on Fri Oct 05, 2012 10:55 pm

survivorme13


Arresto Menor
before you react..pwedeng pakibasa ng paulit ulit yung story ko...the father of my child who first cheated me and i have all my evidences to prove it. I'm not the one who cheated him in the first place. Before i got a relationship to someone else, it is clear to him that we are already separated. And He decided it..not me. He stop supporting our children financially for three months now because he said he is saving it for an annulment.. If he is really concerned and love his children he will not abandon them just because he is angry with his wife. He also stop his communication with his children for about 1 and a half years for the reason that he dont want to see me?? Napakababaw ng dahilan, right? If gusto, mraming paraan, if ayaw mrami talagang dahilan.

If he really wants the custody of his child the big questions is why HE STOP SUPPORTING HIS CHILDREN?
Nagpapatunay lang na He is UNFIT or psychologically incapacitated when it comes in taking responsibility of his own children.

Nasa Batas na ang isang AMA ay dapat sumusuporta sa anak nya whether nasa puder nya ito o hindi. TAMA diba?

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7 Re: custody of children on Sat Oct 06, 2012 12:28 am

jhanz


Arresto Menor
i need an advice po,.. im married woman for 10 yrs.at 10 yrs na ring wala work ang asawa ko, my isang anak na 10 yr.old na ngaun..andito po ako sa hong kong, at ngayon po hiwalay na sa asawa (pero hndi pa annull) dahil nambabae asawa ko. yong anak ko dati parents ko nag aalaga pero nung nagsagutan ang biyenan ko at mama ko inilayo nya po ung anak ko ng hindi sinasabi sakin. nag aalala po ako sa kalagayan ng anak ko dahil kilala ko yung asawa ko na happy go lucky, anak ko lagi daw pina punished ng teacher dahil walang assignment.at isa pa wala work asawa ko at nakikitira lang sila sa lola nya. ngayon po gusto ng anak ko mag stay sa parents ko pero ayaw pumayag yung asawa ko.tanong ko po, pwede kayang makuha ng parents ko ung custody ng bata lalo pa at pangalan ko ang dala-dala nya hindi pangalan ng ama niya.kinasal kami ng asawa ko civil after i gave birth kaya apelyido ko ang nsa NSO birth certificate nya.ano po ang dapat gawin? san po dapat mapunta ang anak ko? kasi gusto ko mapunta samin ung custody ng anak ko at kung papipiliin nman yong anak ko kung san nya gusto stay sinasabi niya dun siya stay sa parents ko,pero ayaw ng husband ko.. please help po.. thanks!

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8 Re: custody of children on Tue Oct 09, 2012 10:22 pm

arden2603


Arresto Mayor
your child is not illegitimate, he is legitimated, due to the subsequent marriage. the child may choose where he want to live, he is already 10 years old..

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