if i have a copy of the birth certificate of my husband son to his mistress and with his acknowledgement that he was the father, is it enough proof for me to file concubinage against the both of them? i also have pictures of them together that they were several vacation previously.

im not attny but i think yes you can use that BC as a evidence..

but what is your point to do that if you dont mind your husbund will not do that if he truly loves you...

accept the real facts he not love you anymore. best thing you do is move on girl..
in fact you better happy for what happen to your husbund kasi may masaya na sya pamilya hinda gaya nung magkasama pa kayo.. masakit man isipin pero yun ang mapait na katotohanan.
maawa ka sa bata idadamay mo pa imbis n manahimik kna lng at isipin kun anu mas nakakaganda pra sayo hindi yung mag dedemanda ka pa at madadamay pa ung bata at ung na anakan ng asawa mo..

victim ra9262 wrote:im not attny but i think yes you can use that BC as a evidence..

but what is your point to do that if you dont mind your husbund will not do that if he truly loves you...

accept the real facts he not love you anymore. best thing you do is move on girl..
in fact you better happy for what happen to your husbund kasi may masaya na sya pamilya hinda gaya nung magkasama pa kayo.. masakit man isipin pero yun ang mapait na katotohanan.
maawa ka sa bata idadamay mo pa imbis n manahimik kna lng at isipin kun anu mas nakakaganda pra sayo hindi yung mag dedemanda ka pa at madadamay pa ung bata at ung na anakan ng asawa mo..

Yes Girl..Move on...
siguro,,may nakalaan pa para sayo...
nangyari na yan ehh,,harapin nalang natin..
All this things that is happening has its reason..

Pray ka lang poh...

gud afternoon po,ako po pala si fatima,,hihingi lang po kami ng advice,,kasi po,,ung kinakasama kopo which is 58 years old is more vthan 20 years napo clang hindi nagsasama po ng legal wife nya po,ung wife nya po ung nang iwan kasama ung 3 anak po,pero sinusustintuhan pa naman po niya ang kanyang mga anak po,,ngayon po may mga sariling pamilya po ngayon yung mga ank po niya,,nagyon po year 2011 po nagsama po kami nung lalaki po sa bahay po niya which is alam kung mali,,nabuntis po ako at nanagank,,ryt nw po 1 year old napo ung baby namin,,mahal po namin ang isat isa,,wla napo tlagang pagmamahal nag kinakasama kopo dun sa legal wife niya kc mahigit 20 years napo clang di nagsasama,,e ngayon po may problema kami,,kasi po ung legal wife po niya nagsampa po ng kaso sa aming dalawa,,,concubinage po,,,tanong ko lang po kung anong posibleng mangyari sa amin ng kinakasama ko pati narin po sa anak namin,,,tsaka ano pong kailangan naming gawin ,,slamat po,,

xsiok wrote:if i have a copy of the birth certificate of my husband son to his mistress and with his acknowledgement that he was the father, is it enough proof for me to file concubinage against the both of them? i also have pictures of them together that they were several vacation previously.

That BC is your best evidence.

FRENCE wrote:gud afternoon po,ako po pala si fatima,,hihingi lang po kami ng advice,,kasi po,,ung kinakasama kopo which is 58 years old is more vthan 20 years napo clang hindi nagsasama po ng legal wife nya po,ung wife nya po ung nang iwan kasama ung 3 anak po,pero sinusustintuhan pa naman po niya ang kanyang mga anak po,,ngayon po may mga sariling pamilya po ngayon yung mga ank po niya,,nagyon po year 2011 po nagsama po kami nung lalaki po sa bahay po niya which is alam kung mali,,nabuntis po ako at nanagank,,ryt nw po 1 year old napo ung baby namin,,mahal po namin ang isat isa,,wla napo tlagang pagmamahal nag kinakasama kopo dun sa legal wife niya kc mahigit 20 years napo clang di nagsasama,,e ngayon po may problema kami,,kasi po ung legal wife po niya nagsampa po ng kaso sa aming dalawa,,,concubinage po,,,tanong ko lang po kung anong posibleng mangyari sa amin ng kinakasama ko pati narin po sa anak namin,,,tsaka ano pong kailangan naming gawin ,,slamat po,,

Possible pa din na magsampa ng kaso yung legal wife since valid pa din ang kasal nila. Ang pinagtataka ko lang is for more tham 20 years hindi na sila nagsasama e ano pa angreason kung bakit siya magdedemanda? I think she is aiming for something else, hindi ang pangagaliwa ng asawa nya.
Good luck!!!

I agree with concepab. may ibang dahilan ang legal wife kung baket sya nagsampa ng demanda sa inyo, unless, ngayon nya lang kayo natagpuan after that 20 long years. Dapat na makipag-settle na lang ng maayos, kung kaya naman ang hihingin nung legal wife, ibigay na, sabay yung kasunduan ng annulment nila.

Personal opinion ko lang po 2. Thanks.

kya nga may nababasurang kaso dahil umabot pa ng decade bago mag sampa. tintingnan din dito ang dahilan kung bakit nag sasampa ng kaso? pero sa ganyang scenario na mahigit 20 years na na hndi nag sasama? saka mag sasampa ng kaso. i gues mahina ang ganyang kaso. anyway you can use this situation as your defence.

Actually nung nagsama kami nung 2011,alam na niya abowt sa amin,,kasi dinaman sya kalayuan,,ang akin lang bakit ngayon pa,,,

i read the posts again, she said that 58 years na yung guy. Hindi po kaya may kinalaman ito sa retirement benefits/ pension na makukuha nya. I have neighbor na parang ganon ang set-up, pinagtitiisan daw ang guy dahil may makukuhang almost half a million once nag-retire na.

Personal opinion ko lang po 2. Thanks.