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2 Re: ANNOUNCEMENT on Sun Oct 07, 2012 8:30 pm
via13 wrote:i have a bf who is married. they separated a year ago, the wife took their 6year old son back to her province. They were already talking about annulment before and the wife even offered a lawyer for it. my bf of course wanted it but is still saving for the cost. early this year the wife said their kid is "out of focus" being in a different school and wanted to move back in the city - emphasizing the kid also wants them back together. He consulted me and i agreed for him to move back in their old house - for the kid. they are no longer in speaking terms bec when he comes home, the wife isnt there, and he leaves the house before the the wife gets home - which makes the wife very angry and prompted her to send messages to my facebook friends about me, threatening me and saying indecent words about me. not only that, she also contacted whoever she likes (e.g my brother's clasmates, my sister's officemates etc). He never lacks in financial support for his son - even the household finances. we are already planning to leave the country next year so he can file for separation and then annulment. I guess may question is, if push comes to shove can i sue the wife for libel? or can he file for annulment even if they are still on the same house currently? please help...
answer for both questions is YES.
3 Re: ANNOUNCEMENT on Sun Oct 07, 2012 9:00 pm
hiwalay ang bf mo sa wife nya, kasi
nanggugulo pa ang wife nya.. ikaw man ang
lumugar sa sitwasyon nya, ganun din malamang
ang gagawin mo ang magsalita ng hindi
magaganda salita di ba?
Ang sa akin lang bilang isang babae,
ayusin nyo muna ang status ng pamilya ng
bf mo. lalo na at may anak pala siya.. Be
considerate naman, huwag mong kalimutan
meron kang pamilyang sisirain..
Pray and ask the Holy Spirit for discernment.
5 Re: ANNOUNCEMENT on Sun Oct 07, 2012 9:42 pm
via13 wrote:salamat po sa reply. Hindi naman po nya pinababayaan ung suspento sa bata at kahit sa gastos sa bahay hindi naman po sya nagpapabaya.
ano po kayang pede nyang gawing ground for annulment? i researched din po kasi for the grounds of annulment.
@Maria Meliza, naiintindihan ko naman po sya. Kung sa akin lang naman sya maggaganun ok lang naman. ang sakin lang pati ung mga hindi ko kilala basta nakita nyang somehow connected sa taong kilala ko sa facebook minimesage nya. Kung ako lang ang ginugulo nya, matatanggap ko naman pero ung guluhin nya pati mga kaklase ng kapatid ko or officemates ng kapatid ko na hindi ko naman minsan nakita eh minemesage, She also threatens na magpopost ng pictures ko na may label na "Mistress" sa labas ng school ng brother ko. i even have mesages from my friends showing ung mga threats nya and ung pang babadmouth nya sakin. sabi nya pineperahan ko daw ung asawa nya kahit hindi naman. i believe i can file for libel for that? hindi naman sa ngayon, pero kung magkagipitan pede ko po bang gawin un?
check this link.
avoid living with your bf in a same house to be safe from concubinage.
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