My wife and I are both working abroad and we left our children to my in-laws. We've noticed that our child isn't learning anything at school because my in-laws doesn't care for my children's education. We are sending monthly a sufficient amount of money for my 2 children for there basic needs and education.
My wife and I decided that we will transfer custody of my children to my parents so that they will be properly taken care but my in-laws are stubborn and doesn't want to let our child be with my parents. I've asked them to send my children to my parents and they refused to do so. They insist that they will not give it unless I will be the one to get my children from them. I cannot leave my work just for that reason so I am thinking of sending a special power of attorney appointing my father to be the legal guardian and to represent us on our behalf. The SPA will be authenticated and stamped by the Philippine consulate and will send it to my parents afterwards.
Does this legal paper will solve our problem? or do we need to do another step? please advise.
My in-laws doesn't have any papers to prove that we've authorized them to be the legal guardian of my children.