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1 child custody on Fri Nov 09, 2012 10:55 pm

dLegalWife


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good evening po Smile

i'm seeking for a legal advice regarding of my stepdaughter. she's turning 8 this month, last year nasa poder siya ng biological mother niya dahil do'n pinag-aral at ibinalik ulit this year sa mga in laws ko dahil hindi naalagaan ng tama yung bata, now gusto na naman kunin ng biological mom yung bata and my husband says na parang unfair nman daw yun kukunin at ibabalik dito sa 'min kung kailan gusto ng ina niya. we're planning to have a DNA testing, pag naging positive po an result is it possible na mapunta sa 'min ang custody ng bata? or ano po ba ang dapat naming gawing para mapasaamin ang custody ng bata? and if it's negative what are the legal actions na pwede naming gawin? makakasohan po ba ang biological mother ng bata?

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2 Re: child custody on Fri Nov 09, 2012 11:07 pm

attyLLL


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why is dna testing necessary? is there a doubt that the she is the child of your husband? did he not sign the child's birth certificate?

i presume that the child is illegitimate; therefore the mother has full right to parental authority and custody.

if you want to wrest custody, you'll have to prove that she is exposed to dangerous or immoral situations.


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3 Re: child custody on Sat Nov 10, 2012 2:01 am

dLegalWife


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my husband has been very doubtful kung anak niya ba talaga yung bata it took him almost 8 years to convince his parents na ipaDNA yung bata, he's been planning to do the test befoe pa but his parents doesn't want to.

yes, the child is illegitimate, her mom is married to another man pero kakahiwaay lang din po nila though not legally, kaya po gustong kunin ng nanay yung bata para mag ask po for financial support kasi nga po iniwan na ng asawa kaya wala na siyang pera, last year yun po ang nangyari kinuha yung bata sa amin pero may financial support from us ang problema po kasi naging unfit yung bata at hindi na naging healthy plus na trauma pa sa stepfather niya kasi nakakawitnes po siya pag binubugbog yung mom niya at pag nag aaway po yung couple, nakakaawa po kasi yung stepdaughter ko kung babalik pa siya do'n sa poder ng nanay niya kaya we're taking any possibilities na makuha yung custody ng bata...

if ever maging negative po yung result ng DNA ano po ba ang mga legal actions na dapat gawin namin?

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4 Re: child custody on Sat Nov 10, 2012 4:46 pm

concepab


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If you really want to take full custody of the child, the father need to file a custody case. You need to prove that being with her mother is not good for the child… I think it is late for the father to question his paternity over the child.

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5 Re: child custody on Sat Nov 10, 2012 10:19 pm

dLegalWife


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pero what if po kung mapatunayan ng ama na hindi siya ang tunay na ama ng bata? is there any legal action for that?

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6 Re: child custody on Sat Nov 10, 2012 11:04 pm

concepab


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According to the Article 263 of the civil code - "The action to impugn the legitimacy of the child shall be brought within one year from the recording of the birth in the Civil Register, if the husband should be in the same place, or in a proper case, any of his heirs.”

So, if he will question the legitimacy of the child only after 8 yrs. - i doubt it will progress. Unless until now the birth is not yet registered to the civil register office. Pero impossible ata yun.

Well this is just my personal opinion, let’s wait for the lawyers’ reply, they might have different views about your case.

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7 Re: child custody on Sat Nov 10, 2012 11:51 pm

dLegalWife


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kahit na sa DNA test mapatunayan na hindi siya ang tunay na ama ng bata impossible pa rin yun?

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8 Re: child custody on Sun Nov 11, 2012 3:25 pm

attyLLL


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concepab, i have to disagree. that rule applies to legitimate children, not illegitimate ones. given that there is no stated time limit for illegitimate children, my position here is that there is no time limit.

but what i don't understand, dlegalwife, you seem so concerned about the child and even want custody but you want to cut ties with him by proving he is not the child of your husband. or is the refusal to provide support more primordial to your husband? what is his position in this.


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9 Re: child custody on Sun Nov 11, 2012 4:14 pm

concepab


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attyLLL wrote:concepab, i have to disagree. that rule applies to legitimate children, not illegitimate ones. given that there is no stated time limit for illegitimate children, my position here is that there is no time limit.

thanks for the info, atty.

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10 Re: child custody on Sun Nov 11, 2012 5:42 pm

shad_marasigan


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Just give the baby back to his original biological mother. Mahirap kasi yan. Pag po babalik sa inyo, refuse.

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11 Re: child custody on Sun Nov 11, 2012 6:39 pm

dLegalWife


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it was my husbands idea to do the DNA testing not mine, i told him that there's no need for a DNA test kasi tanggap ko naman yung bata and since wala akong rights as the stepmom sinabihan ko po asawa ko to fight for its custody but husband says he'll just do it on one condition pag napaDNA test na yung bata, sa akin po kasi walang problema kasi kahit anak man niya o hindi yung bata tanggap ko at mahal ko yung bata,

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12 Re: child custody on Tue Nov 13, 2012 8:42 pm

dLegalWife


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may follow up question pa pla ako...applicable ba sa illegitimate child na mamili siya kung saan niya gustong sumama?

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13 Re: child custody on Sat Nov 17, 2012 2:06 pm

attyLLL


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the court will consider it, but i don't think it will be given as much consideration as whether his stay with the mother is harmful


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14 Re: child custody on Sun Nov 18, 2012 12:18 am

dLegalWife


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salamat po sa information Smile sana may sumagot po don sa #11 ko'ng post Smile

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15 Re: child custody on Sat Dec 01, 2012 2:51 pm

janah


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magandang araw po

Just want to have some clarification. May anak po ako sa isang Married man pero ang dinadalang surname ng anak ko ay sa kanya.inacknowlede nman nia sa birth certificate ng bata , kasalukuyan po akong nasa abroad at ang bata ay nasa pangangalaga ng aking amat ina sa pinas..walang trabaho ang ama ng anak ko sa ngayon. hindi po kami nagsasama ng lalaki dahil dun po sya sa pamilya nia , binigyan ko lng po sya ng permiso na dalawin ang anak ko , at hindi ko rin po sya inuobliga sa sustento ng anak ko. dahil alam kong pamilyadong tao sya at walang trabaho. to make the story short
GUSTO KO PO SANANG MALAMAN KUNG MAY KARAPATAN BA SYANG KUNIN ang bata saken o ng kahit sino sa myembro ng pamilya nia .

maraming salamat po sana po masagot nio ang tanong ko.

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16 Re: child custody on Sun Dec 02, 2012 8:44 pm

wife_cheated


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Good day to all!

Im the father. Wife ko ay naglalaki.
Gusto ko mag raise ng CUSTODY CASE sa dalawa kong anak(both below 10 yrs old, boy & girl). Nahuli ko ang asawa ko na may lalaki...& umamin sa harap ng family nya about sa guy. Ang family nag advice sa kanya na iwanan dahil it's wrong. Hindi nya maiwanan...so until now may relasyon pa rin sila.

Sa pinas po ako magfile ng CUSTODY CASE. Anong chance ko nga mapasakin ang anak.
Mataas po profession ko...hindi maka work asawa ko sa abroad kong hindi dahil sa sponsorship ko.

Please need your advise.

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17 Re: child custody on Sun Dec 02, 2012 9:02 pm

attyLLL


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comments on your other thread


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18 Re: child custody on Sun Dec 02, 2012 10:03 pm

wife_cheated


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thank you attyLLL.

nabasa ko po ang commnents. salamat!

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19 Re: child custody on Wed Dec 05, 2012 7:05 pm

yuriena


Arresto Menor
good day sir,

i have 2 daughters ages 2 and 4. hindi po kme kasal ng biological father, nung kame pa po sa bahay po ng nanay nya kme tumira. until such time na d na tlga nagwork ung relationship nmen, 5yrs lng po ung tinagal ng relationship nmen dhel sa limang taon na un ako lang po ang nagtrabaho dhel po sa computer addict cya, mga anak ko po nagstay pa din dun sa bahay nla dinadalaw dalaw ko lng every off ko for almost 5mos, until such time na nkatanggap ako ng text from his mother's number na cnasbe na kunin ko na ung mga anak ko dalhin ko kng san ko gusto dhel pagod na cla alagaan ang mga ito. ung biological father pla ung nagtxt gamit number ng nanay nya. naglakas ako ng loob kunin mga anak ko. hnd ko pinaalam kng saan kme nkatira. so ngayon po nalaman nla ung tinitirhan nmen at nagpupunta dto ng walang abiso.

may bago na po akong kinakasama, which nai-invade po ung privacy nmen.

may karapatan po ba ang kahit na sino sa pamilya nila over my kidsdhel ang cnsbe nla sken meron daw dhel cla nagpalaki sa mga ito? now they are filing actions against me, nagwrong send sken ung mother telling her daughter not to txt or call me at pag-usapan nlng daw muna nila dhel sbe ng pinsan nyawag nlng daw muna magbanta basta sulatan nlng daw bka daw makasira pa sa kanila.

ano pong legal actions pede ko gwin kc gusto ko po sna magfile ng sole custody ng mga anak ko and restraining order againts them pra d cla ppunta basta basta dto sa bhay nmen.

salamat po..

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20 Re: child custody on Wed Dec 05, 2012 9:20 pm

attyLLL


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only you have parental authority and right to custody over the children.

when they go to your house, you will have to be tough and not let them in.


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