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1 Father and mistress vs. Children on Wed Jan 16, 2013 3:34 pm

vengefulangel


Arresto Menor
Hi! My father and mother have ceased living together for more than 10 yrs now and both of them have new families now. Note that they are not legally separated.

Just this year, my father's mistress of 3 years started treating us badly. I don't know why but my dad favored her over us and it's causing us distress. All of us are already of age if I may add.

Now, he wants us to leave his house because his mistress cannot stand living with us.

Due to the current situation, we are thinking of taking things legally.Is it too late for my mother to file for concubinage? What case can we, his children, file so we can ensure that we do not get thrown out of the house.


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2 Re: Father and mistress vs. Children on Wed Jan 16, 2013 3:40 pm

Pedro Parkero


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vengefulangel wrote:Hi! My father and mother have ceased living together for more than 10 yrs now and both of them have new families now. Note that they are not legally separated.

Just this year, my father's mistress of 3 years started treating us badly. I don't know why but my dad favored her over us and it's causing us distress. All of us are already of age if I may add.

Now, he wants us to leave his house because his mistress cannot stand living with us.

Due to the current situation, we are thinking of taking things legally.Is it too late for my mother to file for concubinage? What case can we, his children, file so we can ensure that we do not get thrown out of the house.



pwede naman yata..
pero pare, maghanap naman kayo ng trabaho at bahay na matitirhan at wag umasa sa bahay ng magulang. pag of age, hindi na yan of aid. Smile

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3 Re: Father and mistress vs. Children on Wed Jan 16, 2013 3:51 pm

vengefulangel


Arresto Menor
Haha I understand. I failed to mention na my dad works abroad so he left me in charge of the house kaya dito kame nakatira. We used to rent our own place until my dad asked me and my hubby to move in and look after his house. La pa nga kaming one year dito and we pay all the bills.

My sister left kasi dahil the mistress kept on texting her bad things even if she was living here then as per my dad's request.








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4 Re: Father and mistress vs. Children on Wed Jan 16, 2013 4:11 pm

concepab


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vengefulangel wrote:Haha I understand. I failed to mention na my dad works abroad so he left me in charge of the house kaya dito kame nakatira. We used to rent our own place until my dad asked me and my hubby to move in and look after his house. La pa nga kaming one year dito and we pay all the bills.

My sister left kasi dahil the mistress kept on texting her bad things even if she was living here then as per my dad's request.

Talk your father in-law about it. Now if he says you stay, he should talk to his mistress. But he said you go, then go. At least you tried. BTW, it’s to late for the concubinage case, both of them already have their own family.








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5 Re: Father and mistress vs. Children on Wed Jan 16, 2013 4:27 pm

Pedro Parkero


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u want to ensure kasi na ul not get thrown out of the house. bat nio gusto ni ma esure kung gusto nio palang umalis dn. Pero, yun kau pa din at wla ng iba pa ang mas nakakalam sa pinak saktong sagot sa tanong na ito dahil kayo naman ang mas nakakakilala ke daddy,sagot....

i insist na pwede, provided handa si mommy na kaskasin ang posporo upang simulan painitin ang kasong concubinage.

pero impraktikal ito, kasi although target nio si chick, di pwedeng hindi isama sa kaso si chikboy. and in this case it appears that chikboy has golden eggs Very Happy

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6 Re: Father and mistress vs. Children on Wed Jan 16, 2013 4:33 pm

vengefulangel


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Thanks sa insights mo!

Tama ka! Yun din based sa mga binasa ko. Di naman aabot sa ganito if di kame nakakakuha ng threats e. Just 5 mins ago I got a message from the girl na sana makunan ako and my father agreed. Kaloka!

We just want to make sure na kahit umalis kami dito if ever, walang mahihita yung babaeng yun.

Plus, last na pala. My dad kasi got a housing loan na we co-signed. So dapat may say kame dito sa bahay di ba?









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7 Re: Father and mistress vs. Children on Wed Jan 16, 2013 4:46 pm

keis


Arresto Mayor
kung di naman sila kasal ngkabit then walang habol yun.

yung mga gnyang asal kasi... TYPICAL NA MISTRESS YAN..

pustahan tau girl:) pag ang daddy mo nagkasakit.. IIWAN YAN NG KABIT NYA...

Alis na lang kau jan... Life is always a matterof choice.. Kung gusto mo sis ng magulong buhay.. hala sige,,, Makigulo ka jan..

pero kung gusto mo ng payapa... alis na lang... LET Go and LET GOD ika nga Smile

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8 Re: Father and mistress vs. Children on Wed Jan 16, 2013 5:47 pm

raheemerick


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since you and your chikboi dad ang nag invest ng bahay bata na yan? este! bahay tirahan pla? it only means nasa iyo at sa dady mo lng ang full rights sa bahay na yan. at wla ke hitad na eskabetche:) anyway parang family matter lng yta ang senaryo nyo jan? daanin muna s amabuting usapan s apagitan ng iyong chikboi na ama? at sa pagitan ninyong mga bunga ng pag mamahaln ng inyong ina. pag ayaw pa din at umeepal yng hitad na kabet? sabunutan mo ng bonggang bongga. sa taas at sa baba:) aww!!

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9 Re: Father and mistress vs. Children on Wed Jan 16, 2013 6:40 pm

vengefulangel


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Di na nga madaan sa usapan e. Pinapaalis ako sa week pa ng due date ko. Sabe ko kahit after ko na lang manganak, ayaw pumayag kaya ayan, nagaaklas na buong family ko tuloy na nanahimik nun.

Just talked to my sister, nagpakasal pala sila so pwede ng bigamy. The girl is using my dad's surname na. Plus di pa pala nagpapadala ng support sa youngest brother ko ung dad ko and yung papers nya going abroad single ang nilagay nyang status kahit legally married pa sila ng mom ko. So madami pla kaming pwedeng ikaso, need lang namin mag-gather ng enough evidence.tama ba?

Kaso puro dad ko na sumalo ng kaso haha

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10 Re: Father and mistress vs. Children on Thu Jan 17, 2013 11:33 am

Pedro Parkero


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vengefulangel wrote:Di na nga madaan sa usapan e. Pinapaalis ako sa week pa ng due date ko. Sabe ko kahit after ko na lang manganak, ayaw pumayag kaya ayan, nagaaklas na buong family ko tuloy na nanahimik nun.

Just talked to my sister, nagpakasal pala sila so pwede ng bigamy. The girl is using my dad's surname na. Plus di pa pala nagpapadala ng support sa youngest brother ko ung dad ko and yung papers nya going abroad single ang nilagay nyang status kahit legally married pa sila ng mom ko. So madami pla kaming pwedeng ikaso, need lang namin mag-gather ng enough evidence.tama ba?

Kaso puro dad ko na sumalo ng kaso haha

ang nakakalungkot sa ganitong mga kaso ay yung.... away sa dahil sa propiedad.... kung ako, hindi ko kayang ipakulong ang daddy ko para lang mapasaakin, at hindi sa iba mapunta ang lahat ng kanyang kabuhayan. kung mayroon man siyang kahinaan, magsisilbi na lamang itong halimbawa sa akin para hindi ko din ito gawin dahil naipakita na niya sa akin kung gaano kasalimoot kung ang ganitong problema kung akin ding papasukin

nananaisin kong maghirap, magsumikap at gumawa ng sarili kong paraan para magkapagpundar. yong talagang akin. diko na kailangan umasa pa sa kanya, dahil sapat na na siya ang naging dahilan ng akin buhay

kaw, kaya mo ipakulong tatay mo?

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11 Re: Father and mistress vs. Children on Thu Jan 17, 2013 12:41 pm

vengefulangel


Arresto Menor
I understand your point pero ang naikwento ko lang naman ay yung nagtrigger ng galit ng pamilya ko to seek legal counsel na. I feel that we are being unfairly judged.

Yung pambubugbog nya sa mom ko when we were younger, pag ignore sya sa sumbong ng sis ko dati na child molestation dahil ayaw nya ng gulo sa family, di pagbibigay or inconsistent ang financial support ever since, may rape case pa yan na di lang natuloy dahil mahirap lang maid namin dati at tinakot ng mga tita ko, nabuntis pa nya yung 1 naming maid a few years after the rape case at sandamakmak na babae. Ang dami na, siguro sumabog na lang talaga ngayon lalo na yung mom ko. Kasi 3rd time ng nangyayari ito na inaaway kami nung mistress nya.

Also, as I've said I co-signed sa housing loan. Since binabayaran pa nya itong bahay, pag nagigipit sya sakin sya lumalapit, kaya nga din since nagawa ang bahay nung 2011 kame na ng sister ko nagpundar ng mga gamit at nagbabayad sa bills dito bilang tulong. Nung nawalan sya ng trabaho dati at nagkasakit ako nagpagamot sa kanya.

Magsumikap para sa sarili? Bibili dapat ako ng bahay this year na, pero dahil nga nakiusap sya na dito kame tumira muna pinagpaliban namin. Pagdating ko dito for disconnection lahat, kame nagbayad. Pinakiusap pa nya na ako muna magbayad ng tuition ng brother ko 2 days before ang away dahil nagkaproblema daw sya sa banko.

Kaya ko bang ipakulong ang tatay ko? Nakiusap ako, sabi nya wala kaming karapatan kahit pumunta kame sa korte, pinapatunayan lang namin na meron.

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12 Re: Father and mistress vs. Children on Thu Jan 17, 2013 12:53 pm

Pedro Parkero


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vengefulangel wrote:I understand your point pero ang naikwento ko lang naman ay yung nagtrigger ng galit ng pamilya ko to seek legal counsel na. I feel that we are being unfairly judged.

Yung pambubugbog nya sa mom ko when we were younger, pag ignore sya sa sumbong ng sis ko dati na child molestation dahil ayaw nya ng gulo sa family, di pagbibigay or inconsistent ang financial support ever since, may rape case pa yan na di lang natuloy dahil mahirap lang maid namin dati at tinakot ng mga tita ko, nabuntis pa nya yung 1 naming maid a few years after the rape case at sandamakmak na babae. Ang dami na, siguro sumabog na lang talaga ngayon lalo na yung mom ko. Kasi 3rd time ng nangyayari ito na inaaway kami nung mistress nya.

Also, as I've said I co-signed sa housing loan. Since binabayaran pa nya itong bahay, pag nagigipit sya sakin sya lumalapit, kaya nga din since nagawa ang bahay nung 2011 kame na ng sister ko nagpundar ng mga gamit at nagbabayad sa bills dito bilang tulong. Nung nawalan sya ng trabaho dati at nagkasakit ako nagpagamot sa kanya.

Magsumikap para sa sarili? Bibili dapat ako ng bahay this year na, pero dahil nga nakiusap sya na dito kame tumira muna pinagpaliban namin. Pagdating ko dito for disconnection lahat, kame nagbayad. Pinakiusap pa nya na ako muna magbayad ng tuition ng brother ko 2 days before ang away dahil nagkaproblema daw sya sa banko.

Kaya ko bang ipakulong ang tatay ko? Nakiusap ako, sabi nya wala kaming karapatan kahit pumunta kame sa korte, pinapatunayan lang namin na meron.


and so gudluck, pwede ng bigamy si daddy at si chick niya. kelangan mo ng marriage cert. preferably yung una at yung pangalawa.

bilisan mo, baka tinitira na naman niya ngayon yung kasakuyang maid nia Smile

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13 Re: Father and mistress vs. Children on Thu Jan 17, 2013 2:43 pm

raheemerick


Reclusion Perpetua
pero may afair na din sa iba si momy right? now what will happen if the eskabetche make a counter fight? anyway
bahala kayo mag karambola jan:)

goodluck and more
babies 2 come:)

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14 Re: Father and mistress vs. Children on Thu Jan 17, 2013 2:57 pm

vengefulangel


Arresto Menor
Hindi naman affair sis. May friend kasi sya na tumulong samin nung nawalan kami ng pera and all dahil sa dad ko. Ever since dun na nakatira mom ko and 2 brothers ko pati mga anak nung guy. Parang magjowa na sila na di naman mapatunayan ng dad ko kasi separate rooms and properties. Sweet-sweetan lang talaga at dahil mabait ung guy family na trato namin sa kanya.


Anyway, good luck na nga lang samin. Mom ko naman may kausap ng lawyer, suportahan na lang namin sya.


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15 Re: Father and mistress vs. Children on Thu Jan 17, 2013 3:03 pm

Pedro Parkero


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vengefulangel wrote:Hindi naman affair sis. May friend kasi sya na tumulong samin nung nawalan kami ng pera and all dahil sa dad ko. Ever since dun na nakatira mom ko and 2 brothers ko pati mga anak nung guy. Parang magjowa na sila na di naman mapatunayan ng dad ko kasi separate rooms and properties. Sweet-sweetan lang talaga at dahil mabait ung guy family na trato namin sa kanya.


Anyway, good luck na nga lang samin. Mom ko naman may kausap ng lawyer, suportahan na lang namin sya.



ganon na din un, adultery, kahit swet swetan lang. bias ka lang Very Happy

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16 Re: Father and mistress vs. Children on Thu Jan 17, 2013 3:07 pm

vengefulangel


Arresto Menor
Haha korek! Pasensya na lang sa tatay ko pagnagdemandahan e kampihan din talaga yan. At kanya-kanyang galing na ng lawyers nila yan Haha.

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17 Re: Father and mistress vs. Children on Thu Jan 17, 2013 3:10 pm

raheemerick


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@pedro- hahahaha lolz..
bias ba? hahaha

@venge- oo nga.. sweet sweetan kapa jan nalalamn ah? hahahaha..

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18 Re: Father and mistress vs. Children on Thu Jan 17, 2013 3:15 pm

Pedro Parkero


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vengefulangel wrote:Haha korek! Pasensya na lang sa tatay ko pagnagdemandahan e kampihan din talaga yan. At kanya-kanyang galing na ng lawyers nila yan Haha.

at pag nagdemandahan kayo, sasayangin nio lang ang oras ng mga korte natin na pwede naman ibigay ang oras doon sa pagconvict ng mga rapist...

magpakabaet na lang kau. maawa kayo sa amin na mababaet, naapektuhan kami sa mga matataas na pride ninyo Smile

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19 Re: Father and mistress vs. Children on Thu Jan 17, 2013 3:20 pm

raheemerick


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nasisira ang mga mala griyegong apeal naming mga anak ni adan.. sa mga isue ng mga anak ni eba. nasisira reputasyon ng mga mala adonis na gaya namin.. heheh anyway cge lng po.. demanda well pam pawala ng
boring:) cheer ka na lng namin.. awww!!!

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20 Re: Father and mistress vs. Children on Thu Jan 17, 2013 3:24 pm

vengefulangel


Arresto Menor
Ikaw na! Hahaha, sana lahat nga ay mabait like you na lang para wala ng gulo.

nagtanong lang naman ako dahil nga ang nanay and sister ko ay kating-kati magsampa ng kaso. Ako nga nakipagusap pa di bey Hahaha

May lawyer naman na sila so bahala na nga si Lord kung san aabot ang gulong 'to.malamang naman settlement muna ang unang step e.

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21 Re: Father and mistress vs. Children on Thu Jan 17, 2013 3:27 pm

raheemerick


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cge at pag nalagasan kayu ng oras at salapi. saka kau mag reconcile w/
beso-beso and teardrops ng
bonggang bongga:)

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22 Re: Father and mistress vs. Children on Thu Jan 17, 2013 3:40 pm

vengefulangel


Arresto Menor
Baka i-friend na kami ule ng dad ko sa fb after nito hahahahaha

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23 Re: Father and mistress vs. Children on Thu Jan 17, 2013 3:49 pm

raheemerick


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yeah yeah malay natin ilagay pa kayo sa family member sa fb:) mag post ka sa wall nya.. "father knows best" tz i-like nya att mag coment sya.. sabihin nya.. "char" Smile

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24 Re: Father and mistress vs. Children on Sat Jan 19, 2013 11:29 am

attyLLL


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gather the evidence you need for bigamy. you can actually file the case or just dangle it before them for leverage.


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