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1 need immediate reply. pls on Fri Jan 18, 2013 2:27 pm

juanchian03


Arresto Menor
Good Day,

I have a boyfriend who is not totally annulled in his wife. but he's not living with his family for almost 2 years now. he's wife filed him a case at pina alis po siya sa bahay nila. then nakilala ko po siya last year lang. so naging kami po. since hindi na po sila nagsasama sa iisang bahay at wala na ding communication. i accept him as my bf. since samin sa lugar ko po kasi pag hindi na nagsasama ang dalawang mag asawa it means hiwalay na sila. so noon po wala po akong worry if magiging kami. dalawang taon na din po silang nag lalaban sa court ng mga cases na pinatol ng wife niya sa kanya. nung first po na nag hiwalay sila ng wife niya sinikap niya pong e recover yung family niya pero pinakulong po siya ng wife niya at hindi na siya hinayaan na mg communicate pa sa mga anak niya. Last year he filed annulment dahil disidido na po siyang hindi na bumalik sa family niya dahil pina kulong na siya.

I search about adultery,bigamy and divorce so marami po akong na intindihan sa legal law of marriage. and now i am worried na baka mas lalong mapahamak po yung boyfriend ko dahil sa relation namin. Gusto ko po sanang iwan nlng siya pero hindi ko po iyun magawa dahil mahal na mahal ko po siya and besides iniwan na nga siya ng family niya.iiwan ko pa siya. pero worry talaga ako na baka mas lalong lumala ang situation niya at baka pati ako makasuhan. ayuko namang mangyari iyon. please help me po.. give me advised po kung anu yung gagawin ko.. kailangan ko talaga advised niyo. pls salamat po.

regards,
Juanchian03

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2 Re: need immediate reply. pls on Fri Jan 18, 2013 2:39 pm

raheemerick


Reclusion Perpetua
you really love this guy right? so hndi mo sya maiwan despite of hes situations. and naipakulong na sya ng wife nya for some reasons. meaning, decided ang wife nya to have a legal actions againts him. bigamy and civil case againts him and you ang pwde i sampang kaso ng wife nya sa inyo. since hndi pa declare na null ang kasal nya dito? she stil have a rights to do this. wlang masamang mag mahal. but sometimes gamitin natin ang isipan natin sa pag pili ng mamahalin at kapareha sa buhay. dahilan if bakit nasa mas mataas na katyuan ito. at hndi ang puso at damdamin na kung minsan ay may kahinaan. anyway go on lng sa relationship mo s akanya if you really love him. but prepard mo din ang sarili mo s amga consinquences and face the fact na maari ka ding makasuhan. ganyan at desidido yung wife nya na maipakulong ang bf mo. you can run to this situation but you can never hide. lalo na kapag napatunayan ng wife nya ang tungkol sa inyo. malinaw na you and your bf are facing a big problem. think hard and deep. not just once and twice. instead a thousand times. comon tale na ang ganyan. but i sugest you better kip dist and save your self.

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3 "JELOUS IS THE ROOT OF ALL EVIL" on Fri Jan 18, 2013 8:09 pm

juanchian03


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thank you so much in your advised. makakasohan ba talaga pati ako ng adultery although were not live in?or bigamy kahit wala naman kaming papeles na kasal kami?anu po ba mga proof na kailangan ng ex wife niya para makasuhan kmi ng bigamy,adultery or civil case? i admit din po sumasama po ako sa kanya sa bahay nila 2 times a wekz po. nahihirapan din po ako. at tama din po kayu dapat isip yung pina pairal ko.

what if po punta nalang kami ng ibang bansa incase na makasuhan po kami. pwede po ba yun? or makakasohan po talaga kami kahit nanduon kami.? Sad maybe pwede po kayung ma inis sakin dahil sa mga na iisip ko na mga disisyon pero hindi ko po talga ma anung iwan siya since he's alone in this world. and hindi naman talga kasi siya ang my kasalanan why hiniwalayan siya ng asawa niya. nagselos po kasi yung asawa niya sa friend niya na wala nman talaga siyang relasyun doon. thats why po galit na galit yung wife niya sa knya until now..



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4 Re: need immediate reply. pls on Sat Jan 19, 2013 11:09 am

attyLLL


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bigamy will apply only if you get married to him before his marriage is annulled.

if you want to be safe, you can retain your relationship, even have sex with him discretly, but dont' live together in the same house, because that is the crime of concubinage


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5 Re: need immediate reply. pls on Sat Jan 19, 2013 11:15 am

raheemerick


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well about what he has and whats hes past? hndi na importante yun kung cno may ksalanan or sino may dahilan ng pag hihiwlay nila ng asawa nya. wer talking about legal actions sa mga ganyang situatio. but stil you have your reasons for this why it turn this way. i mean yung tungkol sa kanya at sa wife nya at sa iyo. anyway once ma i jutsify ng wife nya, that there is something btween you and him? its clear na both of you are under this case and violationg the law of marriage. there is no exact point and defensles kayo once the girl move and do actions agints the 2 of you. both of you will face a very complicated situations and yes. may posibilty na ma kasuhan ka din defntly my dear. :)pupunta kayo ng ibang bansa? well..thats a run and hide system at karaniwan na yang ginagawa ng ilan na nasa ganyang situations din. its the best thing to do if you want to get rid of her.

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you better run for your self if you can. you can ofcorx. but dfntly you cant hide forever. try to find a ground of there marriage maybe there is? so that both of you can have a chance to be together for the rest of your lfe.

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6 Re: need immediate reply. pls on Sat Jan 19, 2013 2:43 pm

juanchian03


Arresto Menor
Thankz atyLLL. napa gaan mo talaga yung nararamdaman ko ngayun sa advised mo. anu po ba yung civil case na kaso if ever?and what are the proof po na kailangan?

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7 Re: need immediate reply. pls on Sat Jan 19, 2013 3:57 pm

marie6639


Arresto Menor
same problem as mine,yun nga lang asawa ko ang nambabae, ilang years na sila ng matuklasan ko lately, inis na inis ako sa babae ng asawa ko, sabi ko nga sa kanya,baka mapatay ko,kasi at hes age {44},di ba alam ng babae na may asawa at anak sya? kung ako sa iyo ,iha, putulin mo na yan,di rin matatahimik relasyon mo even nasa ibang bansa pa kayo, mahirap kalaban ang konsensya.palagay ko naman bata ka pa, yung babae ng asawa ko 22 yrs old,nagkasakitan kami ng asawa ko at sinampahan ko sya ng kaso, even now,that i dont love him, galit pa rin ako sa babae,which is,katayuan mo ngayon sa bf mo

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8 Re: need immediate reply. pls on Sat Jan 19, 2013 4:04 pm

raheemerick


Reclusion Perpetua
hndi yan maiiwasan kung minsan kailanan kung minsan may masaktan at maiwan. umiyak at mawalan. kapalit ng kaligyahan para sa sarili. sabihin na nating masama ang mag mahal ng may unang nag may ari at may nag mamahl din. pero yan ang katotohahan. simple lng naman ang paraan para maiwasan ang maiwan at iwanan. may mga dahilan ang lalake kya nagagwa ang bagay na yan. mag paka buting may bahay. maging mapag mahal na asawa. ma asikaso at matalino. kapag yan ang nagawa nyo? ewan ko lng kung di kayo ituring na santo ng mga asawa nyong lalake:) hehehe.. ako nga ke baet baet kong asawang lalake.. tik na yan.. iniwan ako:( huhuhuh.. but anyway hapy na ako. kc i find out na.. cute pla ako:) toink:)

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9 Re: need immediate reply. pls on Sat Jan 19, 2013 4:53 pm

marie6639


Arresto Menor
sir raheemerick, mapagmahal ako sa asawa ko,nililinis ko mukha ng facial cleanser,lalagyan ko pa ng moisturizer,kuko sa paa at kamay,masahe buong katawan, 6"2 ang asawa ko at pulis sya,kita mong laking pagod ko pag natapos sa pag seserbisyo sa kanya, ang sabi ng babae nya sakin,nilandi nya asawa ko, dahil ka bi break lang nya sa bf nya, ang asawa ko napag tuunan nya ng pansin,tingnan mo naman ang laki ng kawalanghiyaang ginawa ng babae, may pamilya pa pinatulan, mababalik ko pa ba tiwala ko,alam ko ,hindi na,face the consinquences,yan ang dapat harapin ng asawa ko ngayon, pti mga damit nya,di ko na inaasikaso ngayon,umaalis syang lukot ang damit ,dati pati brief nya pinaplantsa ko,now,hindi na

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10 Re: need immediate reply. pls on Mon Jan 21, 2013 10:07 am

raheemerick


Reclusion Perpetua
madam marie:) eto masasabi ko.... AWWWW!!! Smile

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11 Re: need immediate reply. pls on Tue Jan 22, 2013 11:32 pm

juanchian03


Arresto Menor
Ms marie sorry in what happend in your mariage but thank you din sa advised. pero Ms iba yung case ng 22 years old.. hindi kami pareho ang bf ko kasi wala na sila ng misis niya for almost 2 years.... what i mean is hindi na sila nagsasama kasi nag hiwalay na sila ng bf ko 2 years bago kami magkakilala. at pati mga anak niya wala na din sa poder niya kasi pinakalaban din ng misis niya ang mga anak niya sa kanya kaya he's alone na po nung naging kami and on going pa rin po yung annulment nila until now. willing naman po magbigay ng support yung bf ko sa mga anak nila ang hindi lang po tama ay subra subra na rin po yung hinihingi na support ng misis niya kasi pati abogado ng misis niya siya pa pinababayad.

hindi ko rin po magagawang sumira ng family.. kung sila pa po ng misis niya ng makilala ko siya hindi ko ito papatulan pero hindi na po eh so he has a right to find he's happines din po.. but until now kung matauhan man ng misis niya na mali siya at gusto niyang bumalik sa bf ko ibibigay ko po sa kanya bf ko hindi dahil hindi ko mahal ang bf ko kundi yun po ang tama na alam ko. at kung yun lang din ang paraan para hindi na mahirapan pa bf ko sa mga case na pinapatol sa kanya haiiiii...

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12 Re: need immediate reply. pls on Tue Jan 22, 2013 11:41 pm

juanchian03


Arresto Menor
Mr. Raheemerek likas na talaga sa mga lalaki ang mangaliwa o hindi kontento sa isa lang,,, hindi iyon puro lang sa kapabayaan ng kanilang asawa.. pero naniniwala pa rin ako pag matibay ang pag mamahalan kahit pabaya pa ang misis niya hindi niya magagawang maghanap ng iba.. hindi ko naman sinabi lahat ng lalaki hah depnde din kasi sa lalaki my mga lalaking malapad ang mata hindi kontento sa isa meron namang stick to one lang... hehehe Smile Smile Smile troll AWWWWWWWWWWWWW

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13 Re: need immediate reply. pls on Wed Jan 23, 2013 5:11 am

diannesalvatore


Arresto Menor
may mga lalake kase na malawak ang pag-iisip. meron din lalake na sariling kaligayahan lang iniisip. kahit ano pa ang gawin mo kabutihan, gano mo pa kamahal o kaasikaso... talagang MANLOLOKO

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14 Re: need immediate reply. pls on Wed Jan 23, 2013 9:58 am

raheemerick


Reclusion Perpetua
para sa mga komento ng mga anak ni eba na gaya nyo, laban sa mga anak ni adan na gya ko:) eto lng masasabi ko....

AWWWWW!!!!

heheh. anyway, di lng naman mga lalake ang likas na manloloko o may ilan nga,.. yes amindo ako jan. pero may ilan ding mga kababaihan ang ganyan ang gawa.. gaya sa lumipas kong buhay pak ibig <3 nag mahal ako. nag laan ng oras at panahon, naging mabuting kapareha, naging ma asikaso at ma alalahanin. binigay at nilaan ko puso at isipan ko. minahal ko ng labis. naging matapat ako masikap para sa kanya.. akala ko mahal din nya ako:( hndi pla. msakit ng malamn ko na hndi pala nya ako totoong mahal.

tik na yan..


katawan ko lang pla habol nya sakin? awwww!!!!

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15 Re: need immediate reply. pls on Wed Jan 23, 2013 10:00 am

raheemerick


Reclusion Perpetua
sa mga coment nyong mga anak ni eba na mga sawing tutut:) eto sagot ko...

"walang man loloko kung wlang nag papaloko" char:)

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16 converted into Muslim on Sun Feb 17, 2013 1:17 pm

juanchian03


Arresto Menor
Good Day atty,

ask lang po ako kung mag pa paconvert ba yung bf ko sa muslim hindi na po ba kami makakasuhan ng bigamy,concubinage,adultery kahit my evedence pa po?

so far po gusto lang namin maging handa sa kung anung pwedeng manyari.. Makaka apekto din po ba yung pag pa pa convert niya into a muslim sa annulment niya na epina process?...

Regards
junachian03

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17 Re: need immediate reply. pls on Sun Feb 17, 2013 1:46 pm

jd888


moderator
I truly understand your concern; but Islam is such a beautiful religion that has strict standards of Morality. Before going any further with this, please try to read this statement of Islam Faithful.

Converting to islam for marriage
In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful. All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.

A person must never embrace Islam solely for the purpose of getting married to a Muslim.

Islam does not sanction such conversions. However, if anyone says the Shahadah, then we accept his or her conversion even though his or her intention might be impure.

First of all, a person cannot put a condition for his or her conversion, i.e., that he or she is embracing Islam just to get married to so-and-so.

This is not accepted when stipulated and clearly stated. However, if anyone says the Shahadah, then we accept his or her conversion even though his or her intention might be impure, as we are supposed to deal with people based on what they show us and Allah takes care of their real intentions that they hide inside themselves.

Even if someone converted and he or she was not fully convinced in the beginning, but later on we explained Islam and helped him or her to become a better Muslim and the person showed better behavior and faith, then it is accepted.

We know that when Hamzah (may Allah be pleased with him) converted, he in anger said to Abu Jahl, “How can you hit him (Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) when I am following his religion!” [He said so when he had not yet declared his Islam and he was angry because his cousin Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) was hit by Abu Jahl]. Then after that he thought about Islam and he later became one of the best Muslims in history.

Therefore, we should not question people’s faith in Allah.

Rather, we deal with them as they say and behave, and if they hide insincere intention, then it is Allah Who will take care of them.

I, myself, did not convert for my husbands sake. Rather it was what I had learnt and felt and believed that convinced me that islam was the only religion to follow, and the only religion that can improve my life in this life and in the here after. Alhamdolillah.

http://journalofamuslimconvert.blogspot.com/2012/08/converting-to-islam-for-marriage.html


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18 Re: need immediate reply. pls on Sun Feb 17, 2013 4:53 pm

juanchian03


Arresto Menor
i know... actually we already read the book tittled: A brief illustrated guide to understand islam... and we find it good.. and my bf decided to convert his religion from christian to muslim.. uma asa po kami na ito yung makakatulong samin and sa mga problema namin, and he is willing to study islam,,'' we really need your advised and your help.

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19 Re: need immediate reply. pls on Sun Feb 17, 2013 8:31 pm

jd888


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If you believe that Embracing the Islamic Faith is the key to your Happiness... Then go ahead. God bless you.


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20 Re: need immediate reply. pls on Sun Feb 17, 2013 9:49 pm

juanchian03


Arresto Menor
pero ask lang po.. if ever na mag muslim nga ang bf ko then hindi pa kmi kasal at my evedence na nag sasama kami or kami nga hindi na po ba kami makakasuhan?

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21 Re: need immediate reply. pls on Mon Feb 18, 2013 11:34 am

raheemerick


Reclusion Perpetua
@juanchian, yes oo. once documented ang pagiging reverted fr none muslim to muslim ng bf mo. and once he complete all the req and live as a good muslim. yes he already have the freedome to remary again. i agreed with kaibigang jd888. but if you and your bf only used this sacred religion for your own benifit and interest. i sugest you better not to do it kung personal ang interest nyo at gagamitin nyo lng ang "islam: dito. maaring magawa nyong maka ligtas sa batas ng tao na tinatakasan nyo kaya ginamit nyo ang ang isang dakilang religion (islam pero sa mata ng allah subhana watta allah. itoy inyong pag babayaran. kung ako s ainyo. mas nananisin ko pang harapin at tanggapin ang parusa at batas ng tao. kesa harapin ang mga pag susulit ng allah sa gagawin nyo. pero ganun pa man. maaring hndi taos sa puso ang pag rerevert into islam faith ng bf mo. (enshalah) in gods will. ipamuhay nya ito at maging daan sa pagiging matuwid na nilikha. salamu alaikum warath mathula i wabarakhatu.

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22 Re: need immediate reply. pls on Tue Feb 19, 2013 10:57 am

juanchian03


Arresto Menor
thank you... and sorry sa inyu... sge pag iisipan namin to ng mabuti.. my qouran naman kmi dito pero hindi pa niya nababasa... pero sa nakita namin maganda naman ang muslim.. my pag ka pareho din sa christian... they believe also in mary and papa jesus.. pinag ka iba lang sa christian jesus christ is son of god sa islam naman prohet... thank you...

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23 Re: need immediate reply. pls on Tue Feb 19, 2013 11:34 am

raheemerick


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yeah read it well and study.. every holy book understand in a dif ways. literally, symbolicaly and spiritualy, anyway. naguluhan naman ako jan sa sinabi mo hehehe.. you call prophet jesus (saws) "papa jesus" though for those orthodox christian, he is a god in a form of human, and according naman sa trinitarian christian, he is a begotten son or son of a god. so you call him "papa jesus" so you mean yung god the father na tinutukoy is lolo pla natin? em i right? pls enlighten me if you have time for this:)

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24 Re: need immediate reply. pls on Wed Feb 20, 2013 7:33 pm

attyLLL


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this will not prevent someone from filing a charge of bigamy. whether it will prosper depends on how you can defend your sincerity in converting to islam. of course, it helps if you convert well ahead of the wedding.


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25 Re: need immediate reply. pls on Wed Feb 20, 2013 9:19 pm

juanchian03


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@attyLLL panu po pag hindi naman kami mag papakasal? gusto lang namin na maging safe sa anu mang mga case. one of the member of my bf confront me already about the relationship i had in my bf. but then i denied it..." hindi ko inamin na my relasyun nga kami ng bf ko... haiiiiiiii

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