My wife and I got married 2009, nahuli ko sya nung 2011 ng may nag text sa kanya ng mejo alanganin. I confronted her pero sabi nya friend lang talaga yun. I even asked her girl friends and they confirmed na friends lang talaga. Then madami pa ako nalaman, nahuli and napatunayan, same guy pa din na ngtxt sa kanya before. The guy gave him gifts, possible money as well, kasma nya sa mga lakad na hindi ko alam, etc.
Recently, I found out na she's cheating pala way back 2010 pa, a year after we got married. Ngayon lang ako nakakuha ng hinihintay ko na confirmation from her friends. Her friends and even professor sa school knows their affair. Turned out na AKO NALANG pala yung hindi nakakalama although madami na ako nahuli, hindi ko pa din matanggap sa sarili ko na yun na pala talaga until nabigyan ako ng solid information from her friends and prof sa school.
Ang malupet, yung paramour nya problemado din kasi may iba pang guys yung wife ko. And she keeps on flirting with guys na mapepera. As if parang maniac sya or mahilig sa lalake or kung ano mang mental disorder meron sya. Naapektuah na yung 4 year old kid namin because sinasama nya sa mga lakad nila ng paramour nya then sinasabi na wag mag sumbong sakin etc. Of course my kid tells me everything, pag icconfront ko naman si wife, she keeps on telling na nagiimbento yung kid namin and nagsisinungaling lang. Pero consistent and very detailed yung kwento ng kid plus may nakukuha din akong pictures ni wife and paramour. Kid even uttered "Ay, bawal pala isumbong sabi ni mommy kasi hindi na nya ako isasama.."
Lahat ng gastos ng family sakin, tuition, bills etc. I am planning to sue her and her paramour. I did some research pero I would like to have additional information coming from the Lawyers here. I am currently building strategies and at the same time getting my financial resources together for this fight.
1. What can I do to wife and her paramour?
2. What can I file on what grounds?
3. Can I ask her friends and professors to be witnesses or can I get a written confession/explanation from them confirming the relationship to be used in court?
Please help. I am really devastated at the moment. If I can get a detailed reply, that would be much appreciated. Thank you in advance.
Last edited by RaulTeston on Fri Feb 22, 2013 12:57 am; edited 2 times in total (Reason for editing : Typo)