My husband is a Phil. Airforce Captain. I am now here in UK for 3years and when I went back last Oct 2012, I found out that my husband is having an affair with a 17 y/o girl who is a daughter of my husband's subordinate. I have seen their ym conversations and there has been several times that it was the girl who asks my husband out. I have contacted the father for her daughter to be guided properly because they are living inside the camp and the father thinks that his daughter is still to young to flirt with these men in uniform, but he reacted the other way, he all blames it on my husband and mentioned about filing a case against my husband as his daughter is a minor. I understand that she is 17 but the girl admitted to me via chat that they have a relationship and she is aware that my husband is married. I have forgiven my husband in the condition of monetary arrangement such as his salary and retirement benefits. So the father is tolerating her daughter by virtue of being a minor which she will be 18 this coming Oct. Not being naive but we all know how youth today are, they mature very early.
Is there something I can file against the girl who happens to be a minor but is fully aware of my husband's marital status? Are the parents not liable for their children's behaviour? I am sure not just because one is a minor gives her excuse to ruin a family.
Can my husband say (if they complain) that he doesn't know the girl is a minor?
Please shed some light.