I'm just browsing the net when I came across this website and I was amazed on how much many married women like me are experiencing the same pain by their husband's infidelity. To be honest right now I'm full of rage towards my husband and his mistress. All this started last year, I found out through a missed call from his cellphone. This happened June last year, when I confronted him about it he made me believed that it was not what I imagined it to be. He mentioned a name that time and even swore that the other woman was just an acquaintance from a common friend. In short he deceived me into thinking that what he's telling was the whole truth. This lasted until the end of the year and when he resigned from his job last January I thought we're already okay. Until one of his officemates contacted me and told me the whole truth about the true identity of his mistress, whom apparently resigned the same month as he did. When I learned about it I then confronted him and at that time he no longer denied it but, insisted that it was over. I found this early Feb. and we tried to talk to a counselor but, he kept on denying that he's in love with the other woman so I tried to access his email. That's when I found out about his indecent YM conversations with his mistress. I copied them and told him about it. He's not living with us right now because he said he needed space and he's trying to avoid any confrontations with me. We just had a heated confrontation today and he blurted out that he's not interested in working out our marriage. Now, my question is, is there any chance that I can file a case against him and his mistress? If so, what would it be? Because under the three conditions under concubinage case I can't seem to find anything I can use against them. And I'm not amenable regarding the punishment for the concubine (destierro), where in fact she, too, should be punished by law if in case proven guilty. Do I even have a case against them? Thank you and I hope you could enlighten me.