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1 what if someone makes you a mistress? on Wed Mar 20, 2013 6:52 pm

LOLXZ


Arresto Menor
Hi I would like to know if kung anong pwedeng ikaso sa isang lalakeng ginawa kang mistress? Actually they aren't married yet and meron silang isang anak.

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2 Re: what if someone makes you a mistress? on Wed Mar 20, 2013 7:19 pm

raheemerick


Reclusion Perpetua
there is no mistres if there is no legal wife.

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3 Re: what if someone makes you a mistress? on Wed Mar 20, 2013 7:24 pm

assenav


Prision Mayor
Madam @LOLXS, ginawa ka pong mistress? Razz
I have a question for you..

BAKIT KA PUMAYAG? Evil or Very Mad

The fact that they aren't married won't justify na tama ang ginawa or pinasukan mo.. Still, may ilang karapatan ka pa rin na nilabag sa part ng COMMON LAW WIFE ng bf mo at the same time eh yung sa bata..

Baliktarin natin situation ninyo ng kinakasama ng bf mo...
Anu kaya mararamdaman mo?

I'm not being judgemental or what.. I have friends na nasasangkot sa ganyang cases but im not tolerating them.. Isa pa, hindi poh batayan ang"kapirasong papel" ika nga para lang maging kampante tayo na kahit pa kumabit tayo sa mga unmarried men eh wala magiging problems..

Regarding sa tanong mo :

WALA... Especially if parehas kayong nasa tamang edad.. Smile at pag iisip Very Happy

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4 Re: what if someone makes you a mistress? on Thu Mar 21, 2013 11:37 am

LOLXZ


Arresto Menor
walang tama sa mundo, at mahirap maitama ang isang pagkakamali. Mahirap din masabing tama ka hangga't hindi mo nararanasan na malagay sa isang situation that you fell in love with a man na mayroong ibang kinakasama at may anak sa iba. Isa pa, isang pagkakamali din nmn na nagsama sila dahil lang sa nabuntis nya lang ung girl dati at ung girl lang na un ang habol ng habol sa knya noon. Wala ciang magawa dahil responsibility nyang panagutan ung bata kya nagsama sila, at until now nagsasama parin sila para dun sa bata. Dumating lang din sa puntong Nainlove ung lalake sa isang girl at nainlove din sa kanya ung girl na un. At alam ni girl na pwede syang makasuhan dahil sa naging mistress sya. At bakit nung panahon ni moses, kung nagawa na ang 10 sampung utos ng diyos bakit parin cia nag asawa ng madami. Question

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5 Re: what if someone makes you a mistress? on Thu Mar 21, 2013 11:43 am

LOLXZ


Arresto Menor
isa pa hindi rin naman c mistress ang naghahabol dun sa lalaki..c guy ang laging pumupunta sa knya, at paano mo titikisin ung lalaking mahal mo kung alam mong pagnawala ka sa kanya babalik sya sa dating siya...yung dating siya na mabisyo, at hindi masaya sa buhay nya, na anytime pwede ciang magpakamatay..

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6 Re: what if someone makes you a mistress? on Thu Mar 21, 2013 3:51 pm

bloodrayne


Arresto Menor
Lolxz, kung mahal ng guy ung sinasabing mistress nya di pakasalan nya, hindi dapat isasama lang nya ng bahay pareho yung babae, dapat panindigan nya kun sakaling nagmahal talaga sya, at dun namn sa sinasabing mistress na yun, naku nagawa nga nyang gaguhin yung una na naging ina ng anak nya mag expect din sya na gagawin nya yun sa kanya pagdating nang araw, ang tunay na kaligayahan kasi di nakukuha sa pansamantalang kaligayahan lang dapat ding isipin nang mabuti na naging masaya ka na walang sinasaktang tao kasi babalik yun sayu kung naranasan mong nakasakit nang iba!

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7 Re: what if someone makes you a mistress? on Thu Mar 21, 2013 9:56 pm

grivera


Arresto Menor
Im married, but separated. after separation i had a gf for 9 years... si gf ang pwedeng tawaging mistress but i never treated her one, my mom and siblings loved her too... pero after 9 years she just cant wait for the annulment dahil wala akong pera... well she left me

-it was a lot of sacrifice for her already, i have no other choice but to let her go

Lesson? its not late for you to make something right

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8 Re: what if someone makes you a mistress? on Thu Mar 21, 2013 10:41 pm

simplicated101


Arresto Menor
hala, kwento ko ba to ? lol!

Hi LOLXZ! I've been through that situation..
Ang hirap actually..
The guy proposed for marriage but I refused to accept it..d rin kami nag live in kasi against ako for that idea..
His daughter is cute..pinakabatang nakarga ko in my whole life..
Anyway, when you said "at paano mo titikisin ung lalaking mahal mo kung alam mong pagnawala ka sa kanya babalik sya sa dating siya...yung dating siya na mabisyo, at hindi masaya sa buhay nya, na anytime pwede ciang magpakamatay.." (cnxa d ako marunong mag quote.. Very Happy) ginawa niya nga ito nung first attempt ko na makipag break sa kanya..He didn't die don't worry..What I did was, sinabihan ko siya na may anak siya so dapat wag siya mag drama ng ganun.. nakinig nman ung tao.. d tinuloy..

He actually tried also to talk to the mother of his child. He even shared to her na nagproposed na cya for marriage to me.. ayun! flare up si girl.. kinuha cp ni guy, tinawagan ako at inaway..She's using the child to scare the guy.. she said na he will never see the child if he continues to see me..his family also knew about us and judged me and medyo nagkalabuan nga sila ng mama niya..Mdyo naging magulo na ang lahat..Then It came coco crunch..hahaha I mean dun na realize ko, na we should decide which is which..
Mali din namin na we started our relationship na wala pa silang proper closure ng ina ng anak niya.

We are actually on our separate ways now..just recently lang actually.. I have to let him go(alam ko mahirap to)..

Nood ka na lang beautiful creatures.. biggrinjester


Regarding sa legal Q mo, wala nga nman..

PM mo ako kung may tanong ka pa.. lol


Be tough Girl.. Wink

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9 Re: what if someone makes you a mistress? on Fri Mar 22, 2013 2:37 pm

LOLXZ


Arresto Menor
simplicated101
i really like you na..hhehehe...you know ang hirap kc kpag lumapit ka din sa mga friends mo and they dont understand you because wala cla sa situation...i want some advice for someone na nanggaling na mismo sa situation....someone who will understand, not someone na magbibigay lang ng advice because she/he thinks that it was the right thing to do...madali lang nmn kcng mag advice sa iba eh, pero mahirap mag advice when it becomes to yourselves.

By the way about the beautiful creature, i already watched it...actually boring yung first part nya nakatulog ako sa cinema...heheheh...nagising lang ako sa climax...maganda na kc ung movie nung pagdating sa may labanan na...mas maganda ytang panoorin ung warm bodies.

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10 Re: what if someone makes you a mistress? on Fri Mar 22, 2013 2:43 pm

LOLXZ


Arresto Menor
grivera
the good thing about you is you tried to prove your love to your gf, its not your lost...its her...bibihira na sa lalaki ngaun ang katulad mo...sa totoo lang if ako ung nasa situation ng gf mo, im willing na maghintay lalo na at malaking sacrifice na ang nagawa mo..I hope to find someone like you who is capable of sacrificing everything for the ones he love.

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11 Re: what if someone makes you a mistress? on Fri Mar 22, 2013 7:01 pm

simplicated101


Arresto Menor
"madali lang nmn kcng mag advice sa iba eh, pero mahirap mag advice when it becomes to yourselves." - tamaaaaa.... iagree

I'm willing to give advice.. no charge at all. :p
hahaha..

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12 Re: what if someone makes you a mistress? on Fri Mar 22, 2013 10:13 pm

assenav


Prision Mayor
LOLXZ wrote:isa pa hindi rin naman c mistress ang naghahabol dun sa lalaki..c guy ang laging pumupunta sa knya, at paano mo titikisin ung lalaking mahal mo kung alam mong pagnawala ka sa kanya babalik sya sa dating siya...yung dating siya na mabisyo, at hindi masaya sa buhay nya, na anytime pwede ciang magpakamatay..

Pasensya now lang naka online.. Busy si ako.. Graduation kase ng 2 lovely kids ko.. OT.. Very Happy

Nwei, alam mo kung ayaw talaga ng babae, walang magagawa si lalaki and vice versa.. Yang mga pagpapakamatay na sinasabi nila is just a simple blackmail para maniwala ka..

Si moses, regarding sa pag aasawa nia ng marami ayon sa bible, try to read or reflash in your memory yung kwento nia.. Laughing

Lesson every women should learn : Magkaroon lang poh ng self respect at sabi nga ng isang ka member natin, gamitin ang utak since mas mataas naman ito sa puso..

Goodluck sayo.. Smile

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13 Re: what if someone makes you a mistress? on Sat Mar 23, 2013 11:03 am

raheemerick


Reclusion Perpetua
ano png cnabi ng precious heart romance or iba png tagalog pocketbook novel o mga love story sa mga blog site!! sa pinoylawyer.org lng? eto at tulo na cpon ko sa mga drama-rama sa forum. huhuhuhu
mga legal wife na mga bitter, mga hitad na eskabetche at mga lalakeng malilikot at man loloko.. hahaha mga martir na iniwan at nag paraya. mga babaeng makakapal ang muka. mga asawa na ayaw pa talo. at mga kabet na ayaw pa awat. mga anak na nag durusa at yung iba wa-pakelz na lng at di keri ng powers nila.. mga readers na epal, hahaha.. ang gugulo ng life nyo. basta ako sa loob ng banyo all by my self. safe na iwas tulo pa at iwas gastos pa!wala png nasasaktanng iba.Smile yun nga lng? muka na akong tanga hahahaha!!!

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14 Re: what if someone makes you a mistress? on Sat Mar 23, 2013 4:05 pm

LOLXZ


Arresto Menor
assenav
ganito lang po kc yan,like i've said earlier it was too easy na magbigay ka ng advice, pero kapag ikaw na ang nasa situation diba ang hirap mag advice sa sarili mo...cguro nga may point ka kahit papano, pero what if bandang huli ikaw pala ang mali....mahirap din kcng makinig sa mga advice sa isang taong hindi napagdaanan ung situation na un...it was to easy to say something but it was really hard to understand why people choose their lives like that...minsan pinipili natin ang tama because we do not want somebody to get hurts, even if it is killing us..Parang ganito lang yan, kapag lumayo si mistress kay guy dahil yun ang sa tingin nyang tama...masasaktan c guy at si mistress..Pinili ni mistress na lumayo para hindi na masaktan ung kinakasama ni guy, pero lalo lang din masasaktan yung kinakasama nung guy...bakit? dahil kht anong gawin nya sa sarili nya, hindi nya maaalis sa isip nung guy kung sino nga ba ang taong mahal nya....hindi naman tlga si mistress ang dapat magdecide kung ano ang tama, dahil pwedeng alam na ni mistress sa ngaun ang makakapagpasaya sa kanya...ang dapat nalang na magdecide tungkol dyan ay yung guy, at kapag pinili ni guy yung kinakasama nya ngaun...tanggapin nalang nya ng maluwag sa sarili nya at saka nya gawin ang sinasabi mo na tama..sumugal man at least you know sa sarili mo that you did everything that you could do..

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15 Re: what if someone makes you a mistress? on Sat Mar 23, 2013 4:09 pm

LOLXZ


Arresto Menor
raheemerick
gulo mo po dude, hahahaahaha......sometimes nakakatulog po ang forum sa buhay ng tao....because this can help us to decide and to think of whats the better thingd to do... Smile

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16 Re: what if someone makes you a mistress? on Sat Mar 23, 2013 4:14 pm

LOLXZ


Arresto Menor
SA LAHAT PO NG NAGCOCOMMENT FOR THIS TOPIC I REALLY APPRECIATED UNG MGA COMMENT PO NINYO Smile

KAY ASSENAV, KAY RAHEEMERICK NA PANGGULO, KAY GRIVERA, bloodrayne, AND KAY simplicated101 ...thanks po Smile

MASAYA LANG MAG OPEN NG TOPIC LALO NA AT RELATED SA TOTOONG BUHAY Very Happy

MINSAN LANG TLGA HINDI NAGKAKAINTINDIHAN ANG BAWAT ISA DAHIL SA PAGKAKAIBA-IBA NATIN ^_^

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17 Re: what if someone makes you a mistress? on Mon Mar 25, 2013 1:23 pm

raheemerick


Reclusion Perpetua
wow special "panggulo" pa ang coments ko. hahahaha.. taas ang kilay ko pati buhok ko sa ilong ah:p

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18 life is what we make it on Mon Mar 25, 2013 3:59 pm

cire212215


Prision Correccional
haay life.. pero dahil sa trials, mas naappreciate natin ang life.

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19 Re: what if someone makes you a mistress? on Mon Mar 25, 2013 4:32 pm

simplicated101


Arresto Menor
Natawa ako sa post ni raheemerick.. lol!

Thanks also LOLXZ for starting this thread.. Very Happy

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20 Re: what if someone makes you a mistress? on Tue Mar 26, 2013 8:05 pm

assenav


Prision Mayor
LOLXZ wrote:assenav
ganito lang po kc yan,like i've said earlier it was too easy na magbigay ka ng advice, pero kapag ikaw na ang nasa situation diba ang hirap mag advice sa sarili mo...cguro nga may point ka kahit papano, pero what if bandang huli ikaw pala ang mali....mahirap din kcng makinig sa mga advice sa isang taong hindi napagdaanan ung situation na un...it was to easy to say something but it was really hard to understand why people choose their lives like that...minsan pinipili natin ang tama because we do not want somebody to get hurts, even if it is killing us..Parang ganito lang yan, kapag lumayo si mistress kay guy dahil yun ang sa tingin nyang tama...masasaktan c guy at si mistress..Pinili ni mistress na lumayo para hindi na masaktan ung kinakasama ni guy, pero lalo lang din masasaktan yung kinakasama nung guy...bakit? dahil kht anong gawin nya sa sarili nya, hindi nya maaalis sa isip nung guy kung sino nga ba ang taong mahal nya....hindi naman tlga si mistress ang dapat magdecide kung ano ang tama, dahil pwedeng alam na ni mistress sa ngaun ang makakapagpasaya sa kanya...ang dapat nalang na magdecide tungkol dyan ay yung guy, at kapag pinili ni guy yung kinakasama nya ngaun...tanggapin nalang nya ng maluwag sa sarili nya at saka nya gawin ang sinasabi mo na tama..sumugal man at least you know sa sarili mo that you did everything that you could do..


Very well said madam.. Pero alam mo, pinakagusto ko sa sinabi mo eh yung si guy ang mag de decide bandang huli kase yan naman ang dapat at totoo.. Lage lang natin iisipin na sa bawat ganyang sitwasyon, palaging may isang anghel na nakabingit na masira ang kinabukasan at lumaking sira ang pamilya..

Masarap makipagpalitan ng point of views kase dami natin natututunan ryt? Wala namang mali at tamang ideas / advises.. Nasa sa tao na lang din yun kung susundin ba niya ito o hindi..

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21 Re: what if someone makes you a mistress? on Tue Mar 26, 2013 10:42 pm

simplicated101


Arresto Menor
nakisali pa si heart and chiz e.. Very Happy

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22 Re: what if someone makes you a mistress? on Wed Mar 27, 2013 1:11 pm

raheemerick


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cno ba may pakana ng post nato? lets meet together sa private pool at habang nka 2 piece at tibak yung mga legal wife at kabet? kami naman eh mag swiming trunks lng na yari sa kulambo:) para iwas dengue ang pototoy:)

ating harapan ungkatin ang may mga rurok na opinyon at suhestyon na humihmlya jan sa mga maduduming utak. este!! matatalinong utak pla tungkol sa isue..

summer na!1 aba miming na tayo mga ka chika galore..
sagot dw ni assenav ang rent sa private pool pati food and over all swimsuit:)

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23 Re: what if someone makes you a mistress? on Wed Mar 27, 2013 1:22 pm

assenav


Prision Mayor
raheemerick wrote:cno ba may pakana ng post nato? lets meet together sa private pool at habang nka 2 piece at tibak yung mga legal wife at kabet? kami naman eh mag swiming trunks lng na yari sa kulambo:) para iwas dengue ang pototoy:)

ating harapan ungkatin ang may mga rurok na opinyon at suhestyon na humihmlya jan sa mga maduduming utak. este!! matatalinong utak pla tungkol sa isue..

summer na!1 aba miming na tayo mga ka chika galore..
sagot dw ni assenav ang rent sa private pool pati food and over all swimsuit:)


special mention talaga? hahaha..
sige bah.. pag tama ko sa lotto.. ahihihi..

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24 Re: what if someone makes you a mistress? on Wed Mar 27, 2013 1:25 pm

raheemerick


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assenav, tamaan ka sakin makita mo!! hehehe

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25 Re: what if someone makes you a mistress? on Wed Mar 27, 2013 1:34 pm

assenav


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raheemerick wrote:assenav, tamaan ka sakin makita mo!! hehehe


BWAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHHA....!! Twisted Evil


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