I was married in 1993, we had 2 sons, however in 1998 my wife got involved with her officemate,although without proof and purely hearsay, my in-laws can attest that it was true. to save the marriage i ask her to confess everything,and she said it was only MU and nothing more. I tried to live with that in order to save the marriage as long as i wont hear anything about the affair anymore. Came 1999, i receive an anonymous call, and again telling me that i should be aware of the real situation happening between my wife and her officemate.
In order for her to admit it, i made a situation for her to get jealous,i praised my sister in law (my brothers wife) for being a good wife to my brother, and me getting closer to her. with that she admitted that she went with the guy to manila.
with rage, i left her and my kids and tried to start a new life in 2000, and my kids were adopted by my mother in law. but in 2003, my mother in law ask me to go back and help her guide my kids. My wife and I lived in the same house till 2007, on separate rooms and rarely talk to each other. we had already have clandestine relationship with other parties during that time.
In 2009, i was able to get a house of my own, and now i plan to file an annullment. I have few question though.
1. she is working abroad can i still file?
2. i dont want to file any other case (adultery) except annulment, will i still have an edge of being granted an annullment
3. She might accuse me also of bigamy and abandonment, can that be avoided?
Thanks, I hope to hear positive responses