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1 Child support (different than others) on Sun Mar 31, 2013 11:33 pm

sohelpmegod


Arresto Menor
Hi,

I have a child po with a girl (Not proven via DNA Test), pero hindi ko naman po tinatanggi na sakin. The thing is, hindi po sya nakaapelyido sakin. Dun sya nakaapelyido sa TATAY ng una nyang anak. Then nitong bandang huli, nagkaron po ako ng GF and she doesn't know anything. I know the best is to tell her the situation pero hindi ko pa po kaya sa ngayon. Now, the girl is asking more than 50% of my salary at hindi ko po kayang ibigay yun dahil sa mahal ang mga kagastusan ngayon. Wala na ngang natitira sakin (nakakagawa lang ng paraan dahil sa sidelines). She's telling me now na kahit anong gulo papasukin nya lalo na kung maapektuhan ung anak nya. Now I want to seek help po sa inyo para alam ko po ang gagawin ko. Pasensya na po sa abala. Sana po ay makapagbigay po kayo ng payo ng mga legal na aksyon na pwede kong gawin at kung ano pong maaaring mangyari kung sakaling hindi ko maibigay ang gusto nya. Salamat po.

Wala po akong pinirmahang birth certificate. At hindi nga po sakin nakapangalan ung bata.

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2 Re: Child support (different than others) on Mon Apr 01, 2013 12:29 am

concepab


Reclusion Perpetua
just continue providing for your child and keep all your proof na nagbibigay ka para sa anak mo. kung personal mong ibinibigay na nanay ang pera siguruhin mo na may pipirmahan siya na may tinanggap siyang ganong halaga ang petsa kung kailan niya ito tinanggap. magiging ebidensya mo yung someday. is hse tried to harrass you and your new gf, maari kang magsampa ng reklamo laban sa kanya.

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3 Re: Child support (different than others) on Mon Apr 01, 2013 2:56 am

sohelpmegod


Arresto Menor
Nagbibigay naman po ako. Pero this time she's asking for too much na sobra pa sa 50% ng kinikita ko. Ayaw din nyang tanggapin na kulang ung mabibigay ko.

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4 Re: Child support (different than others) on Mon Apr 01, 2013 9:24 am

assenav


Prision Mayor
sohelpmegod wrote:Nagbibigay naman po ako. Pero this time she's asking for too much na sobra pa sa 50% ng kinikita ko. Ayaw din nyang tanggapin na kulang ung mabibigay ko.

She's asking too much.. Me work ba yung husband / partner ng naanakan mo? Baka naman pati yung gastos nila e sau na iaasa? Tama si @concepab.. Keep those proofs na nagbigay ka.. in case tanggihan kase kulang, papirmahin mo paren na di niya tinanggap kase nga kulang..

Nakakainis din mga ganitong babae.. BE REASONABLE naman.. Kung may pangangalaingan tayo, meron din naman yung hinihingan naten.. Di bale sana kung di nagbibigay kahit kailan eh..

For now, mas maganda if you talk to her and explained na ganun sitwasyon mo..
At yung sa GF mo, better tell her before pa na sa iba nia malaman.. Mas gulo yan,..

Goodluck..

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5 Re: Child support (different than others) on Mon Apr 01, 2013 10:52 am

sohelpmegod


Arresto Menor
Pumapasok pa po ung girl. College student. I just graduated 2 years ago. Pero maliit pa po salary ko. Ung bata po mag 1 yr and 1 month po. Ung tita nung girl eh medyo nagtatapang. Sinabihan na din ako na kung gusto ko idaan legally. Hihingi daw sila ng child support + ipapaDNA test. If they did that how much po ang reasonable na ibibigay sakin ng korte? She's also saying na ako daw gagastos ng DNA. Why me? Di ko naman knclaim na hindi sakin ung bata.

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6 Re: Child support (different than others) on Mon Apr 01, 2013 11:07 am

assenav


Prision Mayor
Bakit di sau naka apelyido ang bata? Isa pa, di mo naman itinatanggi na anak mo yun so wala na siguro need para mag pa DNA pa.

regarding sa support, di ka naman nila mapipiga kung wala talaga.. At kung sakali magdemanda sila, wala rin naman sila magagawa kung wala ka maibibigay na kagaya ng hinihingi nila.. Ang support eh kung anu lang needs ng bata.. At mag settle parin kung kaya mo ba o hindi.. Fair naman ang family court I think..

Wag ka magpadala sa pananakot ng tita niya..

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7 Re: Child support (different than others) on Mon Apr 01, 2013 11:13 am

sohelpmegod


Arresto Menor
Yung bakit di po sakin nakaapelyido is pwede pong maging base dito sa bagay sa baba.

1. Sinabi ko sa kanya na takot pa ko. (kasi hindi pa po alam ng parents ko)
2. Tulog pa po ako nung oras na gawan ng pangalan ung bata.

Sinasabi po nilang needs ng bata is gatas/vitamins etc. Sabi sakin nung tita is kahit 100% pa daw ibigay ko kulang pa din daw sa ginagawa ng anak nya.

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8 Re: Child support (different than others) on Mon Apr 01, 2013 11:23 am

assenav


Prision Mayor
sohelpmegod wrote:Yung bakit di po sakin nakaapelyido is pwede pong maging base dito sa bagay sa baba.

1. Sinabi ko sa kanya na takot pa ko. (kasi hindi pa po alam ng parents ko)
2. Tulog pa po ako nung oras na gawan ng pangalan ung bata.

Sinasabi po nilang needs ng bata is gatas/vitamins etc. Sabi sakin nung tita is kahit 100% pa daw ibigay ko kulang pa din daw sa ginagawa ng anak nya.


Basic needs eh gatas vitamins, diaper, clothing and vaccines.. Since yung gatas naman eh nde everyday nauubos, yung clothing is hindi rin daily need bilhan at yung vaccines once a month or kung complete na e di schedule lang yun depende sa kailangan ng bata, maari naman na sub divide mo ibigay yung support eh.. Or mas maganda para sure ka na sa anak mo mapupunta yung ibibigay mo, goods nalang ibigay mo pero magtabi ka parin ng pera para sa kanya just in case may emergency na im sure ikaw naman tatawagan.. at least handa ka..

"Sabi sakin nung tita is kahit 100% pa daw ibigay ko kulang pa din daw sa ginagawa ng anak nya." -
they are being unreasonable..

Sana kasi naisip nila na mahirap bago siya sumuong sa ganyan knowing na 2ND time na pala nia naanakan....!

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9 Re: Child support (different than others) on Mon Apr 01, 2013 11:27 am

sohelpmegod


Arresto Menor
What percentage of my salary po ang tingin mong sasabihin ng korte na dapat kong ibigay?

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10 Re: Child support (different than others) on Mon Apr 01, 2013 11:35 am

assenav


Prision Mayor
Honestly wala ako idea.. All i can assure you is that fair naman sila doon.. Lahat iba base nila sa doc's / papers na ipe present ninyo..

Like hihingi sila list ng needs / expenses ng bata.. Taz yung sa salary mo yung proof na ganun lang earnings mo..

Maaari mo rin i request with valid reasons (e.g u want to be sure na sa baby nga mapupunta yung ibibigay mo) na kung maaari habang baby pa ang anak mo eh goods nalang ibigay mo as support..

Anyway, wala pa naman sa court ata so better talk to them and ilatag mo s kanila yung proposal mo..

BTW, alam na ba ito ng parents mo???

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11 Re: Child support (different than others) on Mon Apr 01, 2013 11:39 am

sohelpmegod


Arresto Menor
Yes po, alam po ng parents ko. At sabi din ng dad ko wag na akong makipagcommunicate sa kanila. Hayaan ko nalang kung anong gusto nilang gawin. Magdemanda sila kung magdedemanda. Magbabase din ba sila sa expenses ko? Or sa expenses lang ng bata?

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12 Re: Child support (different than others) on Mon Apr 01, 2013 11:43 am

assenav


Prision Mayor
Wag mo din naman balewalain kase panu pag nag file sila ng complaint againts you? or worst magpadala ng demand letter taz sa company mo ipadala? dba?

I am not so sure regarding sa tanong mo pero tinitingnan talaga nila eh yung expenses ng bata.. Detailed naman at syempre pag aaralan din naman yun..

Y not let your parents talk with them?

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13 Re: Child support (different than others) on Mon Apr 01, 2013 11:47 am

sohelpmegod


Arresto Menor
Oks, salamat po. Magmumuni-muni muna po ako pano ko sasabihin sa GF ko.
Salamat sa time.

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14 Re: Child support (different than others) on Mon Apr 01, 2013 11:51 am

assenav


Prision Mayor
welcome.. Mas maganda wag mo na patagalin pa.. If she really loves you, she'll understand and support you..

Goodluck and always PRAY.. angelanime

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15 Re: Child support (different than others) on Mon Apr 01, 2013 11:53 am

sohelpmegod


Arresto Menor
Thanks. Smile

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16 Re: Child support (different than others) on Mon Apr 01, 2013 8:51 pm

myrzaandan


Arresto Menor
pwedi naman pala in kinds.. kunin mo ang list ng kailangan ng baby mo at ikaw ang bumili lahat.

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17 Re: Child support (different than others) on Mon Apr 28, 2014 6:55 pm

mimsy


Reclusion Temporal
This was a very interesting topic, nobody asked you if the girl was married to the father of her first child? How come she decided to put your child under the name of the father of her first child?

If she was married to this guy, then you will not be obliged to support the child. As the child will be considered legit child of the first guy if she was indeed married:-)

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18 Re: Child support (different than others) on Tue Apr 29, 2014 4:05 pm

concepab


Reclusion Perpetua
sohelpmegod wrote:Pumapasok pa po ung girl. College student. I just graduated 2 years ago. Pero maliit pa po salary ko. Ung bata po mag 1 yr and 1 month po. Ung tita nung girl eh medyo nagtatapang. Sinabihan na din ako na kung gusto ko idaan legally. Hihingi daw sila ng child support + ipapaDNA test. If they did that how much po ang reasonable na ibibigay sakin ng korte? She's also saying na ako daw gagastos ng DNA. Why me? Di ko naman knclaim na hindi sakin ung bata.

Let them do that mas-makakabuti yun para sa side mo. They cannot force you to pay for the expenses para sa DNA testing, sila ang may gusting patunayan kaya sila ang gagastos. Ang pag-hingi ng child support ay hindi kung mag-kano ang gusto nila, binabase po iyan sa actual na pangangailangan ng bata. Kahit kalian naman po ay “walang sapat” kung hindi aayusin ang pag-gastos.

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