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pwede ko ba sampahan ng r.a 9262 ang father ng anak ko, sine hndi sapat ang support n bnbgay nya at nasa saudi sya engineer malaki ang saho.

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beabianca


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hi gud day, gusto ko po huminigi ng advice sa inyo since gulong gulo n po ang isip ko,nakilala ko ang bf ko at nagkaanak kami kaya lng po eh , nagpangap siya na binata eversince n naging kami, pinakilala p nman niya ako sa family nya at sinabi ng mga kapatid nya na talagang binata siya. then nag abroad po siya, after ng vacation nya dito hndi sya umuwi sa akin, and i found out n may asawa n pala siya at kasal dito since 1999, ang tanong ko po eh, may anak kami at pumirma at iniacknowledge nya ang anak namin sa birth certificate. sinabi din niya na driver lng siya sa saudi at 10k lng ang sinasahod niya, kaya pumayag ako sa sustento niya na 5000 a month, then this month lng after checking sa poea i found out n isa pala siyang engineer at nasa 50,000 ang sahod nya monthly, ngaun po gusto ko po mag file ng petition for support para sa anak namin, at may nakapag sabi sa akin na dpat eh RA 9262 n lng kc nga economic violence ang ginawa nya sa akin, gusto ko ng sapat na sustento para sa anak namin dahil kulang n kulang para sa 11 month old n baby na nag gagatas pa. Pwede po ba ito. May nakapag sabi po sa akin n pwede din ako kasuhan ng asawa niya ng concubinage, kc pumatol ako sa kanya, pero totaly at in good faith po ako n wala akong alam n may asawa n siya kc nga po niloko talaga ako. Ngaun po pala ay nasa saudi siya paano po ako makakapag sampa ng kaso laban sa kanya. Sana po masagot at matulungan ninyo ako sa problema ko. More power!

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attyLLL


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did he stop sending the P5,000 monthly? i suggest you try first to negotiate with him to increase the support instead of resorting to immediate legal action.


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beabianca


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hi sir good day again, nakipag usap n po ako ng madaming beses sa father of my daughter but he still refuse to gave the said amount that i am asking for him, sa totoo lng po hndi ko talaga kayang pagkasyahin ang 5000 n pnapadala nya dahil po sa baby pa ang anak namin kulang n kulang sa pang gatas pa lng at napakamahal ng gatas, isa pa po kapag nagkakasakit ang bata talagang hirap n hirap ako humagilap ng pera, totally naman po talaga na niloko nya ako at wala ako alam sa mga sinasabi nya sa akin, actually po lumapit na ako sa PAO lawyer at may nag handle n po sa akin doon , kaya lng po ang sabi sa akin ng lawyer ko hndi sakop ng jurisdiction ang law natin doon sa saudi kaya ang sabi ng lawyer ko tska n lng ako mag sampa ng kaso kapag dumating n dito ung father ng anak ko, or 1 month before ng pagdating nya. Npakahirap po pakiusapan ng taong un, samantalang malaki nman ang kinikita nya bilang engineer sa saudi. Itutuloy ko pa din po ba ang pagkaso ko sa kanya ng RA 9262. Wala po hndi ko po talaga sya ma convince

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attyLLL


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the pao lawyer is right, and since he is sending money, the case may not necessarily prosper but he might settle with you to increase the amount of support.

you are not barred from filing your case now, but you should be aware of the risks.

i also recommend you send a demand letter to his home here stating he needs to increase the amount of support. another proper recourse is a civil case for increase of support to be filed with the family court.


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beabianca


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hi sir good day again thank you for you responds , masaya po ako n sinasagot ninyo ang mga katanungan ko dito, ang sabi ko lng po sa PAO lawyer eh ang isasampa ko po eh petition for support kaya lng po or civil case kaya lng po according daw po sa kwento ko at niloko ako masyado sampahan n lng daw namin ng criminal case na RA 9262 sila po ang nagpayo sa akin ng ganon,po ang gawin ko, tapos po, nalaman ko po n ang legal wife ng tatay ng anak ko eh, isang barangay chairwoman, ang sabi ng abogado ko eh sampahan n daw po namin ng kaso ngaun para daw matalo ung asawa nya sa barangay election ngaun october,hndi ko po alam kung binibiro lng po ako doon, pero un po ang pinapayo nila sa akin, ung sinabi nyo din po na mag send ng demand letter sa kanya, sa bahay nila eh babagsak po un sa bahay nilang mag asawa, na hindi pa alam ng asawa nya ung sa amin, kaya ko lng nman po na trace ang address nila dahil sa POEA at sa OWWA. makakabuti po ba n mag send n ako ng demand lettet ngaun sa bahay nila kahit wala pa siya dito sa pinas. Sana po matulungan nyo po ako ulit ....thank you very much po

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attyLLL


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well, you will have to decide whether you are ready for the consequences when the wife finds out. whether you file a civil or criminal case, you will have to allege his address and your complaint will be delivered there.

if a demand letter, then send it to both his foreign and local address. be prepared for the fallout.


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beabianca


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hi gud day po, bumalik po ako sa poa lawyer na sana doon ko isasampa ang ra9262 sana kaya lang ang sinabi nya sa akin eh hndi pa daw namin maisasampa ung case kc nga wala dito ung tao nasa saudi pa ang suggestion nya po sa akin eh , alamin ko muna kung kelan ang dating kapag 1 month bago dumating eh tsaka n lng po namin isasampa ang kaso. pwede nman po daw ipadala ang demand letter doon the problem is hndi ko alam ang exact address nya doon, company address lang po ang alam ko dahil nakuha ko sa poea, at kahit daw isampa ko doon hndi din daw po mag proposper ang case... sana po masagot nyo po ulti ang aking katanungan. thanks po

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attyLLL


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my main concern with your complaint is that he is actually sending P5,000 per month so you cannot say he is not supporting you. there's a difference between that and the crime of economic violence.

why not just send the demand letter to his company, hopefully it will be forwarded to him, or research where the employees stay. you don't feel confident about sending it to his home?

if you start taking action now, you run the risk that he will suddenly stop sending support altogether. you know him better, how do you think he will react?

poea does not have the power to decide your case.


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beabianca


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opo nagpapadala nman po sya pero po hndi sapat ang ibibigay nya dahil sa nagpapagatas pa ako sa anak namin dahil baby pa kulang n kulang po ang 5000 n pinapadala nya. sabi nman po ng lawyer ko sa pao eh hndi nman po porket nagpapadala eh hndi n pwede kasuhan ng economic violence depende daw po kc nga po insufficient nga po. kasi naman engineer siya sa saudi, iyon din po ang nasa isip ko na baka kapag kinasuhan ko n siya ngayon eh hndi na ako padalan pa para sa anak namin, wala pa naman ako trabaho sa ngayon.hindi ko nga po alam kung sa bahay ko ipapadala ang demand letter dahil sa address nila ng asawa niya iyon. Isa pa po sabi ng pao lawyer ko pwedeng hndi mag prosfer ang case ko wether civil case demand letter kung ipapadala ko sa kanya sa saudi hndi ko din alam exact location niya doon , ang company alam ko ang address pero madami sila branch sa saudi. gulong gulon n nga po ang isip ko kung ipapadala ko n ang demand letter ngayon sa kanya habang nasa saudi pa siya, iniisip ko naman baka naman kapag dumating n siya dito at doon ko siya padalan ng demand letter eh , sabihin niya na wala n siya trabaho at hindi n makakapag bibigay pa ng suporta na hinihingi ko para sa anak namin. Sana po ay matulungan ninyo po ako ulit dahil sa gulong gulo n po ang akin g isip ginawa ko lang po ito para sa anak namin n makakuha ng profer support. Thank you very much po...

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attyLLL


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if you cannot get his saudi address and you really wish to move on this now, it seems you have no other option but to send the demand letter to his philippine residence.

how do you communicate with him now?


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beabianca


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ganun po ba opo hindi ko talaga alam ang saudi address niya kc pati ang agency nya dito sa pinas ayaw ibigay ang address nya sa saudi kc daw po hindi ako legal wife kahit n pinakita ko na birth certificate ng anak namin. sa text po nag tetext siya sa akin , ako naman nag tetext sa kanya sa roaming at nag chat din po kami. gusto ko lang po kc gawin ito para sa anak namin dahil alam ko n maganda ang buhay nila, gusto ko lang po makuha ang nararapat para sa anak namin, ask ko lang din po if ever kung mamatay ang tatay ng anak ko pwede ba isa sa maging benificiery ang anak nya sa akin since naka apelyido naman sa kanya, kahit n po hndi nakalagay as benificiery ang anak namin sa sss niya. thanks po ulet at more power... wait ko po ulet reply nyo... thank you very much po

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attyLLL


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i'm not sure if sss has an internal process which will allow the illegitimate child to be listed without participation from the father.

note that i'm not contradicting the advise of the PAO lawyer. what i'm just adding is that if you do not want to wai, you can file an action now.


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gbasagre


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Atty. pano kung foreigner ang father ng bata? Same scenario but South African ang tatay. Lagi nyang sinasabi na magpapadala sya at sasagutin nya daw yung expenses ko sa panganganak. Until now, wala akong natatanggap na support from him. I'm already in debt prior to my pregnancy, tapos nung nabuntis ako, hindi ko na nabayaran ng maayos ang mga utang ko, resulting to a probable BP 22 case against me from the banks. Pumunta sya dito once after I gave birth para i-acknowledge ang bata.

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attyLLL


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gba, i'm not sure what your question is? you want to file a case against the father?


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gbasagre


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attyLLL wrote:gba, i'm not sure what your question is? you want to file a case against the father?
a case sana

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attyLLL


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well, if you file a case against him, it may be that you will not see him again. if you will file a case against him, the best one will be economic abuse under ra 9262. you will have to allege and prove that he is not giving sufficient support and that his intent is to control you.

you can also consider filing a civil case for support.

you will have to time it that he is here. does he have a usual address when he is in the philippines?


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gbasagre


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Unfortunately wala syang address dito. medyo long shot pala just in case. Thanks for the reply.

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