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1 child support and custody on Fri Apr 26, 2013 9:52 pm

ai-ai


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Good day po!

Seaman po ang ex-boyfriend ko kakahiwalay lang po namin and at this very moment buntis po ako sinabi niya naman n susuporthan nia yung bata pero gusto ko po maging legal ang lahat. ano po ang gagawin ko para maging legal o legitimate yung anak ko? gusto ko rin magdemand ng financial support galing sa kanya hangang saan po ba at pwede rin po ba na ako ang magdecide kung kelan at pwede sila magkita at magsama?
sana matugunan niyo po ang katanungan ko



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2 Re: child support and custody on Sat Apr 27, 2013 12:08 pm

attyLLL


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you can negotiate an agreement for acknowledgment and support.


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3 Re: child support and custody on Fri May 03, 2013 2:13 am

ai-ai


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kailangan po ba nkaapelyido sa kanya yung bata?

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4 Re: child support and custody on Fri May 10, 2013 11:19 am

toragsoysailog


Arresto Menor
ai-ai wrote:Good day po!

Seaman po ang ex-boyfriend ko kakahiwalay lang po namin and at this very moment buntis po ako sinabi niya naman n susuporthan nia yung bata pero gusto ko po maging legal ang lahat. ano po ang gagawin ko para maging legal o legitimate yung anak ko? gusto ko rin magdemand ng financial support galing sa kanya hangang saan po ba at pwede rin po ba na ako ang magdecide kung kelan at pwede sila magkita at magsama?
sana matugunan niyo po ang katanungan ko

ai ai

ang alam ko lang ha.. kahit di naka sunod sa surname niya ang bata pwede ka mag demand ng support. basta ba i acknowledge niya na anak niya yang dinadala mo. i mean dapat pumirma siya sa likod ng birth certificate o kaya ay isang kasulatan na ina amin niya na anak niya ang isisilang mo. dapat pag nanganak ka na yun ang asikasuhin mo para di ka mahirapan mag demand sa mga susunod na panahon. ang mga lalaki halos karamihan basta suporta na ang pinag usapan nag dedeny na mga yan.. kaya kailangan mo ng ebidensiya na anak niya yan.. di man natin inu unahan ha pag dumating ang araw na ideny nya may isa pang paraan yun yung DNA test. ang anak mo ay illigitimate kasi di kayo kasal. kasal lang ang kasagutan kung gusto mong maging legitimate ang bata.
sana ay kahit konti eh na help kita.. God bless you..

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5 Re: child support and custody on Sun May 12, 2013 11:53 pm

ai-ai


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ganun po ba kala ko kasi pagkanakaapelyido yung bata sa kanhya eh legal n syang anak ng tatay nia.. ina-acknowledge naman siya meron naman kaming mga malinaw n usapan n kanya yung bata kaya nga lang s facebook lng gawa ng nakasampa siya ngayon pumunta n rin yung mg magulang niya dito samin nagusap na kaya nga lng biglaang nagdesisyon n maghiwalay na raw kmi.. pwede rin namn pala d nakaapelyido sa kanya.ayoko kasi dumating yung araw n may usapan nga kami pero di naman legal baka bigla niya akong iwan s ere tulad ngayon bigla lang yung desisyon niya mas gusto ko makasigurado n di niya tatakbuhan yung responsabilidad niya.. nkatulong ng malaki yung reply mo s katanungan ko thank you..

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6 Re: child support and custody on Mon May 13, 2013 3:23 pm

toragsoysailog


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ai-ai wrote:ganun po ba kala ko kasi pagkanakaapelyido yung bata sa kanhya eh legal n syang anak ng tatay nia.. ina-acknowledge naman siya meron naman kaming mga malinaw n usapan n kanya yung bata kaya nga lang s facebook lng gawa ng nakasampa siya ngayon pumunta n rin yung mg magulang niya dito samin nagusap na kaya nga lng biglaang nagdesisyon n maghiwalay na raw kmi.. pwede rin namn pala d nakaapelyido sa kanya.ayoko kasi dumating yung araw n may usapan nga kami pero di naman legal baka bigla niya akong iwan s ere tulad ngayon bigla lang yung desisyon niya mas gusto ko makasigurado n di niya tatakbuhan yung responsabilidad niya.. nkatulong ng malaki yung reply mo s katanungan ko thank you..


Mabuti naman at nakatulong ako sa iyo.. pareho tayo ng problema.. napag daanan ko na yan. Di ko nga sukat akalain na after 11 yrs e bigla di tinawagan at di nagpapakita ang ama sa anak ko. buti na lang at napa pirmahan ko sa kanya sa harap ng abogado na anak niya ang anak ko.. kung wala katunayan for sure mahihirapan kami na maka habol.. seaman din.. sana pag baba nya eh mapapirma mo na anak niya ang sinilang mo... mas magaganda ang pirma.

isa pa pala, di mo pwedeng i demand sa kanya na bisitahin nya o mahalin ang anak niya. siya lang mag demand pa gusto niya makit ang bata. ang pwede mo lang i demand e sustento.



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7 Re: child support and custody on Mon May 13, 2013 10:55 pm

ai-ai


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seaman din pala ewan s mga ganung tao pero di naman lahat haha.. di ko pala pwedeng idemand yung about sa pagkikita nila syempre po bago pa lang tong nangyayari samin kaya mejo di ko pa tanggap kailangan po ba kapag naguusap eh kaharap yung abogado ko at kung sakali meron din silang abogado kailangan din b yun kasama.. sa ngayon po ba medyo personal n tanong ilan yung nkukuha niyong sustento? about sa matter na yun pwede na po ba ako magdemand kung sakali?

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8 Re: child support and custody on Tue May 14, 2013 12:08 am

toragsoysailog


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ai-ai wrote:seaman din pala ewan s mga ganung tao pero di naman lahat haha.. di ko pala pwedeng idemand yung about sa pagkikita nila syempre po bago pa lang tong nangyayari samin kaya mejo di ko pa tanggap kailangan po ba kapag naguusap eh kaharap yung abogado ko at kung sakali meron din silang abogado kailangan din b yun kasama.. sa ngayon po ba medyo personal n tanong ilan yung nkukuha niyong sustento? about sa matter na yun pwede na po ba ako magdemand kung sakali?

Oo naman di naman lahat ng tao e iisa ang ugali.di kailangan na laging may abogado. pwede mo siya papirmahin sa isang papel na anak niya yung bata pag naisilang na. bigyan mo muna ng pangalan. pwede na ngayun na isunod mo ang surname sa ama niya. sabi nga ni attyLL makipag agreement ka sa bf mo. depende sa sweldo ng ama ng bata ang sustento at sa pangagailangan ng bata.. Pray always na di magbago ang bf mo.

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9 Re: child support and custody on Tue May 14, 2013 3:20 am

Sofiareez


Arresto Menor
Hi atty good day, we have in common situation with ai, I am a mother of 4 yrs old my ex boyfriend was seaman when my child was still a months old we have an agreement that he will support us even we are not married. I have all the documents from atty way back 2009. The 1st yr after the agreement he was supporting my child but since she got married ndi Na po xa buwan2 nkkapagbgay although sa agreement po nkalagay monthly po xa mgbbgay ng npgusapang Halaga.,nkalagay din po don n kht ndi po xa nksmpa ng barko ay mgbbgay support sa bata.nung 2011 ngstart n po xa pumapalta sa pagbbgay ng sustento mgbbgay nlng po ang mga mgulang nia kng kelan nila gus2 aside from that ndi n po ung halaga n npag usapan nmin yr 2009.na kng ttgnan sa isang taon po ay 2 0 3 beses nlng xa mkpagbgay.. Hnyaan ko po xa that tym this yr dahil mg aaral n ang bata sinubukan ko kausapn ang magulang nia about sa sustento but then they refuse to ask me regarding sa birth certificate ng bata, i dont whats there reason pero parang ginagawa nlng nlang alibi ang birth certificate ng bata, dahil alam po nila n apelyedo ko ang gngamit ng anak ko, pls help me with regards to this atty.. Hope to hear any suggestion that can help with my problem.. Thanks and godbless

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10 Re: child support and custody on Fri May 17, 2013 11:19 am

jmsayag@yahoo.com


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Gud day attorney dis is aj tanong ko lng po sna kng pwde kong kunin ang aking anak na 3yrs old pa lng kc po hinihiram ko sa kanya d nmn sumasagot sa mga txt ko. Ang kanyang nanay nsa abroad may legal cya asawa nghiwalay tpos ng asawa uli ngkaroon ng isang anak nghiwalay dn tpos ako ang third nya asawa isang anak nghiwalay dn gusto ko po sna mkuha ang anak ko.

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11 Re: child support and custody on Fri May 17, 2013 1:51 pm

attyLLL


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sofia, you can go to the PAO and they might help you if you qualify. otherwise, send a demand letter for support. if he signed the birth certificate, you can file a case of economic abuse, else a civil case for acknowledgment and support.

aj, you have the right to file a case for custody, and the court will decide based on the best interest of the child.


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12 Re: child support and custody on Fri May 17, 2013 4:24 pm

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attorney ano po pwede kng i file na case para makuha ko ang anak ko. salamat aj...

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13 Re: child support and custody on Fri May 17, 2013 7:03 pm

attyLLL


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best if you can try to negotiate a custody agreement, but if you filed a case, the court might not recognize any right because the child was born while the mother was still married, and thus, the husband is presumed to be the father, not you.


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14 Re: child support and custody on Sat May 18, 2013 12:38 am

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Attorney un po custody agreement sa pagitan ko at ng nanay ng aking anak? Tulad po ngaun ngtxt ako sa nanay nya na hiramin ko mna d nmn cya sumasagot. Ska po attorney d pa sapat na makuha ko un anak ko na ako na bale ang third husband nya?

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15 Re: child support and custody on Sat May 18, 2013 2:00 am

aespi0311


Arresto Menor
Dear Sir& Maam,

Greetings of the day

I just wanted to ask about my current situation if i already bending any laws about the support for my daughter.My partner and i is already separated with each other for more than a year(not married). from the time she get pregnant i am already supporting my daughter until now and my daughte is turning 4 years old this year. my ex-partnet is currently insisting to have an additional/extra to the current financial benefit that i am giving to my daughter which is an objection to my buget.i just wanted to know if i am already counted to any laws againts it.

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16 Re: child support and custody on Sat May 18, 2013 6:13 pm

attyLLL


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just keep giving the 4k and be ready to prove that you have been giving it for the past 4 years


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17 Re: child support and custody on Sat May 18, 2013 11:35 pm

aespi0311


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Good afternoon po!!

Hiwalay na po ako sa ex-girlfriend ko for more than a year n po from now, from the first po na nagbuntis ko sya until know acknowledge ko naman po ang daughter ko most of all sa financial support until now and 4 years old n po daughter ko this year,currently nasa labas po me ng bansa for work at ang ex-gf ko naman po ay nasa pilipinas at ngtratrabaho dn po, this coming june pasukan n po and gusto nya po ako na mgdagdag ng padala para sa enrollment, since n meron dn po akong other obligation sa family ko nag object po ako sa amount n gusto nya at gusto ko na mgdag dag sya kahit papanu, ang msaklap pa po nun eh nagbabanta po sya na kakasuhan dw po ako pgdating ko ng pilipinas from POEA condition, pag hindi dw po ako ng bigay ng amount n gusto nya. Meron na po ba akong law na binebend according to this matter at okey lng po b na ang parents ko mag handle ng financial support ng anak ko instead of the mother habang nasa ibang bansa po ako. Sana po mabigyan nyo po ako ng advise.salamat po ng marami.

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18 Re: child support and custody on Fri May 24, 2013 10:57 pm

sunshine set


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magandang gabi po atty.nais ko lang po sana mgatanong kung paano ang aking ggawin hiwalay na pa kami ng asawa ko since march dis yr.may 3 po kaming anak dahilan po ng pag hihiwalay namin ay may babae po siya,sa ngayun po nandto po ako sa labas ng bansa at nasa ex-husband ko po ang mga bata.gusto ko lang po sana malamn kung kanino po ba dapat mapunta mga anak ko.ang panagany ko po ay 14 yrs.old na,sumunod 12 yrs. at 6yrs.old po ang bunso.
Ang pangalawa ko pong tanong kung sa akin po ba mapunta mga bata pede ko po ba sila ihabilin sa mga magulang ko bilang guardian nila at paano po ang financial support para sa maga anak ko sa ngayun po may trabaho po at kumikita ng minimum a day.
maraming salamat po sana po matulungan niyo po ako

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19 Re: child support and custody on Sat May 25, 2013 4:19 pm

attyLLL


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aespi, make sure you are giving a regular amount and you are retaining proof of such remittances. keep your communication in writing.

sunshine, if you and your wife cannot decide, the rule is that any child below 7 stays with the mother. as for the other two, you may have to file a petition in court to determine custody.


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