i want help to get my life on track
i have been married to a filipina and i am a foreigner the n we had a baby before marriage i never signed any papers of her birth certificate or i never even waz informed that she is born cuz they reason she gives me is tat u just disappear ya ok i did ( in ur heart) anyhow things came back back we got married i married her cuz i luved them both n i did everything that a father or a husband can do we got married in shariya law but in my hotel room guy comes in take the doc does the paper work n leaves after several of month my wife goes nso ofc gets the doc n the place of marriage is wrong my father name is misspelled with my name n the date is too wrong mayb tats karma....r marriage sink cuz for her i waznt good enuf it waz hard for her to luv me back cuz of her xbf they y did she marry me ri8? i dont know either for her marriage is touf etc etc any how then i went to a country to work n clearly we just cut contact cuz she keep slapping my face that i waznt good enuf n i just told one day wen ill go away u will realize how much i luved u.. so i went back n i discovered tat she had slept wid over 20men n not some men she knows can be a stranger n she dont care n i waz shocked cuz she admitted it also later so any how i am the father of my kid and i have no ri8s all i have ri8s is to send money thats it n then i came to know her xbf who she waz a mistress b4 came there b4 me to meet her n the kid? i waz lyk wtf y would sum1 do that if there's no connection so i got a doubt if the baby is my obviously any man will have so i ask do samples for DNA n she said when she will go to the country where i work cuz we met in this country n the X bf( or the master of her mistress) is a national of here also.so she told me when she comes here she will throw the sample for DNA on my face to prove me i waz wrong trust me she never did that infact when she came here she didnt tell me either cuz all we do is fight n when she came to know she has no money lft with here n here stay is gona get over soon she contacted me but still she never threw on my face n she said she waz afraid to bring the samples cuz police mi8 catch her lol ok watever now the thing is i need divorce what shuld i do i dont wana have mess and i want file for a divorce cuz im sick n tired of her making me sick to my gut to get back with me for baby sake n all she keep saying is that i waz wrong i abandoned the family r u serious u keep slapping ur man face n the man is begging u to luv him back u u tell him luv is lyk steps today 10% tomorrow 20% then next day 25% i mean whats wrong with u.n then i can go n meet my kid or anything all i can do is meet her if she allows n all but if i send money its ok she xpects so i stop sending it from past 2yrs. i just became a dad for 3weeks n after that i just have her hair clip wid me nothing more..
so now i wana get divorce cuz i dont trust her i dont know if that baby is my and ya forgot she has the kid birth certification from some civil registrar but i never filed any nor did i signed anything soooo plzzzzz analyze this n telll me watch going on with meeeeeeeeeee
i mi8 sound lyk a A-hole but trust me i miss every sec of my lyf without my kid
the most awesome feeling is to be a parent
but the most pathetic feeling is to marry a wrong girl
ill be anxiously waiting for reply plzzzzz show me a way out