I am currently married for nearly 19 years living in Manila. I am a foriegn national and over the past 6 years the marriage has broken down. There is very little communication, she does not sleep in the same bed as me and has only had sex may be 3 times in the past 2 years. Whenever we talk it always ends up in shouting and arguing. I am at a point now where enough is enough, this affects my daughter and I do not want this. I do not want to be nasty with a separation, I have told her that all I want is my car, motorbike and personal possessions , I paid for the house but at the time of purchase I was only on a tourist visa and my name is not on the title. I told her that she can have it. I can not be with her and need to move on. There is another woman that I have started seeing but this is just a friendship, it is not sexual. Of course my wife does not believe anything I say.
In out phone calls one minute she is nice and accepts I am tired and want to leave her then she becomes very angry and threatens me saying " that I will not be safe in the philippines" also " that I have to watch my back" then she will be nice again.
All I want is a friendly split with no hassle. She says that I am hers and I can not do anything.
Please could you give me advise to help me. Thank you