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My 21-year old Sister is Having a Relationship with a Married Man

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jed


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My 21-year old sister is having arelationship with a married man who claims that they are laready separated but not legally. He has one child with this girl but my sister is blinded with the love he has for this man. Despite lots of reminders and reprimands, my sister doesn't listen and sees us as antagonists in their relationships. We just want her to realize that it is wrong to fall for a married man in the sight of God and men most especially. This man is her former instructer in her college and we found out that they were in the relationship for 11months already. I brought her here to Dubai but they still keep communicating. AN upon several attempts to talk to that guy, he said he cannot let go of my sister. Do we have a power to sue him in the court? What are the evidences needed? Please someone help us, because this relationship is like a curst in our family...

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annoyed101


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Hi Jed,
Isa kang napaka buting kapatid at anghel ng pamilya nyo. Sana dumamibpa ang katulad mo. Biktima din kasi ako ng kabit. Nagkaron ng maraming kabit ang asawa ko at nagka anak pa sa kanila. Ang byenan at mga relatives ng asawa ko ay mga kunsintidor at sa side din ng babae. Pero kahit kelan di mananalo ang kasamaan sa kabutihan. I will pray for you and your sister. God bless you and continue to do good things.

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raheemerick


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actualy love is really blind sometimes. mahirap unawain ang ganyan. dahil hndi tayo ang nakaka ramdam. may mga kaganapan na gaya ng sa kapatid mo. pero mahirap mag salta kc hndi din natin alam what inside the heart and mind nung guy na sinsabi mo. well if your just asking advice what to do para mailayo mo kapatid mo s akanya? since they are kip on isnisting things gaya ng comunication to each other. kapag hinyaaan yan maaring maka buo ng plano yang 2 yan. well mahirap mang himasok sa ganyang situation. hndi ko alam if sang side ang dpt panigan or bigyan ng suhestion. lalake din kc ako at minsang nag mahal at ma sadlak sa ganyang senaryo. but anyway bago tayo mag ka tuluan ng cpon dito. since kasal naman at may asawa yung guy right? at di din naman natin hahayang masira pamilya nya at maging kbahagi pa ng pag ka sira neto kapatid mo? maaring hiwalay sila ng asawa nya pero di natin alam ang katotohanan. comon senaries and alibies na kc ang ganyan eh. heheh. well piece of advice lng. try nyo makipag comunicate dun sa wife nung lalake. hndi mo man mapigil ang senaryo nya at ng kapatid mo. hayaan mong ibang tao ang gumawa nito para sau. ipa alam mo ang senaryo sa pagitan ng kapatid mo at nung lalake. pati na din ang concern mo. ihatid mo ito s afamily nung lalake at hayaan mong sila mag karambola at mag ka bukingan dito. thats the best way na alam ko s angayun. or you can threat him na i convince mo wife nya na mag file ng bigamy againts him. pero since hndi naman sila nag sasama ng kapatid mo? civil case maybe? or i ground mo muna kapatid mo/ libaning mo sya sa ma importnateng bagay para ma divert ang isip nya s amas makabuluhang bagay.. Smile kya lng bka naman real love tlga ang namagitan? well.. i dnt knw what to say.. cguro the best way is kip on praying and ask guidance. mag usap kayu ng sis mo laman sa laman, dugo sa dugo, atay sa atay.. :)iparamdam mo sa kanya concern mo at bigyang linaw ang mga bagay na hndi nya na uunawaan. sabihin mo. gamitin ang isipan sa pag pili ng mamahalin. at wag ang damdamin na kung minsan ay may kahinaan.

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annoyed101


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Love never delight on evil. Kung pagmamahalnyun dapat walang masasaktan at di gawing lihim, lalo na kung may mga anak sila at kung in good terms naman ang legal wife at husband. Better to be honest at all times kesa puro kasinungalingan. Ako nga, kung may nakapag sabi lang sa akin na may kabit sa UAE asawa ko nun eh napakulong ko sana silang dalawa. Makiapid sa may asawa, anuman ang senaryo ay kasalanan pa rin di lang sa mata ng mga tao, higit sa lahat sa mata ng Dyos. Ito dapat ang ipamulat natin sa mga anak natin. Sa ngayon, I chose to forgive though my husband does not deserved it, I am the one who deserved it. To free myself from imprisonment of anger and revenge.

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raheemerick


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isang korek na wagas na wagas para kay maam annoyed101:)

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annoyed101


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salamat raheemerick. Tanging takot sa Dyos at respeto sa sarili ang pwede kong maipamana sa mga anak ko. Kahit alam ng panganay ko na may mga babae at anak sa labas ang tatay nila ay kailangan may respeto pa rin sa loob o labas man ng aming tahanan. Hindi alam ng asawa ko na alam na ng anak naming panganay ang lahat ng tungkol sa tatay nila. Mahirap para sa akin ang magpatawad, pero ito lang ang paraan para di masira ang aming pamilya. Kinalimutan ko ang PRIDE ko para di magtagumpay ang mga kabit. Nasa tabi ng mga legal family ang Dyos.. ang demonyo nasa mga itim ang budhi at laman.

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raheemerick


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awwww!!! what a term naman yan maam annoyed:) hehehe.. anyway wag din po sana natin kalimutan. kung minsan ay biktima lng din ang mga mistreses.. minsan napilitan na lng sa ganitong situation dahil sa nadala din sila sa matamis na salita ng mga tampalasang anak ni adan. hehehe. anyway maam. nasayu ang respeto ko sa iyong tinuran:) but stil. respect din natin ang mga ganyang mga anak ni eba na nasadlak sa ganyang kalagayan. maaring hndi din nila yan ginusto. bunga lng marahil ng pag ibig sa maling panahon. pero na uunawaan ko ang saloobin mo. dahil ikaw ang dehado sa bagay nato. pero sa prinsipyo mo at dignidad. no words to say maam:) kaw na baong idol ko:) awww!!!

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concepab


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jed wrote:My 21-year old sister is having arelationship with a married man who claims that they are laready separated but not legally. He has one child with this girl but my sister is blinded with the love he has for this man. Despite lots of reminders and reprimands, my sister doesn't listen and sees us as antagonists in their relationships. We just want her to realize that it is wrong to fall for a married man in the sight of God and men most especially. This man is her former instructer in her college and we found out that they were in the relationship for 11months already. I brought her here to Dubai but they still keep communicating. AN upon several attempts to talk to that guy, he said he cannot let go of my sister. Do we have a power to sue him in the court? What are the evidences needed? Please someone help us, because this relationship is like a curst in our family...

Your sister is already 21, I think she is entitled to decide for herself. Wasto na ang isip nya at alam na ang tama at mali at kung ano ang kahihinatnat ng ginagawa nya. At para naman dun sa lalaki, wala kayong maaring isampa na kaso laban sa kanya kung wala siyang ginagawang masama sa inyo.

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annoyed101


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there are just two things- choose evil and you'll suffer or choose godly things and you will prosper.. make it simple and not complicated..God bless those who have pure heart.

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concepab


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annoyed101 wrote:there are just two things- choose evil and you'll suffer or choose godly things and you will prosper.. make it simple and not complicated..God bless those who have pure heart.

sa pangahon po ngayon sangol lang ang may pure heart. Very Happy

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annoyed101


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oo nga buti pa ang sanggol.. sana lahat sanggol na lang para walang masaktan. pero kahit nga silang sanggol biktima pa rin ng bawal na pag ibig.

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