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1 Annulment and Adultery on Fri Jun 28, 2013 10:01 pm

JL


Arresto Menor
Good day Atty.,

I want to seek advice for my case.

Nagkaroon po ako ng baby sa babaeng mahal ko at mahal din ako. Ang problema po ay may asawa siya at may anak din sila. Kasal po siya dun sa lalake pero naging issue na din po sa kanila yung paghihiwalay noon pa na hindi pa ako nadating sa buhay nia. Dahil kinasal sila noon na walang parental consent at under age pa siya (babae).

Tinapat na po nia yung asawa nia na hindi na nia mahal at nakikipaghiwalay na po siya bago pa tuluyang mawala yung respeto sa isa't isa. Pero everytime na sinasabi nia yung paghihiwalay tinatakot siya nung lalake na hindi na daw nia makikita yung mga bata. At ang madadala lang nia is yung anak namin. Magkasama pa rin po sila pero dahil na lang yun sa mga anak nila. Kapag nagpakita daw siya dun sa asawa nia after na maghiwalay idedemanda daw po kami at yung baby namin ang ibidensya sa kasong adultery.  Ang gusto nia pong mangyari is kahit madalaw dalaw na lang nia yung mga bata, hindi na po siya naghahangad na madala at maisama yung mga bata.

Ano po bang pwede naming gawing hakbang sa ganitong sitwasyon, sa pagdedemanda nia sa amin?

Sa pananakot nung lalake sa paggamit sa mga bata para hindi siya hiwalayan?

Pwede po ba at magkano po ba ang pyansa kahit na guilty yung decision ng korte dahil ayaw ko pong makulong yung mahal ko? Maraming hirap na din po yung pinagdaanan nia sa pamilya nung lalake ayaw ko na po madagdagan pa. Sana po matulungan nio po ako sa case ko.



Pero bago po yang pangyayaring yan pinagtapat nia po sa akin na hinihipuan po siya nung biyenan niang lalake. Kasi po dati dun pa rin sila nakatira sa magulang nung lalake dahil hindi po nakapagprovide ng basic necessity yung lalake tulad ng sariling bahay. Sinabi na po nia (babae) dun sa lalake na bumukod sila kaso hindi kaya nung lalake na humiwalay sa magulang dahil na rin sa gastos. Kaya dun po nagsimulang hipuan at abusuhin siya nung biyenan niang lalake. Mga ilang taon din po ung pinagtiis nia dun sa taong un hanggang sa malaman na nga po at nagharap harap sila nung pastor nila. Ngunit hindi pa din po dun natapos yun dahil nung nakalipat na po sila ng ibang bahay magkakasama pa rin po sila, naulit na naman po yun. Everytime na natutulog siya kahit nakalock na yung pintuan ng kwarto nia binubuksan po nung biyenan niang lalake at hinihipuan po siya. Marami pa pong instances na nababastos po siya at kung saan saan siya hinahawakan. At nung sinabi na nia po dun sa asawa nia wala pong nagawa para ipagtanggol siya sa kadahilanang dun sila nakasandal.

Pwede pa rin po bang kasuhan yung taong yun? At ano pong kaso ang applicable sa kanya?
May ebidensya sya din po kami dahil marami na rin po ang nakaalam nun. Lalo na po yung pastor sa simbahan nila at mismo din po yung biyenan niang babae na kasam nung pinagharap harap sila.

Salamat po sa tulong ninyo! Pagpalain po kayo ng Diyos!

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2 Re: Annulment and Adultery on Mon Jul 08, 2013 9:54 pm

Anna9


Arresto Menor
In your other post you're a woman, now you're a man?

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3 Re: Annulment and Adultery on Mon Jul 08, 2013 9:59 pm

carl434


Arresto Mayor
Anna9 wrote:In your other post you're a woman, now you're a man?
Exclamation No Like a Star @ heaven What a Face 

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4 Re: Annulment and Adultery on Mon Jul 08, 2013 10:02 pm

Anna9


Arresto Menor
Your telling the story as if you're the other man..weird

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5 Re: Annulment and Adultery on Mon Jul 08, 2013 10:03 pm

AWV


Reclusion Perpetua
You must be confused! he made inquiries for his lover. Go back and check all his post! Your answer has got nothing to do with his inquiries.

Anna9 wrote:In your other post you're a woman, now you're a man?

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6 Re: Annulment and Adultery on Mon Jul 08, 2013 10:06 pm

AWV


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JL as the other lawyer answered your other post when the husband accepted your child with her and chose to continue living with her, this only means he forgave his wife for the adultery she committed, in other words, adultery case will no longer prosper!

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7 Re: Annulment and Adultery on Mon Jul 08, 2013 10:10 pm

Anna9


Arresto Menor
I know it has nothing to do with it. I did check the posts, and I'm right,she posted as a woman on the other inquiries.this is weird and inconsistent, that's all I'm saying. It made me curious

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8 Re: Annulment and Adultery on Mon Jul 08, 2013 10:24 pm

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I will repeat it again! there is no indication on any of his post that he is a woman! he is making an inquiries for his lover who is married! read carefully! Rolling Eyes

"And when found guilty, is it possible to file for probation? And maybe have the RA 9262 for the threat and forcing?
Thanks a lot I've been enlighten in this forum. Very helpful!"

"What about the children? What answer can you give THEM that they can and will understand when they ask about separation?

Is it still a wise choice to stay together as husband and wife when both knows that there's no love between them? Showing their children just lies while they're growing. Or you rather leave and pursue happiness as your rights rather than live in a broken family?"

"Greetings,

I've read a lot of case here in this forum most of them about adultery. But no one ask about for how long can the evidence be reliable. So I'm asking these questions.

1. Can the husband file adultery when he and his wife still living together with the baby from the other man. (The reason why he's filing is his wife wanted to go separate ways now but due to the threat of the man that he won't let her see their daughters she can't get out for short the man is using his children as threat for the wife to stay - is there a case that can counter file for the man? The dialogue was "If you leave you won't see your daughters or else i will file an adultery case to you!!!")

2. I want to ask if it's still allowed to file adultery if the child as evidence is more than 1 year old? Why?"

"Good day Atty.,

I want to seek advice for my case.

Nagkaroon po ako ng baby sa babaeng mahal ko at mahal din ako. Ang problema po ay may asawa siya at may anak din sila. Kasal po siya dun sa lalake pero naging issue na din po sa kanila yung paghihiwalay noon pa na hindi pa ako nadating sa buhay nia. Dahil kinasal sila noon na walang parental consent at under age pa siya (babae).

Tinapat na po nia yung asawa nia na hindi na nia mahal at nakikipaghiwalay na po siya bago pa tuluyang mawala yung respeto sa isa't isa. Pero everytime na sinasabi nia yung paghihiwalay tinatakot siya nung lalake na hindi na daw nia makikita yung mga bata. At ang madadala lang nia is yung anak namin. Magkasama pa rin po sila pero dahil na lang yun sa mga anak nila. Kapag nagpakita daw siya dun sa asawa nia after na maghiwalay idedemanda daw po kami at yung baby namin ang ibidensya sa kasong adultery. Ang gusto nia pong mangyari is kahit madalaw dalaw na lang nia yung mga bata, hindi na po siya naghahangad na madala at maisama yung mga bata.

Ano po bang pwede naming gawing hakbang sa ganitong sitwasyon, sa pagdedemanda nia sa amin?

Sa pananakot nung lalake sa paggamit sa mga bata para hindi siya hiwalayan?

Pwede po ba at magkano po ba ang pyansa kahit na guilty yung decision ng korte dahil ayaw ko pong makulong yung mahal ko? Maraming hirap na din po yung pinagdaanan nia sa pamilya nung lalake ayaw ko na po madagdagan pa. Sana po matulungan nio po ako sa case ko.

Pero bago po yang pangyayaring yan pinagtapat nia po sa akin na hinihipuan po siya nung biyenan niang lalake. Kasi po dati dun pa rin sila nakatira sa magulang nung lalake dahil hindi po nakapagprovide ng basic necessity yung lalake tulad ng sariling bahay. Sinabi na po nia (babae) dun sa lalake na bumukod sila kaso hindi kaya nung lalake na humiwalay sa magulang dahil na rin sa gastos. Kaya dun po nagsimulang hipuan at abusuhin siya nung biyenan niang lalake. Mga ilang taon din po ung pinagtiis nia dun sa taong un hanggang sa malaman na nga po at nagharap harap sila nung pastor nila. Ngunit hindi pa din po dun natapos yun dahil nung nakalipat na po sila ng ibang bahay magkakasama pa rin po sila, naulit na naman po yun. Everytime na natutulog siya kahit nakalock na yung pintuan ng kwarto nia binubuksan po nung biyenan niang lalake at hinihipuan po siya. Marami pa pong instances na nababastos po siya at kung saan saan siya hinahawakan. At nung sinabi na nia po dun sa asawa nia wala pong nagawa para ipagtanggol siya sa kadahilanang dun sila nakasandal.

Pwede pa rin po bang kasuhan yung taong yun? At ano pong kaso ang applicable sa kanya?
May ebidensya sya din po kami dahil marami na rin po ang nakaalam nun. Lalo na po yung pastor sa simbahan nila at mismo din po yung biyenan niang babae na kasam nung pinagharap harap sila.

Salamat po sa tulong ninyo! Pagpalain po kayo ng Diyos!"

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9 Re: Annulment and Adultery on Mon Jul 08, 2013 10:26 pm

Anna9


Arresto Menor
I'm not confused at all. I am right.Not only am I right, I know exactly who this person is

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10 Re: Annulment and Adultery on Mon Jul 08, 2013 10:29 pm

Anna9


Arresto Menor
And she's not speaking as a male, she is speaking as a "third person".

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11 Re: Annulment and Adultery on Mon Jul 08, 2013 10:31 pm

AWV


Reclusion Perpetua
I see! so if he is making an inquiry for his woman lover, and you are using woman's name this can't be you, who he is protecting!
so you must be the one who is playing in a woman's name but you are the husband I guessed! Rolling Eyes

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12 Re: Annulment and Adultery on Mon Jul 08, 2013 10:35 pm

AWV


Reclusion Perpetua
Excuse me!
Nagkaroon po ako ng baby sa babaeng mahal ko at mahal din ako. Ang problema po ay may asawa siya at may anak din sila. Kasal po siya dun sa lalake pero naging issue na din po sa kanila yung paghihiwalay noon pa na hindi pa ako nadating sa buhay nia. Dahil kinasal sila noon na walang parental consent at under age pa siya (babae).

This could be someone else and you are just being PARANOID as there are lots of similary case going on here! there's is no way you can really guess who is who! so stop mucking about as you may be attacking the wrong person who is truly in needs of advice here! they don't need to get attack by some paranoid husband/wife here! Evil or Very Mad

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13 Re: Annulment and Adultery on Mon Jul 08, 2013 10:41 pm

Anna9


Arresto Menor
Huh? That made zero sense. Quit rolling your goddamn eyes, I said I know this liar in real life.and it is a she.i could care less what you think because you have no idea how the situation really is,it involves me, it involves her and it involves her children,whom i am supporting because she is lazy.everything above is lied lies lies

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14 Re: Annulment and Adultery on Mon Jul 08, 2013 10:44 pm

Anna9


Arresto Menor
Nope, timing is too perfect for me to be wrong.Not paranoid at all.I am right.

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15 Re: Annulment and Adultery on Mon Jul 08, 2013 10:52 pm

AWV


Reclusion Perpetua
So you are the man using woman's name!
Lazy? every woman who has child with a man has rights to claim for their children's maintenance! You are pissed because you've been exposed here! Do you think it is wise to argue with woman when there is a law that protects them against man? She could easily get you for RA9262. So if I were you try to calm the situation down to avoid further trouble! Evil or Very Mad

And JL if this is really you he is talking about, my advice to you is ensure he can't get away with RA9262 and sue him for maintenance that will definitely teach him a lesson! Approach the woman's desk and explain the situation and claim for emotional abuse for you and your children. Read this...
http://www.lawphil.net/statutes/repacts/ra2004/ra_9262_2004.html

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16 Re: Annulment and Adultery on Mon Jul 08, 2013 11:06 pm

Anna9


Arresto Menor
So you're saying my dirty wife who slept with her boss and bore a child to him during our marriage should sue me for a RA9262?!that is laughable!you must be as dumb and stupid a whore as her.I KNOW MY WIFE, I know her style of lurking on legal forums such as this,so I don't need some DUMB STUPID cunt like you, trying to be a hero and getting in my way with your stupid chatty bullshit.stick your opinion up your ass you brainless piece of shit.ENCOURAGING A CHEATING WIFE TO "TEACH ME A LESSON!" GOOD RIDDANCE you cancerous fucking loser.im done with you. I found what I came here to look for, and I'm leaving now.Sit on a dildo you uptight bitch, you disgust me.

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17 Re: Annulment and Adultery on Mon Jul 08, 2013 11:22 pm

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Reclusion Perpetua
I see! you are washing your dirty linen in the public! which must be the reason she is turned off!

I fell sorry for you as cunt refers to a woman and I have a gorgeous wife who is deeply in love with me and never cheat on me! Very Happy

Wives who cheats their husband has a strong reason and I can see you talk worst than a woman! In my understanding you are treathening her if she leave you, that you will keep her children away from her etc, the time you chose to accept her to live with her is a sign of your forgiveness to her adultery. Therefore, your case will not prosper to sue her for an adultery. On the otherhand, she can sue you for RA9262. You will need a good lawyer to get away with this. Especially for a big talker like you? in the court of law, you will only be ask for yes or no!!! Twisted Evil

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18 Re: Annulment and Adultery on Mon Jul 08, 2013 11:32 pm

Anna9


Arresto Menor
We are not living together. We have not been under the same roof for years,she is simply twisting the facts into her favor.There is no good reason for her infidelity and it is not something you should mock. I had to find out that child whom I love is not mine, something she planned on keeping a secret. Anybody would feel the rage that I do after being put through something so heartbreaking.Youre lucky your wife loves you.unfortunately nothing I could do to stop my wife cheating, she is just naturally promiscuous.not everybody has a good reason to cheat.in my wife's case it's just because she is spineless and heartless.not all women make good wives, unfortunately I found out the hard way

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19 Re: Annulment and Adultery on Mon Jul 08, 2013 11:38 pm

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Reclusion Perpetua
lol! Disgusting means eating someone elses left over or sharing foods with some stranger.
In your case, you're the one who can't live without your wife who has been with someone else! Twisted Evil

Dumb arse? do you mean an ignorant like you? who has no idea about laws and how the law is and the reason you are asking for an advice here? Evil or Very Mad
Huh! I just search the bloody dildo, your wife is using this? which only means you can never satisfy your wife? This must be the reason why she goes and satisfy herself with her boss and a dildos? affraid
LOSER??? I think people do know who it is! Wink

JL fear him no more as he already forgiven you for your mistakes. tongue

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20 Re: Annulment and Adultery on Mon Jul 08, 2013 11:41 pm

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Well! if you explain it this way then you would have more sympathy from other people but the way you talk to people here is disrespectful so you get the same way! What do you expect?

Anna9 wrote:We are not living together. We have not been under the same roof for years,she is simply twisting the facts into her favor.There is no good reason for her infidelity and it is not something you should mock. I had to find out that child whom I love is not mine, something she planned on keeping a secret. Anybody would feel the rage that I do after being put through something so heartbreaking.Youre lucky your wife loves you.unfortunately nothing I could do to stop my wife cheating, she is just naturally promiscuous.not everybody has a good reason to cheat.in my wife's case it's just because she is spineless and heartless.not all women make good wives, unfortunately I found out the hard way

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21 Re: Annulment and Adultery on Mon Jul 08, 2013 11:45 pm

AWV


Reclusion Perpetua
In my observation, you are arguing with the wrong person, there may be a similarity to your case but this does not mean this is the same person. I've been dealing with lots of similar case to yours and members here do response to them depends on how you approach them.

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22 Re: Annulment and Adultery on Mon Jul 08, 2013 11:56 pm

Anna9


Arresto Menor
It's easy for you to make assumptions and be smug,if you have not dealt with a woman like that.thats not true that if wives cheat they ALWAYS have a good reason. How would you know?all of a sudden youre the love doctor? How do you know for sure that your own wife isnt banging your gardener or your driver? What makes you so perfect that you can judge me? i was a good husband and put up with so much humiliation for years!Can you imagine the betrayal you would feel if your wife did this to you?would you like it if some ignorant person suggested it was all your fault.dont judge other people when you have no idea what their situation is.Ps I never threatened her, I never did anything to imply forgiveness,I just want these 2 disgusting people in jail for what they did. I don't know how to break it to my daughter that I'm not her real father.

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23 Re: Annulment and Adultery on Mon Jul 08, 2013 11:58 pm

Anna9


Arresto Menor
Sick sad world

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24 Re: Annulment and Adultery on Tue Jul 09, 2013 12:21 am

AWV


Reclusion Perpetua
I know many case among my friends and I am aware of their family problems too! That's why I am aware of this kind of situation. I am sure my wife is faithful as she comes from a convent school. I never had to ask her where she's been and what she did as she tell me all her whereabouts. Also, we've been living in a country where adultery is a serious offense, and she tells me how much she love me many times in a day, how lucky she is being my wife. That is why although there are woman who flirt with me I can never give them a second look! I know I am lucky with her as she loves me unconditionally.

On the other hand, my friends has trouble with their wives and I know how they fall apart.
I am not a love doctor as I can only secure my love life not my friends. I just wish I could be one as I do get hurt when my friends are hurt! They are good people who fall for the bad ones.

As I said this could be a different person as the way he tell his story might be similar to yours but not entirely exactly the same in my observation.

Anna9 wrote:It's easy for you to make assumptions and be smug,if you have not dealt with a woman like that.thats not true that if wives cheat they ALWAYS have a good reason. How would you know?all of a sudden youre the love doctor? How do you know for sure that your own wife isnt banging your gardener or your driver? What makes you so perfect that you can judge me? i was a good husband and put up with so much humiliation for years!Can you imagine the betrayal you would feel if your wife did this to you?would you like it if some ignorant person suggested it was all your fault.dont judge other people when you have no idea what their situation is.Ps I never threatened her, I never did anything to imply forgiveness,I just want these 2 disgusting people in jail for what they did. I don't know how to break it to my daughter that I'm not her real father.

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25 Re: Annulment and Adultery on Tue Jul 09, 2013 2:07 am

Anna9


Arresto Menor
This is totally unrelated, but..you had to google what a dildo was?You mean you didnt already know?Wow.... You must have lived a very sheltered life.i didn't mean to come across aggresively so I will apologize for what I said earlier.people lash out sometimes and hey I'm just human.

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