Hi... Im a mother of 2.. Its a long story but to shorten this one.. I filed a custody case against my husband 2003, and the temporary custody granted to me 2005 but my husband and 2 kids dissappear. That time my children are just 5 and 6 years old so it should be in my custody. The court issued warrant of arrest for the hiding my children. The bail is only when He will turn over my 2 children to me. After 8 years of hiding it to me, they came out for my husband cant no longer take them to school. But my 2 children ask favor to me to dissmiss the case against their father. As a mother of them, I want to give them want they want. And they said that they are going to turn over the kids to me. But the problem is.... They are not willing to go with me. My husband dont have work, my eldest son stopped 2 years from school... What would happened if they are going to turn it over to me but my children are 14 and 13 years old aready, and the court would listen if where they want to stay? Of course for 8 years, te attachement is with the father. Sure, they will going back to thir father. But, their father dont have work and I do have work. What should I do? The children are with the father still and since he dont have work, I will be the one who will support? What a lucky person would my husband be if its the case? He hide it for over 8 years and when he came out I will support as if nothing happened where I could almost die and got crazy? What should I do? I do really hate my husband so much! I cant even take to face Him.. I dont know what could I do to Him... 8 years are too much to wait... Pls help, what should I do.. I have a lawyer and the sister of my husband is His lawyer too. I need more advice... Its more painful at this time and I dont know if I could still handle this situation of mine. Thanks a lot and more power!