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need po ng advice asap help about custody of my 6 years old child

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phepz37


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Ang problema ko po ay may anak ako sa pagka dalaga since birth walng naitulong ung family ng father khit ung father ng anak ko never kmi nag sama ako katulong ang parents ko ang bumuhay sa anak ko ngaun lang nagbbgay ng tulong nung nagkatrabho na bilang sundalo pilitan pa un dati ngaun medyo ok na yung bigay ng sustento nagkaproblema sa school at sinasabi kasi ng teacher ng anak ko na may kakaiba sa anak ko so ang advice ng teacher dalhin sa school w/ special needs para ma assess ung anak ko sinabi ko sa father then now kinuha nla anak ko pumayag ako 1week sknla para ma obserbahan nla ung bata pero ang gusto nla na pag ok sknla dun nlang sknla titira sila mag alalaga bwt 3years old plang anak ko hiwalay na kmi ng tatay nea and now I'm married w/ 1 kid may laban po ba ako na makuha anak ko sknla sa sunday? Kasi ayaw ng umuwi ng anak ko dito sa bahay nawili na sknla at galit sa lolo dito dahil napapagalitan ung bata what should I do if hindi nla isoli ung anak ko kung ayaw sumama pauwi? Pa help po asap thanks Question 

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The custody of a child 7 years old and below is with the mother

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jd888


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Be civil and discuss your terms with your Child's Father concerning visitation and financial aid. If they refuse to hear your terms, you may demand for custody.

Just make sure that there is no reason for the other party to deny your right against the child if they will take legal actions against alleged foul relationship with the grandfather and if they will argue that you are not financially equip to raise and maintain the child's medical needs if there is.

No less than the Supreme Court of the Philippines enunciated that the parental authority of a mother over the person of her illegitimate child may be taken away from her and awarded to another person due to some compelling reasons such as neglect or abandonment, unemployment, immorality, habitual drunkenness, drug addiction, maltreatment of the child, insanity, and affliction with a communicable disease that would render her unfit to perform her duties as the custodian of the child (Joey D. Briones vs. Maricel P. Miguel, G.R. No. 156343, October 18, 2004).


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phepz37


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Bale po lilipat na kami ng house para maiiwas ko yung anak ko sa father ko. May trabaho po ung asawa ko and kaya kami buhayin. Ung father ng anak ko hindi makausap ng maayos gusto nla sila masunod kako sa baranggay kami mag usap kz ayoko ibigay ung anak ko sknla since hindi din naman sya ang mag aalaga ipapaalaga lng naman nya anak ko sa tita nya na sinisiraan ako sa ibang tao pero yung time na baby yung anak ko wala silang naitulong sa anak ko ni dalaw wla. Ang sabi ko po sknla weekends pwede sknla ung bata. Bwt dati po nag threat na ung tatay ng anak ko na may hindi magandang mangyyari smin kung mkkipag usap kmi sknya sa kampo nla para sa tamang sustento. At ung ama ng un ng anak ko pag nkakauwi dun sknla laging lasing kz nkkipag inuman s mga barkada.

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jd888


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First you have to win the heart of your child; I believe it is not difficult. But regardless of any other reason, the Child should be on your care; and you have to make sure of that.

Now, the most prudent thing to do is, first to discuss things with your ex.

If all else fails, then you have to resort to legal action.

One thing you should not forget, the child needs his father too.

So be civil.


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phepz37


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Thanks po! Opo alam kong need din sya ng anak nmin, kaya sabi ko sknya pwede ko ipahiram pag weekends kung nandun sya sa kanila kasi madalang pong umuwi un. Nkausap ko anak ko po kagabi sabi skin gusto na umuwi. Talagang mahal na mahal ko po ung anak ko na yun kasi buong buhay nya kami lang dalawa palging magksama. Thanks po ulit may idea na ako.

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phepz37


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Nakuha ko na po ung anak ko knina sa bahay ng tita ng tatay ng anak ko pero hindi po pinadala ung gamit ng anak ko. At take note gusto po nila ibalik ko sknla anak ko nitong gabi. Eh unang una hindi naman po ako pumayag na tumira sknla ang bata. Ang usapan lang po namin nung ama 1 week sknla. Tapos narinig pa namin ng brother ko may sumigaw na kapitbahay tianawag ung tita ng ex ko tapos sabi nya dun sa tumawag na ale eh ipapasyal ko lang daw ung anak ko parang lumalabas ngaun na ako pa ang nanghhiram ng anak ko sknla. Parang medyo mali. Nung time na pinagbuntis ko hanggang sa manganak mag binyag at birthday ni isa sa mga kamag anak ng x ko wlang tumulong o nagpunta tas ngaun parang candy po nilang hinihingi anak ko. Sana po ay matulong nyo po ako sa mga idea na pwede ko pong gawin pra ipag laban ang pagging nanay ko sa anak ko. Salamat po at God Bless.

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phepz37


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Nung pinanganak ko nga po pla anak ko may skit sya ksi overdue wla pong itinulong ung x ko pati mga kamag anak nya, pati po nung lumalaki na ung bata ni gatas o diaper wla din po. Pag nagkkaskit hindi po sila dumadalaw at nag bbgay ng tulong. Na confine po sa hospital last year anak ko hindi din po dumalaw at tumulong 13k po bill nun as in wlang iniabot kht konti eh sundalo na po ung ama ng anak ko. Ni hindi po nla dinadalaw ung bata dito ung ama po minsan lang talaga pumunta kahit nung kami pa po noon. Mas inuuna barkada at inom ng alak. Kaya po ako nkipag hiwalay. Nag aral po ako at nka graduate ng 2 years course kahit may anak na po. After nga lang po nung graduation ko nkapag asawa naman po ako agad. And asawa ko po tanggap yung anak ko.

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Maan Reyes


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Kapag ongoing po ba ang custody hearing di pwedeng makita ang bata ng other party? Walang visitation rights? Paano po kung amin in ng bata na pinipigilan sya ng in-laws too see or be contacted frequently by mother? May bearing po na gun as court? Naaawa po kasi ako sa anak ko... Nilalayo nila sa akin tapos si run namin nya parati kasama tatay.Saturday and Sunday lang kasama... minsan hindi pa.

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