Back in Aug. '11 I found out my wife was having an affair thru her phone's text msgs and upon confronting her she admitted.
Admitting and giving all the details that have transpired during her adulterous act. I took videos of her confession (with her approval).
I continued living with her till now just for the kids' sake, but have not been in speaking terms with her except with regards to the children's concerns. (I have 2 boys aged 10 and 14)
I would like to pursue suing her paramour and having him land in jail (I waited this long since I wanted to be sure I can afford the expensive process of litigation). I am willing to spend whatever amounts of money needed for which I think I have more than enough not that I have saved up.
A. Are the proofs I have admissible in court?
B. The prescription period of the said crime is it still valid?
C. Can my wife use the fact that we are still in 1 roof as an act of forgiveness?
D. My plan is to sue both then withdraw charges for my wife (I have no plans of landing her in Jail, just the guy)
E. Can I be charged for defamation or will this affect my suing them if I started a smear campaign in the "paramour" place of residence and the school for which his 2 daughters are studying"
F. Any idea how much would my budget be to make sure I win this case given all the facts listed (the "paramour" is also financially well off.
G. Do I need to solicit the media's help to make sure this trial will not be whitewashed given the fact the said "paramour" is well connected and financially sound.
Lastly what Law practice should I look for when I am ready to sue?
Thanks in advance and more power