my wife left me in 2004 and took my son.
I tried to reconcile with her for 2 years but she
didn't listen. she left me with all the debts.
she darts in and out of my life whenever she needs
money with no care of how i'll get it or if I have
it. I got sick and tired of what she was doing and
so I decided that she is not worth going back to. so
in 2008 I filed an annulment case against her with
provision for sole child custody since she wasn't able
to send my son to school let alone feed him properly.
the case is still ongoing, slowly, in branch 73 of
antipolo rtc (which handles cases equivalent to 4 court)
in 2006 she left the child and i took the child and
sent him to school. the following year she took again]
the child and again she couldn't sustain the child and
left a huge amount of bill. and even bore a child
from another man. so i schooled the child again
till he's about to finish grade 2 school year 2009-2010
then she took him again when he was about to take a
summer class. and again upto this day she cannot sustain
the child despite that i am already providing the child
with the tuition fee, allowance and school service.
she always says that because my son is affected when
she is unable to come up with support that I need to
provide for him which she uses beyond the intended
purpose. last year my son was still 8 yrs old so the
mother still has legal right over the child. but now
he is 9 yrs old. unfortunately, my son wants to be
with his mother. but they kept doing this to me and
even disrupts my sister from her office.
what advice can you give me on what legal remedies I
can get so that she will stop disturbing me and my
family (because she is threatening me everytime she
is not able to get money). what is the right thing to
do with regards to my son that eventhough he wants to
be with his mom, she cannot sustain a consistent life