I have a daughter who is 2 y/o. I am only 28 y/o and my daughter's father is 64 y/o and married. We have been talking about my kid's future. He wants to get an insurance that can assign my daughter as beneficiary. Without the wife knowing about it. But in the first place, he doesn't want to acknowledge my daughter as her daughter because this can complicate things if his wife will find out.
Can he also make a separate will for my daughter without any of his family knowing it?
Whats the best move so my daughter's future will be assured?