I have a similar case. The mother wants everything from me from house to their food in the table. She and her family are giving me hard time. I stopped her food allowance and that is the reason she asked me to hire a yaya so she can find work. But the problem is she doesn't come back and left the child to yaya. I worry about the child safety especially there are stairs in their apartment that I rented for them. Her parents who live next door also give me hard time. They want cash to be sent immediately for the baby. They also have money problem and I'm afraid not everything will be spent for the baby. I told them to get the baby's needs that I will be sent from Mercury Drug. They declined saying no one can claim but they can claim in LBC if I send cash. I plan to have the milk, diaper and other supplies delivered by LBC. What should I do if they won't accept the package? The mother threatened that if I don't send money for her food the baby will also starve. This is a form child abuse. I really want to have the baby in my custody to have peace of mind. They also don't want to give me visitation rights because they are mad at me because I stopped giving allowance to the mother. I already shouldered the rent, water and electricity. Please advise.