I want to seek legal advice on how to proceed with this problem. My husband's mistress is 17 years old. My husband did not know that she was only 17 then because she already has a 2 yr old son out of wedlock. He wanted to end their affair but she was threatening him that if he will not see her and meet her, she will file child abuse charges and even go to our house and create a "scene". i know my husband can go to jail for this but he was only threatened. I have proofs, text messages from the girl that she was blackmailing my husband - "wag mo sisihin asawa mo, binablackmail ko siya" and "nakakaawa ang asawa mo, nagagawang makipagkita sa kin dahil sa pananakot ko". I texted her telling her to leave my husband and she replied "ayoko, wala kang karapatang pigilan ako". I also have pictures of them naked (which I saw in our digicam so I got copies) and letter from the girl telling how much she loves my husband and she will not leave him. She even said "may magagawa ako" which means the filing of charges. Can I sue the girl for this? I talked to the girl's parents and I said that I can sue them or just their daughter (for alienation of affection). However, they said that they will sue my husband for child abuse because their daughter is only 17. Fortunately, the girl's mother said that to end this, they went to our barangay where my husband will be summoned on monday to sign an agreement with the girl that they will no longer see each other. But I am really devastated with this and I want to sue the girl only of alienation of affection. Can this be possible?
Please help me. Thank you