Hi,I've physically separated with my husband for about 9 years now.recently i was able to oblige him to support our child..but for minimal expenses only...nag kahiwalay kami dahil nalaman ko na may iba syang babae sa opisina.isa syang pastor kaya di ako maka paniwala na magagawa nya yun.hanggang sa marami ng nakakita.tiniis ko at pinilit ko na manatiling buo ang pamilya namin pero halos basura na ako sa paningin nya dahil bata pa ang nakuha nya sa sobrang sakit ng nararamdaman ko halos gusto ko ng mawala sa mundo but I chose to be strong for my kid.nanahimik ako at tinigil ang file ko sa PAO ng abandonment dahil sa mga magulang nya.yung mother pina sign ako ng waiver para di na ako mag habol sa property.hindi ko alam kung paano ko nagawang pirmahan yun.now they want an annulment at ground naman nila is mentally incapacitated ako...I am working now abroad and my friends told me they saw my husband with his mistress and children.I believe they want the annulment para di na sila mag tago.but for me that is their consequence for destroying a family.I don't want to be annulled...I want my kid to have all the rights na sya lang dapat ang mag claim...they accuse me of so many things na walang basis...and all are fabricated.I am not in the Philippines now.and my mom told me they received a letter from the court...but I don't want to sign and be annulled that is my life time punishment for them...I have no plans in getting into another marriage...trauma...but I want to secure my daughters future. at the same time I don't want them to have the freedom to be known as a couple since they destroyed mine...what will happen if I have no response with their letter? what will happen if I will not agree?
I am the victim here and they should be punish. am planning to file a bigamy case when I get back after 2 years pero baka maunahan nila ako sa annulment if ma grant sila...how's justice for me and my kid..