3 Harassment and oral defamation on Fri Sep 19, 2014 11:53 pm
5 Re: new member on Wed Sep 24, 2014 9:58 pm
In that 7 yrs, she never went back to the Philippines to visit me and our son who is already 12 yrs old. until she arrived last Jan of 2013. She did not informed us that she will be going home. She stayed in her sister's house. After 4 days of stay here in the Philippines, I got a call from her, she told me if we can possibly meet in a mall to talk. She reminded me not to bring our son with me. But she changed her mind, instead of meeting in the mall, she told me to just proceed to her sister's house and she requested me to bring our son with me.
When we met, I cried a lot, may be because I missed her so much. I felt that my wife had no special feelings with me anymore. Until she invited my son to go with her to Hong Kong. My son said that he will go with her if I will be part of the trip. Of course, my son wanted us to be together. I was shocked when my wife told me that because I never expected that this would happen to me because there was no indication even when she was in Canada.
But my wife's invitation with my son going to Hong Kong did not materialize even if I already gave my consent to my son to g with her mom without me. In short, she went to Hong Kong alone with 1 extra ticket. She stayed there for less than a week, after that she proceed to our province, she consumed almost 2 wks both frm HK and our province. I never suspected anything until such time that she called me up and told me that she wanted to have a call off with me.
I was shocked with what was happening. To cut it short, I've found out that she went to Hong Kong with another man with the same province, we both came from the same province. My wife claimed that she was with that Guy in Hong Kong but just as companion according to her.
It really broke my heart, because I have spent my life taking care with our son.
She decided to stay in our own house 2 days before the scheduled flight going back to Canada. We had some conversations, she wanted to stop with our relationship with an agreement that our son will not be informed. We are legally married in a Civil Wedding.
Now, she;s in Canada, I have found out from her sisters that my wife has no communication anymore with that Guy. But at present, according to her sisters, she is entertaining a Guy in Canada. In fact, she posted in her Face Book Profile the flowers given to her on her birthday just recently. It has the initials of the person who gave the flowers having some comments which only means that the flowers came from a Man.
Because, it was a big insult to me and my son who see the pictures and quotations frm my wife's facebook. My son and me decided to block her in our facebook because it reakyy degrades my reputation as her husband and my son seemed being demoralized especially the posts of my wife i through a face book wall.
But during our conversation, my wife promised that she will get me and my son to Canada. In fact, we already complied with the medical results and it already arrived in Canada. At present, I am waiting for the next process which is interview in embassy.
Now, my worry is, what if the reason why she promised me that she will also petition me, is that because she just wanted to get my son which I cannot accept because I really love my son and all my life was devoted to my son.
The reason that she told me why she wanted to have a call off with me is becuase of my sexual preference. I am a homosexual but not cross dresser. But I act as a real man, My wife knew me as like that because she was my classmate in High School in our province ahd her family knew me very well. But even if I am like this, I did my full responsibility as both mother and father to our son.
My question is, can she get my son alone even if the family petition to Canada is for both of us?
Please advice me what should be done... Thank you and hoping for some legal and personal advices. Thank you.
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