So nag-usap kami mag-asawa on that and she also asked din our daughter not to have a boyfriend muna, which again, she said yes.
There was a time na nagsundo ako sa school and I went up to her room to fetch her para isama ko pagbayad ng tuition. Pro I saw that she was holding hands with the guy so i opened the door and she saw me. She again said that it was nothing. So nag init na ulo ko and I shouted at the boy saying na our daughter is not allowed to have a boyfriend and asked him to go down to the principals office to talk. since malakas ang pagkakasabi ko maraming nakarinig and our daughter said na nde ko sya kakausapin sa principal's office since wala naman un. Lalong nag-init ulo ko so bumalik ako sa room and the boy said na wala naman daw yun kasi naipit daw ung kamay ng daughter namin and tinitignan nya. Sabi nya na-ipit daw ung right hand. Sabi ko if naipit ung right hand bakit ung left hand ang hawak nya and they're walking inside the room. Again, I insisted to talk to him sa principals office. This is where the teacher came in and we went to the principals office.
The boy said na friends lang daw sila and told him, na friends don't propose, hold hands or give each other pet names which is a combination of our daughters name and his name.
So on our way out, the boy's father approached me and he said na bat daw hiniya ung bata sa school. I asked him baka pwede naman kaming mag usap sa principal's office para maayos na. But he don't want to and said will do magic.
Long story short, I was summoned by the school director and learned that there will be a law suit, criminal and civil in nature. The boy's father worked with a lawyer and they're asking for an incident report from the school. I explained my side to the director and told him na i was wrong. The director said na kinakausap nya rin daw yung isa and for me to submit an apology letter which I did.
After a few days, the director called me up and told me to call the lawyer and nung nakausap ko na yung lawyer, I told him na i'm willing to work with them na maayos na without going to the court. He informed me na magfile nga daw sila ng criminal and civil case for it. So nagask ako if pwedeng maayos. The next day, sabi nya na willing daw ung isa to settle for a payment of Php 200,000.00. told him na empleyado lang kami ng wife ko and I just started work nang September so so we cannot pay that huge amount since even the banks will not grand me loan due to the fact that I'm not even a full time employee.
I told the school director about it and he said na masyado daw malaki and nagtry din sya na kausapin ung father nung boy pro ayaw daw makipag usap and nalaman nya na marami syang contacts na i think ginagamit nya.
Sabi nya na natrauma daw ung bata and ayaw na pumasok sa school, including umiiwas sa anak namin. Pero, everyday ko naman nakikita ung bata sa school and tuloy pa rin ang communication sa daughter namin via text and last time is nag invite pa sya na punta sa house nila.
Question ko po atty and i really hope you can give us some advise. Aminado po ako na mali ako na sinigawan ko ung bata (age 15) sa school. pro wala naman akong sinabing masama or minura sya. Nde ko rin sya sinaktan.
1. Pro tama po ba ung halaga na hinihingi nya?
2. If nde namin kaya na bayaran ng biglaan ung pera, pwede bang hulughulugan lang namin? Kasi may 2 nag gagatas pa kaming anak and nagbabayad pa sa school para sa 2.
I hope matulungan nyo kami.