I had been living with my foreign gf for 6 years now.We own a business together,every year she comes back and forth to PH. Way back 2011 business went bad and we lost a lot of money she got pregnant what we have left we used it for the baby.We cant pay her visa fee. I had a job but I can't fully support the visa extension and i feel soory about it. Now I got a good job and we could pay about 36months of overstay fee including penalties but she would stay 5 years outside PH.We had plan to marry and she would stay here in PH with our baby because life outside PH is also is not easy for her and for me.What would be the best step we would take. Marry first and pay the extension fee? If she continue want to stay here we are not sure how could we remove her name in the blacklist.Some people we ask they ask more money in BI.how could we find a good lawyer that has a fair judgement with a fair price.She would rather stay blacklist than be away from her child. How could we solution this ? we would gladly appreciate your advise.