Here's the story. I had a relationship with a married man, and only this week that we found out that I got pregnant. After this, ayaw nya panagutan ito at pinili niya ang asawa niya dahil daw nahihiya siya sa posibleng eskandalo na mangyari. Iniwan niya ako but It does not discount the fact na nirerecognize niya ang batang dinadala ko. Ito po ang mga gusto ko pong malinawan ako.
1. Can I seek support to cover some, if not all, of my expenses that will be incurred during my pregnancy such as pre-natal check up, vitamins and other stuff related to this?
2. Can I atleast seek verbally and private written agreement for now (as early as this period) to support my child (apart from question # 1) as well as to allow ny child to use his surname? I am doing this as He and his wife might leave and settle in abroad to escape this situation. Can he refuse to this? If yes, what is my alternative option? What will be my other action if in case they go abroad?Kahit emotionally stress na ako, hindi ko naman po sila ginugulo kahit alam na nang asawa nya. My primary concern is to get a support.
Thank You! I appreciate all the help.