mga sir good day po, ask ko lang sana kung anu possible way sa issue ko. i have an ex girlfriend who got pregnant and is due on Feb next year. now the thing is during her 2 months period of pregnancy, sinabi ko na sa kanya na ayaw ko ituloy yung pregnancy kasi di ko kaya. so she agreed and told me na kung ayaw ko daw eh hindi nalng daw nya papakita sakin yung bata kahit kelan at hindi na daw sya aasa ng financial sakin. but now, during her 6 months she threatened me na she will make a scandal out of this matter at naghahabol sya nung malamn nyang nasa abroad na ako. though i want to help her for the financial for the baby, i doubt her as well kasi before we separated eh she was with someone else in manila which I believe na may nangyari sa knila but I dont have any proof.
the questions here are:
can i decline of being a father to the baaby?
if cannot and I'm still in doubt about her, dna testing will be an option but will they have to pay for it or should i?
i know this is very weird of me but I need legal and professional advise so please i'm begging you not to judge me.