Hello, I'm just gonna hide my real name. I'll call myself Freya.
I'm 21 years old, 4th year college, graduating this march.
My parents basically pay for everything.
I am grateful for that.
But the problem is, they're the authoritarian kind of parents.
they control me in every way, pressure me, and want me to be perfect, gets mad at me for almost everything.
They want me to repay for everything that they did for me.
I would gladly help them, but them leeching off me is a different story.
I want to leave so bad and I have been holding on ever since.
There are times I wanted to kill myself because of this.
I've been suffering for years. And I want out. So I'm planning to have my own life after I graduate.
But I'm afraid that they won't allow me, or leave me alone, or tie me down.
So I'm asking, what should I do if ever that happens.
I want out soon. is it illegal for them to control me even 21?
or forcing me to be with them.
or what if they'll threaten me, my boyfriend, my friends, etc.
I just don't want them to control me anymore.
I want to go away.
In fact, I don't care if I don't see them anymore, that's how troubled my life and family is.
Please give me advice on what to do.