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1 i need an advice! pls help. on Wed Dec 24, 2014 10:55 am

jhenrinkouaki


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Hi atty.
im married for 5yrs now and have 3 daughters (6, 3 & 1). My husband is a Japanese. He is living here in phils, cebu with us. My problems atty are the ff:

1. I caught him via text from a girl in his celfone. I was able to retrieve the msg in his celfone even if he deleted it already. I just got curious with the text stated "im afraid to try it again", so nagpa as if ako na ang katext nya ay ang husband ko. I replied what she afraid of?. Sabe nya, about sa nangyare daw sa kanya before. I asked ano nangyare.. so inshort, nagka infection daw ung girl for a month of medication but ung sinabe lng daw nya sa husband ko is 1wk lng. And i asked when it happened, sabe nya about 1yr ago. So the the conversation ended coz nagising c hubby. I did not delete the messages para mabasa nya na alam ko na. So we talked and he admitted it. They made sex a few times daw and it only happened in a massage spa where he always go to. The girl is a masahista at that spa. Fyi, i caught him last march 2014. So gave him a chance coz he promise to show his best effort na hnd na nya gawin yun. I took photo nga pala sa conversation namen nung girl. So my question, pwd ko ba cya magamit as evidence? And sino pwd ko ma filan ng case? And anong case ang pwd ko ma file?

2. Just recently lang, mga sept he is so cold in our relationship na. So i asked why. He said he got a big problem with his mama in japan. Hnd na cya nakig communicate sa mama nya because he wants to stand on his own (his mom kase minsan tumutulong samen financially) and nahihiya na daw cya. That was his serious problem daw. Pro my problem atty is that, hnd cya nakipag sex sakin. Last sex namen was last october 2014 pa. Yun ung rason nya kng bakit hnd cya makapag concentrate na mag sex kami kase about sa prob nya.

3. I caught him again! Nagpa massage cya with out telling me.. we agreed kase na ayaw ko ng magpa massage cya not unless sasama nya ko pa massage kameng dlawa together. I have been observing him kase and i wonder lng why sometimes he takes shower when he got home and sometimes hinde. So one time, nag shower cya so i feel something na. So i smelled his boxer brief and it smells massage oil amd i found a little sperm on it. So we talked again about it, sabe nya hnd daw nya sinabe kase alam nya hnd ako papayag. This happened november 2014.

4. I caught him again! My husband plays poker, that night i asked my friend who is working in poker room were he played. I asked her if my husband was there, she said he was just playing. And so i asked her to message me if they end the game already.. so they ended 2:10am. So i estimated his time to arrive home. But he got home 4am na. So i asked him where he went. He just said he went to his friend's japanese ktv bar to spent money there because his friend always gave him a guests in our diveshop. And that time, his friend give a guests again. So i dont really believe in him.. i am so tired.

And also atty, he told me he has an ED (Erectile Dysfunction) thats why daw he cant make sex with me kase nahihiya cya sakin. So syempre ayoko maniwala sa kanya kase hnd nya na prove sakin yun. Hinde man lang cya nag try.

And now atty, i am so tired na. I want to separate with him and ask a financial support for the kids.

What should i do?

Thank you.

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2 Re: i need an advice! pls help. on Wed Dec 24, 2014 6:41 pm

AWV


Reclusion Perpetua
Check your rights here with your children under Japanese law.
http://www.crnjapan.net/The_Japan_Childrens_Rights_Network/res-protectmarry.html

Under Philippine law you can file an RA9262 against him.
Unfortunately infidelity is not ground for an annulment, he can divorce you under Japan law but not in the Philippines. And the divorce should be filed by him not you! so you'll be able to remarry again once the divorce is recognised in the Philippines.

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3 Re: i need an advice! pls help. on Wed Dec 24, 2014 9:16 pm

jhenrinkouaki


Arresto Menor
Thanks atty.

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4 Re: i need an advice! pls help. on Fri Jan 02, 2015 7:37 pm

glencil


Arresto Menor
i am from zamboanga del sur...asawa ko po ay may kinakasama at may anak sila na isa..9 years na po nya kaming iniwan at nagtanan sya ng ex gf nya na taga sa amin din..nakatira po sila ngayun sa antipolo. gusto ko po silang kasuhan..saan pwede i file yung case> kailangan bang pumunta ng antipolo o pwede na dito sa amin..ang bata ay pinanganak sa antipolo..

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5 Re: i need an advice! pls help. on Fri Jan 02, 2015 9:34 pm

AWV


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Meron kang copy ng birth certificate ng anak nila? You can use this as a concrete evidence. File the case in your town and send them a copy, I hope you know their address so they can receive it, send a copy to his family as well from your town to ensure they receive it, they are obligued to answer and attend the hearing if not they will face consequences.

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6 Re: i need an advice! pls help. on Sun Jan 04, 2015 8:52 pm

glencil


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merun po akong secpa ng birth certificate ng bata,, sabi ng lawyer na kinunsulta ko dapat daw e file yung case sa antipolo kasi duon daw sila nakatira at doon ipinanganak ang bata..eh hindi naman talaga sila taga doon, doon lang sila naninirahan kasi nagtanan sila..hindi ko po kabisado ang antipolo parang ako pa rin ang nahihirapan sa part na ganito kasi maiiwan ko yung work ko in case may hearing.. saan ba dapat magfile ng case? i

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7 Re: i need an advice! pls help. on Sun Jan 04, 2015 9:37 pm

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glencil wrote:merun po akong secpa ng birth certificate ng bata,, sabi ng lawyer na kinunsulta ko dapat daw e file yung case sa antipolo kasi duon daw sila nakatira at doon ipinanganak ang bata..eh hindi naman talaga sila taga doon, doon lang sila naninirahan kasi nagtanan sila..hindi ko po kabisado ang antipolo parang ako pa rin ang nahihirapan sa part na ganito kasi maiiwan ko yung work ko in case may hearing.. saan ba dapat magfile ng case? i

Mas mabuti na file mo sa lugar nyo dahil delikado dumayo sa ibang lugar lalo na sa Antipolo area. Baka ma riding entandem ka pa! Obligado silang umattend sa hearing dahil kapag hindi sila umattend pusoy sila dun! Kailangan nilang dumepensa kaya sila ang dadayo hindi ikaw! Good luck!

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