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can husband take the kids out of the country w/o Mothers consent?

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itstoomuch


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Husband ko po have several kids from different women while were still married. At patuloy pa din sa pakikipagkita sa babae niya. Etong isanf babae,pinablutter ko n sika last time. Pero patuloy pa din sila. Concern ko po, ayoko pong sumama sa husband ko out of the country. I cant trust him anymore, baka mg-iba plano once nandun n kmi,wala akong fam.n mahihingan ng tulong dun once may mangyari samin. At his a drug addict now, inconsistent behaviour niya. Sabi niya, dalhin niya mga bata out of the country w/o me. Nsa knya mga passport ng bata. Ayoko n pong sumama sa knya, laki tlgang sira ang ngwa niya sa pagsasama nmin. Wala siya trabaho, walang ipon kasi napupunta sa drugs niya. Ano po b, dapat kung gawin?

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itstoomuch


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Hello! My husband is a foreigner. Really need the ans.kasi babali siya soon sa knila. At ano po ba rights ko, hindi siya ngbibigay sakin. pero sa babae niya may panggastos.

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concepab


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Request for a hold order.

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AWV


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itstoomuch wrote:Hello! My husband is a foreigner. Really need the ans.kasi babali siya soon sa knila. At ano po ba rights ko, hindi siya ngbibigay sakin. pero sa babae niya may panggastos.

You need enough and concrete evidence to all your accusation before you can ask for a hold departure without an open case he can leave the country without troubles. Also depends on the age of your children and the passport your children holds. If they have dual nationality you can't stop them from going as his embassy will get involve if you try to stop him from leaving with his kids. But if your children only holds Philippine passport then they are still under Philippines jurisdictions.

May I ask, what is his nationality? so we can give you a proper guidance here.

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itstoomuch


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Hello po, thanks for the response. Lakas po ebedinsya ko. may mga record din po ako n sila pa. At nkapost p sa fb ng babae pic.ng bata ksma asawa ko.At minsan n din akong pinagtangkaan ng asawa ako, sabi niya, pag inilayo ko daw s knya mga bata. Mag hire siya ng papatay sakin. sakin parin siya nauwi, pero minsan may nkikita akong Hotel ticket. American po siya, yes po dual ung passport ng mata. Ano po b ung rights ko dito? Ako n ang inaggrabyado ako p ang mwawalan ng anak? Babalik kmi sa knila, pero wala nmn siyang siguradong trabaho dun.

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itstoomuch


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In addition, kaya siya ntanggal sa trabaho dahil sa drug addiction niya at mkakasira sa pngalan ng tintrabahuan niya. Halos lahat ng sahud niya napupunta sa medication niya. Plan niya is, balik kmi sa knila at mgstay sa parents niya habang nghahanap siya ng work at ako ay mgrerent ng apartment for me at mghanap ng trabaho. Ngsasama nlang po kmi dahil sa mga bata. Ang worry ko lang is, baka mag-iba ang lahat once andun n kmi at wala akong mahingan ng tulong dun.
I really appreciate the ans.thanks

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AWV


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itstoomuch wrote:Hello po, thanks for the response. Lakas po ebedinsya ko. may mga record din po ako n sila pa. At nkapost p sa fb ng babae pic.ng bata ksma asawa ko.At minsan n din akong pinagtangkaan ng asawa ako, sabi niya, pag inilayo ko daw s knya mga bata. Mag hire siya ng papatay sakin. sakin parin siya nauwi, pero minsan may nkikita akong Hotel ticket. American po siya, yes po dual ung passport ng mata. Ano po b ung rights ko dito? Ako n ang inaggrabyado ako p ang mwawalan ng anak? Babalik kmi sa knila, pero wala nmn siyang siguradong trabaho dun.

Well mas maganda sumama ka sa US dahil dun meron silang women or battered wives shelter dun ka humingi ng tulong para hindi na nya makuha ang mga anak mo sa iyo dahil kung lalabanan mo sya ng nasa Pinas ka, wala kang laban kapag nailabas na nya ang mga anak nyo sa Pinas ng hindi ka kasama. Ano na status ng passport mo US passport holder ka na ba? Kahit hindi mo hawak ang passport ng mga bata sa US meron kang way na makakuhang muli kapag nasa US ka na pero kapag nasa Pinas ka lahat imposible. Saka sa Pinas madaling humanap ng hired killers sa murang halaga, sa US hindi ganun kadali at mahal so kung wala rin lang syang work malabong maipapatay ka nya dun.
Maging smarte dahil dual passport ang mga anak mo so mas maganda dun mo sya labanan sa jurisdiction nila.
Here's the people you have to contact in the US. http://www.helpguide.org/articles/abuse/help-for-abused-and-battered-women.htm
Read it through.
Its better for you to go to the US for your children's future there's no future for them in the Philippines, meron ka na rin lang passes sa US just use it as a stepping stone. Be tough enough to do this for your children's sake! Alright?

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itstoomuch


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Thank you very much for the response. kahit papano nkarelief din.

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itstoomuch


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tourist visa po, twice n po ako nkpubta sa knila. At ngayon sabi ko nga, cge sasama ako pero kailangan kumuha muna ako ng spouse visa, o visa for resident. Sabi niya, once nandun n kmi sa knila, ska n ipoprocess resident visa ko o change status. Worry ko ay baka once nandun n kmi, hindi niya ako tulungan ng resident visa at dahilan n kailangan ko unuwi ng pinas w/o my kids.

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AWV


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itstoomuch wrote:tourist visa po, twice n po ako nkpubta sa knila. At ngayon sabi ko nga, cge sasama ako pero kailangan kumuha muna ako ng spouse visa, o visa for resident. Sabi niya, once nandun n kmi sa knila, ska n ipoprocess resident visa ko o change status. Worry ko ay baka once nandun n kmi, hindi niya ako tulungan ng resident visa at dahilan n kailangan ko unuwi ng pinas w/o my kids.

Oh dear! pinapaikot ka lang nya wag kang papayag ng tourist visa dapat spouse visa dahil tagilid ka sa US kapag pumasok ka ng wrong visa ipapadeport ka lang nya at hindi mo maisasama mga anak mo kapag nandun na sila dahil may US passport na sila at under American jurisdictions sila.
Tarantado at smarte yan asawa mo ah! alam nya ang pasikot sikot sa visa sa US kaya tama ka na ipilit ang spouse visa. Hindi sila magpapalit dun from tourist visa to spouse visa kailangan mag exit ka na naman ulit at mag apply ng spouse visa from your port of origin which is sa Pinas.
Habang hindi pa nya nailalabas sa bansa ang mga anak mo mag demand ka na sasama lang kayo kapag may proper spouse visa ka na.

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itstoomuch


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Thank u po tlga, sakit sa dibdib habang binabasa ko response niyo. Mgaling po tlga siya magpaikot ng tao kahit nfa last yr.bkasyon nmin. Gumawa siya ng Fake paper for emergency n kailangan nmin makaalis agad kasi nmtay lolo niya, eh mtgal n un. So fake dates nikagay niya. Kasi mg-expired n Philippine passport ko nun at may ticket n kmi. At ano po b pwede ko ikaso sa babae, alam niya may pamilya n ang tao, patuloy parin siya at npablotter ko n sila noong nahuli ko sila. At kung mdali lang ipa deport ko nlang siya, ang dami niyang nadisgrasya dito parang mauubusan ng babae. nung mahuli ko secret phone niya, halos lahat ng sulok meron siyang contact. At iba nkakausap ko may anak daw sila at nagagalit kasi hindi sinusuportahan. At etong babae n pinablotter ko last time, sabi niya sakin. D daw niya kmi titigilan hanggang d kmi nghihiwalay. At husband ko nagagalit pag nagsesearch ako ng mga advice.

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itstoomuch


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Parents niya ayaw siya pauwiin muna hanggat on medication p siya. Kasi mangangamote tlga dun, mahal n and its not fun being around him when his on medication,or paubos n drugs niya.

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AWV


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My dear prioritized your children's future play smart and don't allow him to fool you anymore. You need to go to America no matter what. Since na abot kamay mo na wag mo na kunsumihin masyado ang sarili mo. Ang babaero ay manantiling babaero hindi na sila magbbago pa wala ka ng magagawa pa dyan mag ingat ka na lang baka maka sagap pa ng aids yan sa mga kalokohang pinaggagawa nyang asawa mo.

Yang mga kabit na matatapang ignore mo na lang hayaan mong magtalak sila ng mag talak sino ba ang leagal wife? Wag kang patatalo sa mga babaeng patapon ang mga sarili. Unahin mo ang future ng mga anak mo. Yun ang mas importante na dapat mong pagtuunan ng pansin hindi yung mga walang kwentang babae na mag drag sa iyo pababa sa impyerno nilang buhay. Think this way, nakaka angat ka sa kanila kaya ka nila iniimbyerna. Wink



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itstoomuch


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Tinatatagan ko nlang tlga kalooban ko, kahit paulit ulit at patuloy parin siya sa gingawa niya. Minsan may nkikita akong hotel ticket pag d siya nauwi at nbabasa ko conversation nila. Hindi ko n iniisip kligayahan ko. Para nlang sa mga bata gingawa ko.

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itstoomuch


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Wala n kming contact ng husband ko at kahit mgkasama kami sa isang bubong d n kmi ngtatabi pagtulog. At may rights po b ako sa sahud niya? Hindi po siya ngbibigay sakin, anak nmin pinatigil sa pag-aaral. Sabi niya para mkasave, eh wala nmn. Pero sa babae niya meron.

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AWV


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itstoomuch wrote:Wala n kming contact ng husband ko at kahit mgkasama kami sa isang bubong d n kmi ngtatabi pagtulog. At may rights po b ako sa sahud niya? Hindi po siya ngbibigay sakin, anak nmin pinatigil sa pag-aaral. Sabi niya para mkasave, eh wala nmn. Pero sa babae niya meron.

Oh dear! bakit di nag aaral ang mga anak nyo? Hindi madaling sagutin ang katanungan mo pag dating sa sweldo sa US Embassy ka na lalapit kapag ganyang issue.

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itstoomuch


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Pinatagil ng husband ko ng mwalan siya ng work para daw mkasave, eh may narerecev p nmn siyang sahud hangfat matapos contract niya.
Ano po ba ibang visa n will allow me to stay in US? Kasi ayaw niya kumuha ng spouse visa, since tapos n daw kami.

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AWV


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itstoomuch wrote:Pinatagil ng husband ko ng mwalan siya ng work para daw mkasave, eh may narerecev p nmn siyang sahud hangfat matapos contract niya.
Ano po ba ibang visa n will allow me to stay in US? Kasi ayaw niya kumuha ng spouse visa, since tapos n daw kami.

He wants it in a hard way? File a case of RA9262 against him as he is causing you psychological disturbance so he can't leave the country tell the authority also that he is not sending your children to school, this is his obligation as a father. If he has an ongoing case there would be a hold departure order. And if he try to go for the settlement it should be for him to get you a spouse visa and flight ticket, so you would have a chance to go to the US. And when you get to his territory don't let him know you will ask for a help.
Bear in mind that this is not a holiday place.
http://www.helpguide.org/articles/abuse/help-for-abused-and-battered-women.htm

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itstoomuch


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Hello po AWV, ayaw niya po tlgang kuhaan ako ng spouse visa. Kasi daw baka may gawin ako sa knya. At ayaw daw niya mlgay sa record niya n twice n syang na divorce. Kasi sabi ko, u dont hv 2 worry me getting spouse visa. Once in the US, we can divorce. At pinipilit tlga niya na pa change nlang ng status once nsa US n kmi. W/c I dont trust him, I dont have an assurance that his gonna help me to get my resident visa. sabi niya, will go to visa expert or immigration. Kung anong pwede besides spouse visa. At sya daw mgdesisyon kung anong visa kunin niya. Basta hindi spouse visa. His affecting me mentally, nsa knya mga passport ng mga bata. Sabi niya pag d ako sumama, dalhin niya mga bata w/o me. Tourist visa ko mag expired pa 2025.

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AWV


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itstoomuch wrote:Hello po AWV, ayaw niya po tlgang kuhaan ako ng spouse visa. Kasi daw baka may gawin ako sa knya. At ayaw daw niya mlgay sa record niya n twice n syang na divorce. Kasi sabi ko, u dont hv 2 worry me getting spouse visa. Once in the US, we can divorce. At pinipilit tlga niya na pa change nlang ng status once nsa US n kmi. W/c I dont trust him, I dont have an assurance that his gonna help me to get my resident visa. sabi niya, will go to visa expert or immigration. Kung anong pwede besides spouse visa. At sya daw mgdesisyon kung anong visa kunin niya. Basta hindi spouse visa. His affecting me mentally, nsa knya mga passport ng mga bata. Sabi niya pag d ako sumama, dalhin niya mga bata w/o me. Tourist visa ko mag expired pa 2025.


You're quite right not to trust him!
Read through here my Dear,
 
http://manilastandardtoday.com/mobile/2014/01/13/revisiting-the-vawc-law

In another case, a Filipina who was living abroad with her foreign husband left him with her three kids in tow when she learned that her husband was having an affair with another woman. Back in the Philippines, she obtained a temporary protection order for herself and her children. She also filed a criminal case against her husband for alleged psychological abuse. When the husband came to the Philippines, he found that he was not allowed to see or talk to her or their children. He was also served a subpoena involving a criminal complaint under VAWC filed against him by his wife forcing him to immediately leave for fear of not being able to depart and go back to his home country where his job was.

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itstoomuch


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Hello po Attorney, thanks a lot for the response. Ayaw niya tlga akong kunan ng spouse visa. Posible po ba akong kumuha w/o his presence? Pakita ko lang marriage contract namin? Thanks

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AWV


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itstoomuch wrote:Hello po Attorney, thanks a lot for the response. Ayaw niya tlga akong kunan ng spouse visa. Posible po ba akong kumuha w/o his presence? Pakita ko lang marriage contract namin? Thanks

It's worth trying! Make sure you bring the authenticated marriage certificate from NSO along with a copy of his passport.

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itstoomuch


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Hello po, ano po dapat kug gwin? Ilang araw n po d nauwi aswa ko. Hindi niya eto ginagawa noon nauwi siya kahit late na. At worried po ako kasi on medication siya n nwawala sa sarili minsan at alam ko ksma niya ung babae n npahuli ko noon. Pwede ko rin po ba kasuhan mga magulang ng babae, alam nila may pamilya na ang tao, kinukunsinti anak nila.

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AWV


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Report mo missing person sa police in case na may mangyari sa kanya sagutin sya ng kabit nya!

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itstoomuch


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Hello po AWV, pwede po ba magpagawa ng demand letter sayo? pls.leave ur email add.po kung pwede.at mgkano?
Thanks.

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