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Pagkakamaling Magpakasal coz Im not happy with my marriage with a woman coz im gay..

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jommeltoroy


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Noong bata pa ako, i knew that im not a straight guy. tinago ko lang po ito sa aking sarili hanggang i reached the age of 19 or 20. may nabuntis po akong babae and di ko po siya girlfriend. kasama ko po siya sa boarding house with other boardmates. noong isang gabi na umuwi ako nang lasing, it happened na magkatabi kaming dalawa, di ko siya girlfriend. because mainit po katawan namin pareho may nangyari po sa amin. and dahil po doon, dahil po sa init ng aming mga katawan at dahil we weere young then, nasundan po ito ng maraming beses..dumating ang time na nangyari po ang di inaasahan na nabuntis yung babae.. di ko po gusto siyang pakasalan because im not ready to engage into marriage at another reason po is alam ko po sa sarili ko that i wont be happy with my life to marry her coz im gay. di niya po alam yun and di ko rin po sinabi sa babae. umuwi po ako ng probinsya, and told my parents about what happened. i told my parents na ayaw kong pakasalan ang babae because shes not my girlfriend in the first place and i had no feelings for her,.. but my parents insisted na dapat ko raw pakasalan yung babae dahil di nila gusto na mangyari din ito sa aking mga babae na kapatid. kahit labag po sa kalooban ko, napilitan akong pakasalan sa huwes yung babae. dahil wala na po akong magagawa sa nangyari, we lived together in a roof and we had four children. lahat po ng children namin ay bunga po sa kalaingan. i had sex with the woman only if im drunk. ang pagsasama po namin is full of regrets, pag-aaway, ginugulpi ko ang babae, lahat-lahat po ay ginawa ko sa kanya dahil di kami nagkakasundo. i had miserable life with her and lagi po akong nagsisisi sa pinasukan kong buhay. i even told my parents kung bakit pa pinakasal sa babae kaya ito tuloy naging daloy ng pagsasama namin... hanggang dumating po ang time that i was at the age of 25, nakameet po ako ng isang lalaki. we were both bisexuals, and he is single. nagprosper po yung relationship namin hanggang umabot po kami ng 6 years.. nalaman po ito ng babae that may karelasyon akong lalaki, but di nya po maprove dahil we both look straight. she found out dahil nabasa po niya conversation namin sa text. she was so mad at me at dahil doon, nagsimula po mas matinding pag-aaway namin.. she found out that i was gay noong 1 pa po kami ng aking boyfriend. 6 years po kami ng aking boyfriend, lagi po kaming nag-aaway sa babae.. nagugulpi ko po siya palagi sa kadaldalan at pambabastos at panlalait niya sa akin kasi di na po matiis lahat mga sinasabi niya.. hanggang dumating po ang panahon na sinabihan ko po ang babae na hindi na ako magtatagal sa pagsasama namin at kusa na akong aalis. hanggang sa dumating po ang point na naglayas na po and lived together with my boyfriend. my boyfriend is a professional.. pinag-aaral niya po ako hanggang nakatapos po ako at naging professional din katulad niya. we're living together now 10 years na po ang relationship namin.. and since naglayas ako, wala na akong contact sa babae and never did i speak to her and see her ever again...



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attyLLL


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i wish you did not have to inflict violence to make your point to her. it was also unnecessary that you inflict moral anguish. i must also advise you that repeated marital infidelity is a basis for a charge of psychological violence under RA 9262.

you do not need to file a case of legal separation to leave. you can just do it. what i would recommend to you is to talk to your wife, or have a representative she trusts to do it for you, to work out all the arrangements regarding support for her and the children. you can even make an agreement as to custody and visitation schedule. do not use the issue of support as leverage.

you can consider not having to dissolve your marital bond. or you can seek annulment, but it is correct that it is your wife who can seek annulment or legal separation on the basis of homosexuality. For annulment, she will have to allege and prove that you fraudulently concealed your homosexuality at the time of the marriage and it is within 5 years since she discovered it.

i do not recommend that you push her towards legal separation. you will be deemed the guilty party and lose all rights over the properties.


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jommeltoroy


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im no longer living with my wife for 2 years now and have no plans to live with her again for the rest of my life. i am happy now that i have already found peace of mind and i can be who i am. . . is there any way that i can file for legal separation or annulment if im no longer living with my wife or separated with her for a very long time? pls i need ur advice. im willing to spend any amount just to erase her name from my civil status... and make our marriage null and void...

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jommeltoroy


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i have edited po my first message.. yan po pinagdaanan ko po from the beginning of my stupid marriage to a woman.. pls read it.. thanks...

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