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need legal advice asap. unmarried - with child, harassment of female counterpart

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yanzco


Arresto Menor
im 27, male..
with child, 2 yr old now..
female mother, 23

we are unmarried..
both of them live with my family to support child.

we have fight and harasses me , ilang beses ako pinag sipa sipa sa ulo, katawan, sa leeg.. sinampal sampal sa mukha..

mga maraming masakit na pinag sasabi..
na hinde daw ako ang ama, na di ko kaya mag pa buhay sa kanila..

na im cheating daw..
just for the basis of search log in facebook..

they left..

now.. what can i do to prevent them and illegitimate child to bother me again..

pagod na po ako ..
ako na ang naging nanay.. ako na halos lahat gumagawa sa lahat, at cya puro celpon at facebook at clash of clan..

considering na nag hahanapbuhay cya mag buy n sell sa fb..
happy ako doon, pero lahat ng bagay na ginagawa ko, bina bali wala lang nya..

ako pa palaging utang ng utang sa kanya daw..

na, i have my own money.. di daw cya maka bili ng gamit nya, lahat na pupunta sa akin, eh, ang bini bili nalang nga, mga gusto nya na pagkain eh.. mcdo dito, mcdo doon...


please help.

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yanzco


Arresto Menor
sa pamilya ko, kung ano meron nila, ano meron ko, iisa lang kami..
chinese family kami..

nakaka sakit ng ulo ang sabihan ka na di ako maka buhay sa kanila..

wala ako trabaho. oo tama, pero gumagawa ako program, at nag bebenta ako.. ang nakuha ko pera, inuuna ko sa kanila.. tapos ganito lang?

need advice po..

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yanzco


Arresto Menor
currently 29 yrs old now..
still living with the girl..
not married..

my name is not listed as "father" in our child's birth certificate..
im tired of living in verbal abuse for 3 yrs ..

tinitiis ko lang, para sa bata..
one thing my proud chinese school taught was to never give up and be responsible..
i try to live up to my every word.


but now.. i have evidence, of her... sms messages from another guy..
saying i love yous...  even seeing a msge, "wag ka tatabi sa kanya ha"

to prove my support.. i ven bought her an iphone 6s... worth 40k.

not just that, most of the house work, i do.. she only does cooking... ONCE a week..
i have work, but still i get to do everything...


and she would just ask permission to go out at night, have fun and drink with other guys?..
go home at 8 am in the morning???

i mean, wow...

after everything....


please help, what legal advices i can get...
even just gaining custody of the child..

just my son.. i dont care about her anymore.. enough is enough....
please help...

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xtianjames


Reclusion Perpetua
since hindi kayo kasal, una wala kayong karapatan sa isat isa. walang legal remedy na kailangan gawin para maghiwalay kayo.

regarding sa custody ng bata, since illegitimate sya, sa nanay ang sole custody ng bata at hindi porke hindi hahayaan na mapunta sayo ang bata at ipagkakait mo na na suportahan sya. pwede ka kasuhan if gagawin mo yun.

kung gusto mo mapunta sayo ang custody ng anak nyo ay kakailanganin na patunayan mo sa korte na unfit ang nanay para alagaan ang bata.

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yanzco


Arresto Menor
tama ginagawa ko na, nag gagather ako ng evidence for past 3 yrs...
tiis tiis....

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xtianjames


Reclusion Perpetua
better find and consult a lawyer at this stage kasi kung mabigat dahilan na meron ka sa pag aakusa na unfit yung nanay, baka maquestion ka din kung bakit pinatagal mo pa na mangyari yun sa anak nyo.

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yanzco


Arresto Menor
wala naman problema sa bata.. in fact, i make sure na all his needs are well provided..
in fact napa enroll ko na cya kinder 1 for this year...

just our toxic relationship...
walang mararating...

ayaw ko rin iwanan at pa alisin sila kasi nga, ang bata.. ang bata lang kawawa...

kahit anong desisyon gawin ko, ang bata ang kawawa...

feel my predicament?...

kaya ko kahit ako lahat... wala ako problema, eto lang babae..
konting ano, pinapa laking problema, , eh pag ako gumagawa, wala problema, pero pag cya, ..di ko na alam kung saan saan mararating away...

gulo.. kaya mas gugustuhin ko nlng na ako nalang gumawa lahat, wala pa ako problema..

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xtianjames


Reclusion Perpetua
ang problema kasi is since hindi kayo kasal, kakailanganin mo muna patunayan sa korte na di talaga maganda sa bata ang environment na binibigay ng ina nya. eto lang ang tanging paraan para magka say ka sa Gawain nya.

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yanzco


Arresto Menor
about that, tnatry ko rin na mapalipat ang apiledo ng bata sa akin...
ok ba pag ganun?.. pero minsan parang gusto ng babae, minsan parang ayaw.. magulo utak..

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xtianjames


Reclusion Perpetua
kahit po nakapangalan sayo yung bata, di padin po magbabago yung karapatan sa bata.

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Jadis

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Who is registered as the father?

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