only child po ako. my parents got married 1970. i was born 1980. my father is a retired teacher. my mother was also a teacher. then, my mother died last 2009 due to complications sa diabetes. so, balik buhay binata ang father ko po. before my mother died, my husband and I promised to take care of my father. so, kahit medyo nakakapanghinayang, i resigned from a very good-paying job in the city last 2012 para umuwi sa probinsya namin dahil my father is turning 70 na and ang kasama niya lang sa house is 1 male working student. however, nung nauwi na kami sa house ng parents ko, i was sort of shocked and sad na "unwelcome" pala kami ng father ko. sa tuwing kumakain kami, nagkukuwenta na ang father ko sa "gastos at utang" nya sa market for food and other household items. hindi naman po kami patay-gutom ng husband ko. i now work as a freelance copyeditor and the pay is good din naman. my husband does not have a permanent job, but he does all the household chores and, in the evening, driver sya ng "habal2x" or motorcycle for hire. therefore, hindi kami dependent sa father ko. in fact, we pay the electric bill and the internet connection bill sa house, and my husband even contributes 1 sack of rice every month na share nya from his parents' farm. then, i found out na kaya pala ayaw ng father ko na nasa house kami kasi may mga "chicks" pala sya na pinagkakaabalahan. ok lang sana sa akin if my father finds a new partner in life kasi nga technically balik binata na sya. pero hwag lang sana yung 18 to 20+ years old, student, at kahit sinong tatanungin eh pera lang talaga ng father ko ang habol. because of that, my father and I are not in good terms. ang masakit pa, dinamay nya pa ang husband ko. ginawan pa ng storya na sinuntok daw sya ng husband ko, which my husband never ever did. so my husband and I decided to build our own house sa lot na nasa likod ng lot ng parents ko. ang masaklap, gumawa talaga ng paraan ang father ko na mapalayas kami sa house nila ng mother ko. only to find out na after 1 month ng pagpapalayas nya sa amin, dinala na nya sa house ang newest GF nya -- 40 something, not legally separated from her husband, and so my father is a "kabit" now.
i know that the house (and all things inside the house), lot, and pickup truck are conjugal properties of my parents. so i think my right din ako as their daughter. although ang title ng lot and registration ng pickup truck are in my father's name, but these were acquired while he and my mother were still married.
aside from that, may mga items sa house na namana ng mother ko from her parents.
i heard that my father is planning to sell the house, lot, and pickup truck. may "say" po ba ako about this matter? masakit po sa akin na ibebenta na lang nya ang lahat ng eto na equally pinaghirapan nila ng mother ko. i am not after these things because "materialistic" ako, but because of the sentimental value that these things have because of my mother. and i believe na may right talaga ako as their only child.
he is selling the house, lot, and pickup truck because magsasama na daw sila ng new GF nya sa city where the girl resides.
please enlighten me... please help me...