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Husband wants his freedom...

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1 Husband wants his freedom... on Thu May 28, 2015 4:58 am

Hi. My husband is in Dubai. Yesterday tinawagan nya ako just to tell me he wants space. Hindi daw nya magawa ang gusto nyang gawin hangga't nandito pa ako (di ko alam kung ano talaga ang ibig sabihin nya dito). Madami syang sinasabi na gusto nyang umalis sa current job nya ngayon, gusto nyang umalis na sa Dubai at gusto nya maging single... Tinanong ko sya kung gusto nyang makipag hiwalay. Di naman daw talagang totally hiwalay. Di naman daw nya pababayaan ang sustento for the kids. Sinagot ko sya na napaka informal ng approach nya saken since thru phone lng at napaka imposible ang gusto nyang mangyari na agarang makuha nya ang freedom nya. Dagdag ko pa na kung gusto nya umuwi sya dito para mapag usapan. Tinanong nya ako na kung uuwi ba sya dito may mga dokumento na ba syang pinirmahan. Lalo akong naguluhan.....Ang gusto kong malaman, kung pumayag ba ako sa freedom na hinihingi nya at magpabayad ako sa kalayaan na gusto nya, makukuha ko pa ba ang sustento para sa mga bata? #2.kung hindi ako pumayag sa gusto nya, baka itigil na nya ang sustento lalo na may balak pala sya mangibang bansa, ano ang karapatan ko dito? Ano ang gagawin ko? Kanino ako lalapit para humingi ng tulong? Kung anuman ang pagkasunduan namin lalo na pagdating sa Financial obligations, baka hindi nya matupad yun since gusto na nyang umalis sa Dubai, ano ang habol ko? Frankly speaking, ang gusto kong mangyari, gawin na lahat ang gusto nyang gawin pero ako pa din ang asawa at hindi mapuputol ang sustento sa mga bata.. Kung maputol yun, saan ako pupunta to seek help?

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2 Re: Husband wants his freedom... on Thu May 28, 2015 5:43 am

LandOwner12


Reclusion Perpetua
madali lang po yang problem nyo,,
pakisagot po, so that we can establish some facts.

1.kasal?
2. meron congugal property? marami?
3. ilan anak?
4 muslim?

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3 Re: Husband wants his freedom... on Thu May 28, 2015 5:45 am

Yes kasal kami. May conjugal property pero konti lang. 2 Kids. Katoliko po kami

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4 Re: Husband wants his freedom... on Thu May 28, 2015 5:56 am

LandOwner12


Reclusion Perpetua
ok, good,
I admire u for your decision.
as i am seeing this. the Love that bind you before was all gone... to the point that you will grant his freedom and will not fight your space in his heart, aruy,, heart daw oh,, and settle just for the support.
ok here we go.
1, if he want to be single, you need to annul your marriage, so that he can re-marry.
in my knowledge <1/10 of cases of annulment was granted, and again, wala akong nakikitang grounds for annulment.
2. you can legally separate, divide your properties, the support for the children is still there(mandatory upon judgement), but each of you can not marry. except.
3. he convert to islam, he can re-marry, ur still his 1st wife, and still need to provide ur kids support

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5 Re: Husband wants his freedom... on Thu May 28, 2015 6:09 am

What if he doesn't comply when it comes to financial support since nasa ibang bansa sya? Paano ko sya hahabulin? May nababasa kc ako na sa umpisa lang na nagbibigay ng sustento pagkatapos nun, wala na, madami ng dahilan like walang trabaho o lumipat ng ibang bansa...

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6 Re: Husband wants his freedom... on Thu May 28, 2015 6:20 am

LandOwner12


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hindi pwedeng hindi,
1st, sya tatay,
2nd, sya ang humingi ng freedom,,
3rd, its mandated by law
4th, kung di magbigay file ka another case, this time abandonment, RA9262,,, etc,,,,
kung wala pa rin, karma....
5th, kung wla pa rin, eh hanap na ng ibang fafa,,, joke lang,,,,

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7 Re: Husband wants his freedom... on Thu May 28, 2015 6:33 am

Nakakatuwa ka naman sumagot... You make things easier for me... Ang gusto ko kasing mangyari na kapag hindi sya nag comply, bukod sa pag file ng RA9262,puwede ba akong mag request sa POEA ng hold departure para hindi muna sya makaalis sa dubai hangga't wala syang dokumento na pinapirmahan na kahit nasaan lupalop sya ng mundo ay magbibigay sya.. Sorry kung sa tingin mo, after lang ako sa sustento, oo tama ka nga.. Iniisip ko kasi ang karapatan ng mga anak ko.

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8 Re: Husband wants his freedom... on Thu May 28, 2015 6:50 am

LandOwner12


Reclusion Perpetua
nasan na ang promises na "till death do us par"
maging "till Edith Do us part"

POEA.
walang way/power ang POEA, paano pag napaso ang Visa, or ang passport, di pwede umuwi?
ang Ra9262, eh 2 approach, civil case,, para sa support,
or magiging criminal case,, sactions for failure to provide support and some psychological damages..

ang hold departure order eh, pigiling umalis ng bansa, at di pigiling bumalik..

sorry, di ko iniisip na support lang habol mo,
in the contrary, what i mean is u are willing to sacrifice for the sake of ur children.

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9 Re: Husband wants his freedom... on Thu May 28, 2015 6:59 am

Ngayon naman po, ano ang dapat kong paghandaan (anong klaseng papeles) na kelangan nyang pirmahan kung uuwi sya dito... Kelangan ko po bang kumuha ng lawyer? Pasensya na po, wala talaga akong kaalam alam pagdating sa mga ganito. Gusto ko po kc na handa ako pagdating nya, na may alam sa family code kahit konti...

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10 Re: Husband wants his freedom... on Thu May 28, 2015 7:05 am

LandOwner12


Reclusion Perpetua
ganito,,,
i assume gusto mo ikaw pa rin asawa, so legal separation tayo,
clear ko lang di kayo pwede ikasal uli, else pwede mo sya idemanda ng Bigamy
but kung sa ibang bansa sya magpakasal, need mo punta doon, at doon mo sya idemanda, di pwede dito.

eto reference,,
pakibase muna, pag me tanong, balikan mo ko ha.
Family code,, simulan mo article 55,
ready yan sa net, search mo lang.

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11 Re: Husband wants his freedom... on Thu May 28, 2015 7:48 am

Thank you so much...

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12 Re: Husband wants his freedom... on Thu May 28, 2015 7:59 am

Abandonment of petitioner by respondent without justifiable cause for more than 1 year.... Anong pong sabihin nito??

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13 Re: Husband wants his freedom... on Thu May 28, 2015 8:20 am

LandOwner12


Reclusion Perpetua
iniwan c plaintiff/nagsampa ng kaso, ni respondent/idinulog ng >1 year ng walang reasonable cause,
or basta na lang nawala.....
or ilogical reason.
like, me mga anak, ang reason eh, magbakasyon sa boracay....ng 1 taon,,, ganon po

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14 Re: Husband wants his freedom... on Thu May 28, 2015 8:41 am

raheemerick


Reclusion Perpetua
magandang usapan yan..

well you have landowner for this isue..

ok yan..

piece of advice na lng. di q na masyado nabasa pa thread..

let your husband ang gumastos if he wants to be free from you sa usaping kasal.

file a leagl separation at hayaan mo din sya ang gumastos so your properties will be devided equally

then since may mga anak kayo and legitimate ito?

may rights sila na makuha ang sustento nila mula sa tatay.

file economic abuse if the tatay refuse to sustain your junakids!! :0

then dnt be a bitter. hndi ka man nya masagot ng tahasan? its oviously naman na may ibang kinahuhumalingan yang kuneho na yan hahaha!!

hayaan mo na.. kjesa manatili kau sa pagiging mag asawa ng wla ng love feelings at tila ikaw pa ang hadlang sa kaligayahan?

sabi mo sa kanya..

itlog nya!! hahaha


then hayaan mo na sya and move on..

dnt wory..

andito naman ako? hahahaha Smile

di kita pababayaan:)

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