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1 3 year old child custody on Tue Jun 02, 2015 3:35 am

yourhazyness


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Good morning, I need your help please sir and mam....

I am a mother of a 3 years old boy and I am not married to his father. I met someone and I realized that I do not want to be with the father of my son. We tried to fix it but my heart belongs to the other man already. I left last year November to be with my boyfriend now and was forced to leave my son to his father until now since he is threatening me about taking me to court and black mailing me. I am visiting my son every weekend and I find that he and his mother (my son's grandmother) is not capable of taking good care of my son, his finger nails are not clean, he is always sick and sometimes left to other family member's when they are busy. What are my options in getting my son back? I am afraid that he will show up at my work and threaten my life or my boyfriend's life if I pursue in taking my son from him without his knowledge.

Please advise, I am in need of your insight, thank you so much!

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2 Re: 3 year old child custody on Tue Jun 02, 2015 8:15 am

raheemerick


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ref lng teh..

Sinabi ng Korte Suprema sa kasong JOEY D. BRIONES vs. MARICEL P. MIGUEL, FRANCISCA P. MIGUEL and LORETA P. MIGUEL na “An illegitimate child is under the sole parental authority of the mother. In the exercise of that authority, she is entitled to keep the child in her company. The Court will not deprive her of custody, absent any imperative cause showing her unfitness to exercise such authority and care.” Malinaw rin na nakasaad sa Article 176 of the Family Code na “Illegitimate children shall use the surname and shall be under the parental authority of their mother, and shall be entitled to support in conformity with this Code.”



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3 Re: 3 year old child custody on Tue Jun 02, 2015 11:59 am

LandOwner12


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yan kasi ang hirap,
nakakita lang ng bagong adan, nalimutan na ang anak...
kunin mo anak mo, dapat lang..
kung ayaw ibigay, dswd mo..

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4 Re: 3 year old child custody on Tue Jun 02, 2015 8:57 pm

yourhazyness


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LandOwner12 wrote:yan kasi ang hirap,
nakakita lang ng bagong adan, nalimutan na ang anak...
kunin mo anak mo, dapat lang..
kung ayaw ibigay, dswd mo..



Kuya, wag kang judgemental okay? Hindi mo alam ang buong nangyari para sermonan ako ngayon. Wala kang kwenta ha! Pano mo nasabing kinalimutan ko anak ko? Wag kang sasagot kung bastos ka lang din bwisit ka.

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5 Re: 3 year old child custody on Tue Jun 02, 2015 8:58 pm

yourhazyness


Arresto Menor
raheemerick wrote:ref lng teh..

Sinabi ng Korte Suprema sa kasong JOEY D. BRIONES vs. MARICEL P. MIGUEL, FRANCISCA P. MIGUEL and LORETA P. MIGUEL na “An illegitimate child is under the sole parental authority of the mother. In the exercise of that authority, she is entitled to keep the child in her company. The Court will not deprive her of custody, absent any imperative cause showing her unfitness to exercise such authority and care.” Malinaw rin na nakasaad sa Article 176 of the Family Code na “Illegitimate children shall use the surname and shall be under the parental authority of their mother, and shall be entitled to support in conformity with this Code.”





Thank you for your insight, I really appreciate it.

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6 Re: 3 year old child custody on Wed Jun 03, 2015 8:52 am

LandOwner12


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ay, na offend c ate.
eto lang.
1.palagay nating 1 out of 2 ng mga napayuhan ko eh, gaya mo,,
then sa tingin ko, 50% is still high, sa dami ng problemadong tao sa pinas.
2. given that u interpreted my comments as sermon, which is not my intention, then so be it,,
mahilig lang kasi akong magbasa between the lines.

para sa mga ibang marunong magbasa,,
3 years old kamo ang baby mo, then ilang days nyo ba winork out ang relationship nyo ng father ng baby? ilang days na rin kayong me relasyon ng bago mong BF,
ano ang cause and effect?
meron nang iba kaya nanlamig sa isat isa, or naglamig muna sa isat isa, kaya humanap ng iba?
all these happend on 3 years span,
sa tingin mo ba naconsider mong lalaking illegitimate ang anak mo, broken family, walang full blood siblings, bago ka nagpasyang sumama sa bf mo?
ate,
meron ka pang sinabing, u will take ur son without the knowledge of his father,,
cge, gudluck na lang, di mo naman need ng advice ko di ba?
saka nga pala, mas marami naman ang nag PM sakin na humihingi ng Advice, kesa sa nagPM na nagsasabing bastos ako.


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7 Re: 3 year old child custody on Wed Jun 03, 2015 8:57 am

raheemerick


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hahaha.. di yan na offend master landowner!! Smile\


na hiya lng kasi natumbok mo nanaman hahaha!!

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8 Re: 3 year old child custody on Wed Jun 03, 2015 5:48 pm

cire212215


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Chill lang po Ma'am and Sir. Sayang ang energy.
Wala po nareresolve sa mainit na ulo. Tulungan po tayo.

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9 Re: 3 year old child custody on Wed Jun 03, 2015 6:01 pm

LandOwner12


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thanks,

chill lang naman ako,, as always,,,

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10 Re: 3 year old child custody on Thu Jun 04, 2015 1:47 am

yourhazyness


Arresto Menor
Landowner, ganyan mo ba tntrato ang Mga taong nanghihingi ng payo dito sa page na Toh? Napakawalang modo mo. Magisip ka bago ka magsalita. Wag mong ipagmalaki sakin ang Mga nagawa mo na. Nagulat ka pang na-offend ako? Hindi kaba naturuan na makipagusap ng maayos? Mostly sa Mga taong nandito Ay may mabigat na problema. Bakit kailangan mong manginsulto/mambastos sa Mga sagot mo? Wag kang insensitive Dahil wala kang alam.

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11 Re: 3 year old child custody on Thu Jun 04, 2015 1:50 am

yourhazyness


Arresto Menor
Raheemerick, yan ba master mo? Goodluck! Pareho kayong Ewan kausap

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12 Re: 3 year old child custody on Thu Jun 04, 2015 7:46 am

cire212215


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Ms. yourhazyness, based on my personal experience on this forum, the 1st time I posted here, ganyan din nangyari saken. actually mas grabe pa. tapos meron din nagsesend ng PMs. Before ako nagpost, nagbasa muna ko ang I noticed na parang normal na lang ganyang way ng usapan dito eh. Kaya instead na magalit ako, I played it cool, ayun nagkaron naman ng friend. Just sharing my experience here ;-)

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13 Re: 3 year old child custody on Thu Jun 04, 2015 8:17 am

LandOwner12


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yourhazyness,
ayaw kitang patulan, pero below the belt na to...
Epal ka, iniinis mo araw ko,, kaaga aga eh..
Matuto ka ngang magbasaa at kahukayin mo ang lahat ng threads/post ko(700+) at patunayang mong hindi ikaw ang unang ganyan ang reaksyon sa comments ko...
cge, dare kita, magpost ka dito ng ng any person na naoffend maliban sa sibuyas mong skin...

Anong bastos sa comment ko?
saan ka nainsulto?

Naturuan ba kamo??? , ikaw naturuan ka ba?
ang dami mong ibinatong paratang sa akin, eh ni wala kang alam tungkol sa kin..
sinubukan mo na bang itanong sa sarili mo yang mga paratang mo,,
mag isip bago magsalita, ikaw meron ka bang utak?
bago ka nga lang dito, at wala kang alam,
ikaw ang walang alam, kumag ka..

magpaturo ka muna dyan sa bago mong BF,,

epal pa...





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14 Re: 3 year old child custody on Thu Jun 04, 2015 8:28 am

raheemerick


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hahahaha ang iiinit ng ulo ng mga pipol dito ah!!

ang taray ng master landowner haha.. chil lng tol:)

@yourhayzyness: maam di namn po siguro sadya or meant to ni master landowner ang na salitype nya:) wag kasi masyado seryus saka wag nga naman balat sibuyas sabi nga diba?

chill lng Smile



cguro nag auto type lng keyboard nya:)

anyway maam,

ANG KUSTODIYA NG BATANG ILLEGITIMATE O ANAK NG MGA HINDI KASAL AY IPINAGKAKALOOB NG BATAS SA KANYANG NANAY, ANG TATAY AY MAYROON LAMANG VISITATION RIGHTS. KUNG WALA ANG NANAY NG ISANG ILLEGITIMATE CHILD, ANG KUSTODIYA AY PINAGKAKALOOB SA LOLO O LOLA NG BATA SA MOTHER SIDE, AT HINDI SA FATHER SIDE

Ayon sa Article 176 ng Family Code, ang parental authority ng illegitimate child ay nasa nanay. Ang karapatan lamang ng tatay ng isang illegitimate child ay visitation rights sa kanyang anak.

Art. 176. Illegitimate children shall use the surname and shall be under the parental authority of their mother, and shall be entitled to support in conformity with this Code. The legitime of each illegitimate child shall consist of one-half of the legitime of a legitimate child. Except for this modification, all other provisions in the Civil Code governing successional rights shall remain in force.

Ang pagiging ama ay hindi sapat na dahilan upang sa kanya igawad ang pag-aaruga sa bata. At kung ang ina ay UNFIT o HINDI KARAPATDAPAT upang pangalagaan ang bata, ang kustodiya ay maaaring ibigay sa mga LOLO o LOLA na magulang ng ina at hindi sa paternal side o LOLO o LOLA sa father side. Ang ganitong kaso ay dinesisyunan na ng Korte Suprema sa kaso nila Briones vs Miguel G.R. No. 156343, October 18, 2004. Ang kinakailangan na gawin ng pamilya ng AMA o ang mga lolo at lola ay magbigay na lamang ng suporta sa bata, gayundin ang karapatan na pag-dalaw o visitation rights sa kanyang anak. Ang AMA na bigong mag-bigay ng suporta sa anak ay maaaring panagutin ng pag-labag sa Anti-Violence Against Woman and Children Act na tinatawag na economic abuse. Ang hindi pagbibigay ng kustodiya ng anak ng nanay sa tatay ay hindi dahilan upang itigil ang suporta sa bata. Ganun din, ang kawalan ng pagkakataon na bisitahin ng tatay ang kanyang anak ay hindi rin dahilan upang itigil niya ang kanyang suporta sa bata.

gayun pa man teh..

Ang pag-iwan ng isang nanay sa kanyang illegitimate child sa tatay o ibang tao ay hindi nangangahulugan na inabandona na niya ang anak. Sa kaso ng Supreme Court sa Sagala-Eslao vs Court of Appeals (G.R. No. 116773. January 16, 1997), ang isang anak ay naiwan sa grandmother dahil namatay na ang father ng mga anak at pagkatapos ay nag-asawa uli ang nanay ngunit nang kukunin na ang bata, tumanggi ang grandmother na wala nang right ang nanay na kunin ang bata dahil inabandona na niya ito. Sinabi ng Supreme Court na walang abandonment na ang pag-iwan sa bata ng nanay sa grandmother ay temporary custody lang sinabi dito na nawawala lang ang parental authority ng magulang sa kanyang anak kung ito ay kanyang (1) pina-adopt, (2) kung siya ay nabaliw at under guardianship ng korte o (3) pag-surrender ng bata sa orphanage. Kung wala dito sa tatlong nasabi ng batas, pwedeng mabawi ang custody ng bata sa pinag-iwanan nito.

Kung kaya, ang taong pinag-iwanan ng isang menor de edad na bata ng magulang nito ay may responsibilidad na ibalik ang custody nito sa kanyang mga magulang kung ito ay binabawi na. Ang hindi pagbabalik ng menor de edad na bata ng taong pinagiwanan ng bata ay isang krimen na kung tawagin ay "FAILURE TO RETURN A MINOR" na may parusang kulong ayon sa Article 270 ng Revised Penal Code:

chilaax lng kau maam  nakaka wala ng ganda yan cge ka

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15 Re: 3 year old child custody on Thu Jun 04, 2015 9:11 am

LandOwner12


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yourhazyness wrote:
raheemerick wrote:ref lng teh..

Sinabi ng Korte Suprema sa kasong JOEY D. BRIONES vs. MARICEL P. MIGUEL, FRANCISCA P. MIGUEL and LORETA P. MIGUEL na “An illegitimate child is under the sole parental authority of the mother. In the exercise of that authority, she is entitled to keep the child in her company. The Court will not deprive her of custody, absent any imperative cause showing her unfitness to exercise such authority and care.” Malinaw rin na nakasaad sa Article 176 of the Family Code na “Illegitimate children shall use the surname and shall be under the parental authority of their mother, and shall be entitled to support in conformity with this Code.”





Thank you for your insight, I really appreciate it.


ayos,,, pagkatapos magpasalamat,

nagreverse... nasan ang appreciation ????


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16 Re: 3 year old child custody on Thu Jun 04, 2015 1:48 pm

Katrina288


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yourhazyness wrote:Good morning, I need your help please sir and mam....

I am a mother of a 3 years old boy and I am not married to his father. I met someone and I realized that I do not want to be with the father of my son. We tried to fix it but my heart belongs to the other man already. I left last year November to be with my boyfriend now and was forced to leave my son to his father until now since he is threatening me about taking me to court and black mailing me. I am visiting my son every weekend and I find that he and his mother (my son's grandmother) is not capable of taking good care of my son, his finger nails are not clean, he is always sick and sometimes left to other family member's when they are busy. What are my options in getting my son back? I am afraid that he will show up at my work and threaten my life or my boyfriend's life if I pursue in taking my son from him without his knowledge.

Please advise, I am in need of your insight, thank you so much!

Hi yourhazyness,

Kung nakatira kayo sa same barangay ng father ng anak mo o ng parents niya (kung saan nakatira ang anak mo), magpatulong ka sa barangay officials para mabawi mo ang anak mo.

Kung ayaw ibigay ang anak mo o hindi masolusyonan sa barangay, maaari ka pong magfile ng Petition for Custody. Malakas ang laban mo kasi ikaw ang ina at ang anak ninyo ay below 7 years old.

Regards,

Atty. Katrina

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