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1 confused dad on Sun Jun 14, 2015 9:05 am

dazeddad


Arresto Menor
Sir good day po, your advice is pretty much needed, hope you can share a time.
Binata po ako, mron po ako nabuntis na nasa tamang age na girl, unmarried, unemployed, meron na po sya anak na 2 from a married man, hndi po sila nagsasama and hndi din po maayos situation nila, wala n po sila for a long time, wala din po sustento ung 2 bata coming from their father, most of the time pag in need ung 2 bata ako po tumutulong, pero ang gamit po nila surname is surname nung father, nabuntis ko po sya, 3rd child/bunso, gamit po and registered under my surname, ako po sumusustento with the needs ng anak ko, weekly nagsasalitan kami sa pagaalaga ng bata, 1 week sa knya, 1 week sa akin, my problem sir, ayaw ako bitawan ng girl, everytime i try to stop the relationship between us just the 2 of us and not the responsibilities sa bata, she either will try to comit suicide or threaten the life of the 3 kids, or will say i will no longer see my daughter, go to the workplace of anyother girl na mkakarelasyon ko and make statements that im not fully aware of, more than once ko npo n-encounter na pinuntahan ko po sya sa bahay nila na gulogulo with the 3 kids sleeping, shes crying with a kitchenknife on the floor and mron din po pagkakataon na pinasundo sa akin daughter ko, saying "anak mo man lang mailigtas mo", mron din po knife sa floor near her, mron din po time na nakipagusap sya sa akin sa bahay namin na mron sya dala kitchenknife. Kinausap ko sya ilan beses na ayusin n nmin legally, hndi daw sya makikipagusap/makikiisa. What are my options po, 1st-safety ng mga bata esp my daughter, 2nd that i will still can see and spend time with my daughter, 3rd that she will not do anything guluhin life ko.. i dont know where to begin.

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2 Re: confused dad on Sun Jun 14, 2015 10:50 am

LandOwner12


Reclusion Perpetua
ang tanong, mahal mo pa ba ang girl,
aba eh, sa dami at kabundok na mga pagsubok ang dumating sa kanya, pasalamat ka at nasa katinuan pa sya...
did you ever think of exchanging shoes with her?
legally, medyo mahirap to.
<7 yold, eh sa nanay, lalo nat illegitimate,,
yong 2 bata, wala kang legal right since di mo anak.

para di ka guluhin, eh di pag-ukulan mo ng walang humpay na pagmamahal,,,

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3 Re: confused dad on Sun Jun 14, 2015 2:39 pm

dazeddad


Arresto Menor
Hndi ko npo mahal ung girl
katinuan, pag nasusunod po gusto nya, pag hndi po ,ganun mga bagay po ginagawa nya.
Mag 2 yo plang po daugther, meaning po wala ako right na hiramin, or magstay sa akin ng ilan araw or even a week from time to time? I will just b a provider?
ung ugali po mhirap pakisamahan, even po mga tao sa bahay nmin npapansin ugali nya eh ayaw sa kanya though pinakikisamahan nman nmin ng maayos
Sa other 2 kids alam ko po wala ako legal rights

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4 Re: confused dad on Sun Jun 14, 2015 2:51 pm

dazeddad


Arresto Menor
I was thinking sir na if pwede, sa kanya daughter nmin since 2 yo plang, ok lng un, but i will be given days with our daughter also, ibabalik ko din nman sa knya, hndi ko itatakas o ilalayo since by law sa kanya dpat ung bata, i will also provide but not monetary,bibilin ko n mismo mga kailangan ng bata, since there is the posibility na if pera eh hndi solely sa daughter ko magagamit, and since providing is responsibility of both parents so dapat magtrabaho din sya?
And the casual nlang po relationship nmin 2, and is there any way thru law to prevent mga stunts nya like putting the lives of the children including herself in danger?

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5 Re: confused dad on Sun Jun 14, 2015 3:15 pm

LandOwner12


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well,
di mo nasagot yong tanong ko, na
nagpag-isipan mo na bang magpalit kayo ng sapatos.??
well,
legally, meron kang visitation rights,
dapat pag-usapan ito ng merong mediation, or merong black and white if needed.
para madistinguish, frequency, duration ng every visit.

pero ang bottomline dito, eh yong feeling nong babae,
kung mahal mo ang anak mo, pag-isipan mo rin to,,,
bago pag-sisihan sa bandang huli,,


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6 Re: confused dad on Wed Jun 17, 2015 11:06 am

dazeddad


Arresto Menor
Maraming salamat po sa lahat. Big help po talaga.

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7 Re: confused dad on Wed Jun 17, 2015 9:23 pm

LandOwner12


Reclusion Perpetua
anytime sir,,
mahalin ang asawa ha..
gud luck.

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