I'm marrried and a mother of two. I found out my husband was having an affair 6 years ago with also a married woman. Thou my husband said he wanted to us back and fix our family on and off within 6 years and still having an affair with the same already married woman, I just found out last January that they already have a child. The mistress actually posted the ultrasound of their baby in Facebook and her friends all commented that it was their child. I also have all the text messages of the mistress confirming that it was their baby and they are living in, only I don't know where. She even insults and accused me of having other men also that my husband she claims told her. She also calls me and my in-laws when my husband is at home to yet insult me again of my being a wife and mother. My husband on the other hand will go back to us and then one day will not go home, phones can't be reached as long as he's with the mistress then he'll tell me that he doesn't love us anyway and chooses teh other one. My question what are teh steps to file a case of concubinage and to have them jailed. As me and my kids were mentally, emotionally tortured. He even threatened my life. Should I really need a lawyer for this or I can just go to police station and file a case and have them jailed. I only know where they actually work. What kind of criminal case and grounds I can file for them for I have been repeatedly abused and tortured mentally and emotionally by the two of them. I have been very forgiving for I just want a peacefull and complete family all along but this pain they are putting me through is too much and already taking so long. I don;t know how and why they do this but everytime I confront them they will laugh at me making me look like I'm just being fooled as what they always text me through SMS. Pls. help me as I want justice. As of now he doesn't support us anymore.