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Annulment or pressumption of death? And wishing to drop husband’s last name

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dpyham


Arresto Menor
Gusto ko po sana malaman atty kung papano at kung maari po ba na wag ko na gamitin yung last name ng asawa ko sa mga documents ko.

More than 3 yrs na po kami hiwalay
3Yrs n din po walang communication..at 3na taon din po xa walang sustento sa anak ko

Kung mag file po ako ng annulment ..papaano po kaya gagawin ko kung ganito na hindi ko po alam kung san xa hahanapin.
pati po papano po ako maghahabol sa sustento.

mas matanda po ako 3 taon sa kanya.
Nagpakasal po kmi dec5 2006 para po sa kapakanan ng magiging anak nmin (legitimacy issues) nanganak po kc aq nun feb1.2007

22 y/o po xa nung nagpakasal kami 25nmn po aq.ayaw po sana magbigay ng parental consent ung papa nya kc jobless po that time yung asawa ko ako namn po may regular na trabaho.
Pero dahil po nag iisang anak nila na lalaki yung asawa ko at lalaki din po magiging apo nila nagbigay nlng din po cla ng consent thru airmail kc nasa bicol po cla.hindi ko lang po sigurado kung sulat kamay po ba un talaga ng tatay nya.anyway nasa legal age nmn npo kami..
Kaso lang po kahit nasa legal age npo kami doesnt mean mature enough n po kami.

Araw araw po kami nag aaway ultimo yata pagkakabit ng kurtina pinag aawayan po nmin.
Dahil ako po ang may regular na trabaho sya po naiiwan sa bahay nagbabantay anak nmin.kaso pagdadating nko aalis npo at magbabarkada na xa.
In short po isip bata po para sa kin ung asawa ko.
Hanggang umabot npo kmi sa paghihiwalay.
4years 9mos din po kami nagsama.

nagkatrabaho din nmn xa s awa po ng dyos sinamahan ko pa po sa agency kasama pa po baby namin kc manila agency. .tapos kumuha kami katulong 3times po kami naghiwalay.
Nung naghiwalay na kami aq pa pumipilit sa kanya dalawin anak namin.kaso sya po may ayaw.
Saka hindi npo xa nagbigay nun para sa bata.hanggang nalaman ko nagresign npo sa
Trabaho at umalis ng laguna.
Mula po2012 wala npo aq balita sa kanya.kahit po mga ate nya d po aq kinakausap.

Kung d npo aq pwede maghabol na sustento, kc d ko po alam whereabouts nya kc wala npo xa kinausap sa mga common friends nmin dito sa laguna.
Ano po ba pwede ko i file,annulment or pressumtion of death? Baka patay na po kaya di na nakakontak sa akin.ang sabi po kc sa kin nung inalisan nya na company ,nagtrabaho daw po sa construction site sa saudi kaya nagresign nung 2012.

Gusto ko na po kc i drop last name nya..ubra po .ba kahit d pa po kmi annul? D po pa aq nagrerenew ng mga govt id ko kc baka pwede po use ko na uli dati ko name..

Also para makahanap nmn po aq legally ng bago magmamahal sa kin na wala pong hassle..start new chapter po nang maayos kumbaga..ayw ko na din naman po makipag reconcile pa sa kanya.kahit sana yung anak ko nalang kausapin nya,kahit d na ako ,makukuntento na sana ako e.kaso wala po lahat.wala paramdam na interesado pa xa anak ko..wala pa sustento.
Move on move on din po di po ba..
Salamat po in advance.

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rda


Prision Mayor
Hi dpyham,

Here are the grounds for annulment

1. Lack of parental consent in certain cases. If a party is 18 years or over, but below 21, and the marriage was solemnized without the consent of the parents/guardian. However, the marriage is validated if, upon reaching 21, the spouses freely cohabited with the other and both lived together as husband and wife.

2. Insanity. A marriage may be annulled if, at the time of marriage, either party was of unsound mind, unless such party after coming to reason, freely cohabited with the other as husband and wife.

3. Fraud. The consent of either party was obtained by fraud, unless such party afterwards, with full knowledge of the facts constituting the fraud, freely cohabited with the other as husband and wife. Fraud includes: (i) non-disclosure of a previous conviction by final judgment of the other party of a crime involving moral turpitude; (ii) concealment by the wife of the fact that at the time of the marriage, she was pregnant by a man other than her husband; (iii) concealment of sexually transmissible disease or STD, regardless of its nature, existing at the time of the marriage; or (iv) concealment of drug addiction, habitual alcoholism or homosexuality or lesbianism existing at the time of the marriage. However, no other misrepresentation or deceit as to character, health, rank, fortune or chastity shall constitute such fraud as will give grounds for action for the annulment of marriage.

4. Force, intimidation or undue influence. If the consent of either party was obtained by any of these means, except in cases wherein the force, intimidation or undue influence having disappeared or ceased, the complaining party thereafter freely cohabited with the other as husband and wife.

5. Impotence. At the time of marriage, either party was physically incapable of consummating the marriage with the other, and such incapacity continues and appears to be incurable. Impotence is different from being infertile.

6. STD. If, at the time of marriage, either party was afflicted with a sexually-transmissible disease found to be serious and appears to be incurable. If the STD is not serious or is curable, it may still constitute fraud (see No. 3 above).


>Not so sure re pressumption of death, maybe wait for someone who will give you info about this and re you dropping off your husband's last name

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concepab


Reclusion Perpetua
Kung hindi ka naman magpapakasal at gusto mo lang mapa-walang bisa ang kasal nyo, maari ka mag-file ng petition for annulment.

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dpyham


Arresto Menor
Gusto ko po sana mag avail ng services ng pao..but may salary req.po..kumikita po aq.ng above sa req.nila..but as solo parent po halos sakto lang income ko sa expenses ko..
Paying house rent
Paying elec and water bill
Paying kasambahay..
Food allowance.
.ill start saving na for lawyer services..
Malabo ko na po mahanap yung asawa ko para masabi ko sana hati kami sa gastos..ung anak nga nmin hindi nya na naalala..
Thank you po sa advices mr./ms rda and concepab..

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dpyham


Arresto Menor
Btw...
Paano po kaya ung child support if i cant locate him?

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rda


Prision Mayor
dpyham wrote:Gusto ko po sana mag avail ng services ng pao..but may salary req.po..kumikita po aq.ng above sa req.nila..but as solo parent po halos sakto lang income ko sa expenses ko..
Paying house rent
Paying elec and water bill
Paying kasambahay..
Food allowance.
.ill start saving na for lawyer services..
Malabo ko na po mahanap yung asawa ko para masabi ko sana hati kami sa gastos..ung anak nga nmin hindi nya na naalala..
Thank you po sa advices mr./ms rda and concepab..

kausapin mo ung tga PAO, tell them the whole story cguro nmn magiging considerate cla knowing that you are a single parent. Smile and ask themn n lng what else can you give them as a proof that you are not really capable of hiring a private lawyer.

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rda


Prision Mayor
dpyham wrote:Btw...
Paano po kaya ung child support if i cant locate him?

ayun lng... kelangan kc alam mo tlga ang address nia kc dun nio (or ng lawyer) ipapadala ung demand letter mo for child support.

Maybe try all the resources that you have pr ma-locate ung asawa mo. Family friends, kung alam mo bahay nila ng parent nia, e di dun mooipadala, kung ndi ka nmn sure sa exact address pero alam mo ung mismong bahay, punta ka sa brgy,pasama ka sa knila pra at least khitparents or cnu man sa family nia eh mrreceive ung letter, for sure ssbhin nila un sa asawa mo. Smile

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anonymouscrs


Arresto Menor
I was separated for 15 yrs and since then I already dropped and never use my husband's last name.Went in and out the country for over 15 times and been using my maidens name ever since.I was allowed and by all means permitted by DFA to use and renew my passport using my maiden name since it is not fraud and by all means my right wether to use or attached his name to my name.

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concepab


Reclusion Perpetua
anonymouscrs wrote:I was separated for 15 yrs and since then I already dropped and never use my husband's last name.Went in and out the country for over 15 times and been using my maidens name ever since.I was allowed and by all means permitted by DFA to use and renew my passport using my maiden name since it is not fraud and by all means my right wether to use or attached his name to my name.

A married woman is not obliged to use her husband’s surname. That is clearly stated in the Civil Code of the Philippines. The law gives a married woman the option to use the surname of her husband.

In the case of renewal of passport, a married woman may either adopt her husband’s surname or continuously use her maiden name. If she chooses to adopt her husband’s surname in her new passport, the DFA additionally requires the submission of an authenticated copy of the marriage certificate. Otherwise, if she prefers to continue using her maiden name, she may still do so. The DFA will not prohibit her from continuously using her maiden name.

However, once a married woman, opted to adopt her husband’s surname in her passport, she may not revert to the use of her maiden name, except in the cases enumerated in Section 5(d) of Republic Act 8239. These instances are: (1) death of husband, (2) divorce, (3) annulment or (4) nullity of marriage. Since petitioner’s marriage to her husband subsists, she may not resume her maiden name in the replacement passport. Otherwise stated, a married woman’s reversion to the use of her maiden name must be based only on the severance of the marriage.”

This should explain why DFA allowed you to continuously use your maiden name in your passport.

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dpyham


Arresto Menor
Good thing my passport remain under my maiden name..
Yung government id’s ko po ang napalitan..like SSS .. Saka sa company id ko.... Atun po yung concern ko..
So pwede po pala na kapag nag fi fill up ako ng documents e maiden name isulat ko..ilalagay ko lang separated ako..Not legally but nnwawala kase asawa ko.
Hindi pa po ako nakapunta sa province ng asawa ko.
Pati in-laws ko never tried contacting me.alam naman po nila kung san ako nagtatrabaho.
I tried searching them sa facebook but maybe their using aliases kaya hindi ko masearch.
I tried creating new fb account kase baka naka block lang ung account ko sa kanila but wala po talaga..
Wala silang pinakitang interest na kausapin ako regarding sa anak namin na inabandona ng asawa ko..that is why im asking if pwede kaya yung assumption of death sa case ko.
If my husband dont want to contact me..and not interested anymore sa anak namin,ok lang..some men are really born idiots.
Im not holding him back..Bakit pa?
Some lessons are learned the hard way.

I hope my mag respond dito na lawyer na mejo affordable maningil.. ✌😜

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concepab


Reclusion Perpetua
dpyham wrote:Good thing my passport remain under my maiden name..
Yung government id’s ko po ang napalitan..like SSS .. Saka sa company id ko.... Atun po yung concern ko..
So pwede po pala na kapag nag fi fill up ako ng documents e maiden name isulat ko..ilalagay ko lang separated ako..Not legally but nnwawala kase asawa ko.
Hindi pa po ako nakapunta sa province ng asawa ko.
Pati in-laws ko never tried contacting me.alam naman po nila kung san ako nagtatrabaho.
I tried searching them sa facebook but maybe their using aliases kaya hindi ko masearch.
I tried creating new fb account kase baka naka block lang ung account ko sa kanila but wala po talaga..
Wala silang pinakitang interest na kausapin ako regarding sa anak namin na inabandona ng asawa ko..that is why im asking if pwede kaya yung assumption of death sa case ko.
If my husband dont want to contact me..and not interested anymore sa anak namin,ok lang..some men are really born idiots.
Im not holding him back..Bakit pa?
Some lessons are learned the hard way.

I hope my mag respond dito na lawyer na mejo affordable maningil.. ✌😜


Annulment ang kailangan mo.

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dpyham


Arresto Menor
pwede po bang mag file kahit d ko po alam kung nasaan xa?

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